ufos77:

To effectively forget her, you need to see women in their worst form.
Go to a club/ night spot with money to burn and see what they will do for money. Then you will better control your emotions in matters of women. You are still young

Two RESPONSES! First my GOOD SIDE!

pendo89:

First cut is the deepest op. Rod stewart.
You are going through a process which in many cases is inevitable when you embark on something new.
C, with time she will fade into oblivion, so try to keep yourself very busy,explore new stuff,enjoy your hobbies and make new friends.
A baby's first walks are usually not easy.The falling and hurting make their legs strong not only for walking but running as well.
you will love again for sure. Take heart

Pendo89 spoke my GOOD SIDE! Take Heart!

NOW! My BAAAD SIDE!

tenderheart!!!:


[size=15pt]I recently turned 20[/size] nd feel [size=15pt]in love 4 d very 1st tym[/size] wt a girl I really luv, I loved evrytin about her, U know when U always wanna make sum1 happy, U dnt disturb her, U dnt stalk her around, U buy her gift, neva evn asked her 4 a kiss let alone thinking of 4nicating wt her, U [size=15pt]sees her as your younger sis[/size] nd U're hoping things works out btw U both, [size=15pt]U're luking so deep in2 d future[/size], U hide nuffin 4rm her,
[size=15pt]About 5 months or so in2 d relationship,[/size] [size=15pt]m trying hard to 4get her, deleted all her pictures, msges, deleted her 4rm my fb list nd avnt talked to her in lyk 2 weeks now but @ tyms, contrary to my wish tho, I still go to check ha fb profile, it's really hurting to know dt, she really doesn't care about me,[/size]

Jeez! 20 year old undergraduate already looking for LOVE instead of facing your STUDIES? WTF! You see her as your YOUNGER SISTER! HELL! BEHAVE LIKE HER OLDER BROTHER! That's the way she sees you too! How you failed to realize that earlier beggars relief! You are looking deep into the future at this stage of your life already? You hide nothing from her? Really? JUST 5 MONTHS INTO A RELATIONSHIP AND YOU CONCLUDE YOU HAVE FOUND YOUR FUTURE WIFE? Is that DUMB? or PLAIN ST[b]U[/b]PID? You delete her pics, msgs, remove her as a friend on FB and you still go to check on Stalk her ON FACEBOOK? LMAO!!! YOU smack me as IMMATURE! SO NOT IMPRESSED!

tenderheart!!!:

[size=15pt]What do I do nairalanders,[/size]

[size=20pt]GROW THA F^*K UP!!! [/size]

190_@:

sexkills dont you think more Jobs should be created in  Lekki lagos

and dont people go 2 school these days anymore 

Yes Bro! I concur! The state of JOBLESSNESS in Lekki is BAD! But i heard UK is WORSE, and that Leamington-Spa Midlands is WORST! Most of our Boiz over there had no choice than to LOOT! I even heard that one of NL'S ROMANCE sections Most Romantic DUDE, added insult to the LOOTING injury, by NYANSHING a helpless resident! His A.S.S was caught on CNN, performing the act! I AGREE WITH YOU!

tenderheart!!!:

I've been a member of ds forum 4 a very long tym, m mur of a reader dan a poster nd d romance section is my favourite,

As regards d topic I chose, It's my personal xperience nd it happened to a friend also, I cnt start blowing my trumpet but seriously I'm a ghud guy, cute nd brainy, I recently turned 20 nd feel in love 4 d very 1st tym wt a girl I really luv, I loved evrytin about her, U know when U always wanna make sum1 happy, U dnt disturb her, U dnt stalk her around, U buy her gift, neva evn asked her 4 a kiss let alone thinking of 4nicating wt her, U sees her as your younger sis nd U're hoping things works out btw U both, U're luking so deep in2 d future, U hide nuffin 4rm her, nt evn your fb account details, U both av d same mind set nd she claims to love U also, U see lyk 1ns or 2ce in 2 weeks evn tho U're in d same college, as a gud guy, all U want 4rm her is real love nd companionship, U dnt flirt around wt oda girls cos U really do luv nd respect her but then She always make U feel insecure
About 5 months or so in2 d relationship, she wakes up one day nd tells U she afraid what U both are doing is not fornication but could mean immorality nd dt Shez heaven conscious nd dt U shld pls, just b normal friends, wat nonsense!!!
Ds is a person who knows U too well, sum1 who hasn't asked U 4 evn a kiss or a hug, so, where does d immorality come in
Now my heart is broken 4 d 1st tym nd as it is now, I'm soooo afraid to ask any oda gel out, I feel so lonely nd cheated( a guy nd not a girl) isn't dt strange
What do I do nairalanders, m trying hard to 4get her, deleted all her pictures, msges, deleted her 4rm my fb list nd avnt talked to her in lyk 2 weeks now but @ tyms, contrary to my wish tho, I still go to check ha fb profile, it's really hurting to know dt, she really doesn't care about me, I think I dnt deserve such treatment, not a guy like me, ffin 4rm her, nt evn your fb account details, U both av d same mind set nd she claims to love U also, U see lyk 1ns or 2ce in 2 weeks evn tho U're in d same college, as a gud guy, all U want 4rm her is real love nd companionship, U dnt flirt around wt oda girls cos U really do luv nd respect her but then She always make U feel insecure
About 5 months or so in2 d relationship, she wakes up one day nd tells U she afraid what U both are doing is not fornication but could mean immorality nd dt Shez heaven conscious nd dt U shld pls, just b normal friends, wat nonsense!!!
Ds is a person who knows U too well, sum1 who hasn't asked U 4 evn a kiss or a hug, so, where does d immorality come in
Now my heart is broken 4 d 1st tym nd as it is now, I'm soooo afraid to ask any oda gel out, I feel so lonely nd cheated( a guy nd not a girl) isn't dt strange
What do I do nairalanders, m trying hard to 4get her, deleted all her pictures, msges, deleted her 4rm my fb list nd avnt talked to her in lyk 2 weeks now but @ tyms, contrary to my wish tho, I still go to check ha fb profile, it's really hurting to know dt, she really doesn't care about me, I think I dnt deserve such treatment, not a guy like me,

amblors:

awww, sorry man.
2wks aint enuf to forget som1 u loved that much,
allow yourself time, for the hurt to go,
the easiest way would be to jump into another relationship
but that's not recommended coz it would probably b short, inflicting HB num 2 on you on u'll b dealing your first blow on a lady.
take your time aite.

Jenifa_:

If she saw this thread, don't you think that her heart will be broken as well?

How did you come to the conclusion that she doesn't care about you just because she's 18 and doesn't yet want to commit to a serious relationship. In fact, she must be a very smart and intelligent christian girl. I can see from your post that you also are a very nice guy.

I understand where you're coming from but you must realize that she probably felt that she was compromising her values and morals to satisfy your need for companionship. I think you should try to find other ways to cure your loneliness. make more male friends, find a hobby etc.

In the future, you too will break a girls' heart. that's life for u. you give and take
in fact, this girl you are talking about will also have her heart broken when you move on to d next girl. because it does seem that she cares about you but she's trying to keep her morals.