I decided to stay away from any relationship talk on nairaland but something caught my attention this morning. I saw on instablog, a guy crying over his girlfriend who left him and got married to another guy.

Now I'm forced to ask, why will a guy with functioning brains cry over a girl who is broke, unfaithful, disloyal, lazy, selfish, self entitled, arrogant and lots more of stupid characters. If she is just a girlfriend, why spend so much on her that you can't let go? Girls, especially most Nigerian girls are never loyal, once she is not home with you, she is definitely for another. Why will you cry over someone who has got multiple boyfriends and is waiting for the one who pops the question first "will you marry me?".

Guys should stop investing heavily on girls, most are not worth it. The only thing in most Nigerian girls head are Sharwama, pizza, relationship, jumping from one man to another, twerking up and down, TikTok and other frivolities. Nigerian girls only marry who is ready, know this and know peace.

I did oo... But I regret it now

Brotherly

bigpicture001:
I did oo... But I regret it now

Why u cry?

Because the invest their emotions into the relationship instead of sense

killmods:

Why u cry?

Sh was my best... I didn't have money.. sh stayed.. aand even assisted me to get a stand.. but while trying to get my foot standing.. I faltered and fell again.. this time.. sh left..

And alone.. I fought my way through.. now am standing and sh is nowhere to b found... I cried and begged for her return sh refuse.. just because of popular quotes everywhere " don't return to ur ex,"

Sh assisted my huzle with 500k.. and stood with me when I practically ate fries all day.. I was so lanky den aand looked like a scarecrow.. but sh stayed ND help me fight it out.. again.. sh never cheats...

Where will I see such girl again.. till today I miss. Her

B deceiving ur self there u hear.....

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Sh was my best... I didn't have money.. sh stayed.. aand even assisted me to get a stand.. but while trying to get my foot standing.. I faltered and fell again.. this time.. sh left..

And alone.. I fought my way through.. now am standing and sh is nowhere to b found... I cried and begged for her return sh refuse.. just because of popular quotes everywhere " don't return to ur ex,"

Sh assisted my huzle with 500k.. and stood with me when I practically ate fries all day.. I was so lanky den aand looked like a scarecrow.. but sh stayed ND help me fight it out.. again.. sh never cheats...

Where will I see such girl again.. till today I miss. Her
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B deceiving ur self there u hear.

bigpicture001:


Sh was my best... I didn't have money.. sh stayed.. aand even assisted me to get a stand.. but while trying to get my foot standing.. I faltered and fell again.. this time.. sh left..

And alone.. I fought my way through.. now am standing and sh is nowhere to b found... I cried and begged for her return sh refuse.. just because of popular quotes everywhere " don't return to ur ex,"

Sh assisted my huzle with 500k.. and stood with me when I practically ate fries all day.. I was so lanky den aand looked like a scarecrow.. but sh stayed ND help me fight it out.. again.. sh never cheats...

Where will I see such girl again.. till today I miss. Her

Well I find it funny she refused to love u the way she did because of popular quotes.. she's probably in a better place or so she thinks. And whoever told u that u can't find such girls anymore? Bro where one stop another dey when go start from there. No need killing urself over what's gone already. Now that he standing well open eye well u go see her type and even better than her. Just don't be flaunting material things doesn't mean u go stingy. Just do what u have to make those girls with shovel no near u with deceptive cloaking. Life goes on... live it

bigpicture001:


Sh was my best... I didn't have money.. sh stayed.. aand even assisted me to get a stand.. but while trying to get my foot standing.. I faltered and fell again.. this time.. sh left..

And alone.. I fought my way through.. now am standing and sh is nowhere to b found... I cried and begged for her return sh refuse.. just because of popular quotes everywhere " don't return to ur ex,"

Sh assisted my huzle with 500k.. and stood with me when I practically ate fries all day.. I was so lanky den aand looked like a scarecrow.. but sh stayed ND help me fight it out.. again.. sh never cheats...

Where will I see such girl again.. till today I miss. Her

Why did she leave? What did you do?

killmods:

Well I find it funny she refused to love u the way she did because of popular quotes.. she's probably in a better place or so she thinks. And whoever told u that u can't find such girls anymore? Bro where one stop another dey when go start from there. No need killing urself over what's gone already. Now that he standing well open eye well u go see her type and even better than her. Just don't be flaunting material things doesn't mean u go stingy. Just do what u have to make those girls with shovel no near u with deceptive cloaking. Life goes on... live it

This days even the bank. Ladies they chase someone anyhow cuz of plenty transaction I do in different bannks... But once a while while being friends with them after bringing them close.. I stylishly put up some financial p.. and ask for thier assisst..

Guy see Ben Johnson.. and no no no.. well I have come to conclude a man gets a love of his life once in a life time..

I missed. Mine.. so by next year.. I will go and buy a wife.. cuz what I see are self-centered, stingy, egocentric lieing ladies everywhere...

But I can't marry myself.. so I must choose fromm the lot..

Marriage time done come

bigpicture001:


This days even the bank. Ladies they chase someone anyhow cuz of plenty transaction I do in different bannks... But once a while while being friends with them after bringing them close.. I stylishly put up some financial p.. and ask for thier assisst..

Guy see Ben Johnson.. and no no no.. well I have come to conclude a man gets a love of his life once in a life time ..

I missed. Mine.. so by next year.. I will go and buy a wife.. cuz what I see are self-centered, stingy, egocentric lieing ladies everywhere...

But I can't marry myself.. so I must choose fromm the lot..

Marriage time done come

That ur conclusion dey very wrong. There's no such thing as once in a life time love. The next one might even be more real and deeper than the previous one. Well its all up to u. For as a man thinketh in his heart...

Rozross:
Why did she leave? What did you do?

Nothing.. no cheating, no fighting, mutual respect aand trust.. nothing at all..

Her issue with me is that if every laady.. they assume they are God that can see. The future.. sh assumes I will not stand again.. and sh broke up as a means to block herself from being my pillar financially to stand up again...

Now it's two years, and sh is even richer.. and me am now grown from unit of thousands to multi - unit millions...

She is in her second relationship since den.. but now with another good guy also..

Wen I met her physio before her current relationship, sh was quoting popular online stuffs.. "don't go back to an ex"...

Well we'll.. it's life.. no one died!

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Nothing.. no cheating, no fighting, mutual respect aand trust.. nothing at all..

Her issue with me is that if every laady.. they assume they are God that can see. The future.. sh assumes I will not stand again.. and sh broke up as a means to block herself from being my pillar financially to stand up again...

Now it's two years, and sh is even richer.. and me am now grown from unit of thousands to multi - unit millions...

She is in her second relationship since den.. but now with another good guy also..

Wen I met her physio before her current relationship, sh was quoting popular online stuffs.. "don't go back to an ex"...

Well we'll.. it's life.. no one died!

Well, she tried sha it was you who failed her. You should be praying for her always kos she did her best for you

Rozross:
Well, she tried sha it was you who failed her. You should be praying for her always kos she did her best for you

How did I fail her.. that business failed is me failing... Do u know I was close to sniper wen that happened..?

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How did I fail her.. that business failed is me failing... Do u know I was close to sniper wen that happened..?

For what na, abeg e never reach that one. There are still good women out there. Don’t go looking for love, be good and just do your thing and it will surely find you

Because he is a SIMP.

Simple as that.

Rozross:
For what na, abeg e never reach that one. There are still good women out there. Don’t go looking for love, be good and just do your thing and it will surely find you

The sniper thought wasn't cuz of her.. it was cuz I lost all my capital ND yet still owe ppl over 700k.... I saw no road back..

Guess what! My ex never gave me those soothing words of encouragement, instead it's anger, frowned face, blame ND dumping....

I saw shege that period, emotionally

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The sniper thought wasn't cuz of her.. it was cuz I lost all my capital ND yet still owe ppl over 700k.... I saw no road back..

Guess what! My ex never gave me those soothing words of encouragement, instead it's anger, frowned face, blame ND dumping....

I saw shege that period, emotionally

Hope you are ok now, never let any situation drive you into such thoughts ever again. Always remember that joy comes in the morning after the darkest of night

Rozross:
Hope you are ok now, never let any situation drive you into such thoughts ever again. Always remember that joy comes in the morning after the darkest of night

Yes I am.. thanks for your words

Rozross:
Hope you are ok now, never let any situation drive you into such thoughts ever again. Always remember that joy comes in the morning after the darkest of night

Do u know how I managed to escape the situation..?

Truely help comes in places u least expect...

A runs girl in my area who is my client, is who noticed my closure of business ND asked me... I told her how thieves ND sales person stole my money away.. couple with bad business decisions...

The babe surprised me with a loan of 300k.. I couldn't blive it.. common "runs girl"...
It was with her money am now Worth 4 million

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Do u know how I managed to escape the situation..?

Truely help comes in places u least expect...

A runs girl in my area who is my client, is who noticed my closure of business ND asked me... I told her how thieves ND sales person stole my money away.. couple with bad business decisions...

The babe surprised me with a loan of 300k.. I couldn't blive it.. common "runs girl"...
It was with her money am now Worth 4 million

Then you should be with the runs girl but tell her to quit. You are lucky to be meeting women who easily help you with money, if it’s me I’ll not give because I don’t believe in helping boyfriend. It’s only my male relative and future husband that I can help with money.

Rozross:
Then you should be with the runs girl but tell her to quit. You are lucky to be meeting women who easily help you with money, if it’s me I’ll not give because I don’t believe in helping boyfriend. It’s only my male relative and future husband that I can help with money.

When u see a genuine loving and commited guy to u... ND he truely needs the money for growth u will give him...

ND who told u my gf gave me as dash it was borrow.... I later wanted to pay her back.. sh declined....

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When u see a genuine loving and commited guy to u... ND he truely needs the money for growth u will give him...

ND who told u my gf gave me as dash it was borrow.... I later wanted to pay her back.. sh declined....

Maybe you are right sha.

bigpicture001:
I did oo... But I regret it now

Go and Simp no more..

Relationship talk/advice I don't give advice again on that, he that doesn't want to use his head will learn the hard way....

No woman...No Cry

bigpicture001:


Sh was my best... I didn't have money.. sh stayed.. aand even assisted me to get a stand.. but while trying to get my foot standing.. I faltered and fell again.. this time.. sh left..

And alone.. I fought my way through.. now am standing and sh is nowhere to b found... I cried and begged for her return sh refuse.. just because of popular quotes everywhere " don't return to ur ex,"

Sh assisted my huzle with 500k.. and stood with me when I practically ate fries all day.. I was so lanky den aand looked like a scarecrow.. but sh stayed ND help me fight it out.. again.. sh never cheats...

Where will I see such girl again.. till today I miss. Her

Please you are a grown man write very well

This is just what i was talkin' about....Nigerians and their lousy attitude online...Especially the guys❗❗❗❗.....So Funny-ish....

krissconnect:
I decided to stay away from any relationship talk on nairaland but something caught my attention this morning. I saw on instablog, a guy crying over his girlfriend who left him and got married to another guy.

Now I'm forced to ask, why will a guy with functioning brains cry over a girl who is broke, unfaithful, disloyal, lazy, selfish, self entitled, arrogant and lots more of stupid characters. If she is just a girlfriend, why spend so much on her that you can't let go? Girls, especially most Nigerian girls are never loyal, once she is not home with you, she is definitely for another. Why will you cry over someone who has got multiple boyfriends and is waiting for the one who pops the question first "will you marry me?".

Guys should stop investing heavily on girls, most are not worth it. The only thing in most Nigerian girls head are Sharwama, pizza, relationship, jumping from one man to another, twerking up and down, TikTok and other frivolities. Nigerian girls only marry who is ready, know this and know peace.

We tell them oooo...its common sense that u should not pay for a woman to date you....how can u place a girlfriend on monthly salary, be paying rent, buying clothes, phone etc...woman that can be sleeping with someone else.....But they dont listen..

.Theses babes too will attack us calling it hatred and misogyny when we talk about these things....

some dirty men too that can toast women lookimg for cheap pvssy will join them calling us childish and immature....later then will come and cry like babies...

Anybody that open thread here crying a lady jilted him after spending money must be banned for 342.5 years....

SandraIkuboR:
This is just what i was talkin' about....Nigerians and their lousy attitude online...Especially the guys❗❗❗❗.....So Funny-ish....

Go else where if you dont find topics in romance section engaging .... ....go to Quora or reddit... u are just going ballistic over people talking about their experience and what they notice on social media, yet you are doing the same thing