Briefly please, I have a girl that I intend to marry(she’s not aware yet), but she’s been some how negative lately;misbehavior, claiming woke on some feminist’s ish, alot of things to say but no need.
What I really want is for someone to recommend a good spy app (especially WhatsApp) for me, so that I can monitor her phone to see if I should go on with the whole plan or abort.
See some of the posts of a lady in a supposed serious relationship on WhatsApp status(apart from the nairaland post) below.
And again, with the news of infidelity in marriage these days, one has to be cautious all round.

NB: If you don’t have the right/relevant information to my request, please pass/ignore.

Man, shut the Bleep up and quit if you can't. It's not a must to marry same as Heaven [ not a must to make Heaven ]

fati2001:
Man, shut the Bleep up and quit if you can't. It's not a must to marry same as Heaven [ not a must to make Heaven ]

Did he break a nerve? Did he remind you of a traumatic experience? Cos the outburst is pretty unnecessary.

Samakus:


Did he break a nerve? Did he remind you of a traumatic experience? Cos the outburst is pretty unnecessary.

I laugh.

Most of you talking about infidelity towards Women is that not your natural flaw? Or is the Op free from the insecurity [which is infidelity ].

fati2001:



I laugh.

Most of you talking about infidelity towards Women is that not your natural flaw? Or is the Op free from the insecurity [which is infidelity ].

I'm just against the unprovoked vituperations. Totally unwarranted. Man was just seeking to mitigate against marrying a loose partner. I don't see how that should cut a nerve of another person unless there's something else you're not telling us

I will advice not to spy or test ur partner.

Samakus:


I'm just against the unprovoked vituperations. Totally unwarranted. Man was just seeking to mitigate against marrying a loose partner. I don't see how that should cut a nerve of another person unless there's something else you're not telling us

Whatever Man.

He should be wronging about his flaws and how to improve himself if he happens to see a partner with no flaws.

E. g, him planing on how to spy. Is that a good trait of a human being? or is he free from the insecurity he's complaining about?

fati2001:


Whatever Man.

He should be wronging about his flaws and how to improve himself if he happens to see a partner with no flaws.

E. g, him planing on how to spy. Is that a good trait of a human being? or is he free from the insecurity he's complaining about?

I wonder what's wrong in seeking to obtain basis to trust your partner or otherwise. I would love it if my partner tests me to see if I'm truly who I say that I am.

Trust is not given, it's earned.


What kind of generation is this? Feeling all uneasy when being tested, yet going full nuts when trust is not given as it's not earned. Gosh.

Clear conscience fears no testing. Why the uneasiness?

Samakus:


I wonder what's wrong in seeking to obtain basis to trust your partner or otherwise. I would love it if my partner tests me to see if I'm truly who I say that I am.

Trust is not given, it's earned.


What kind of generation is this? Feeling all uneasy when being tested, yet going full nuts when trust is not given as it's not earned. Gosh.

Clear conscience fears no testing. Why the uneasiness?

You shouldn’t have replied him…

Redemption77:


You shouldn’t have replied him…

Needed to put him in his place. Sometimes ignoring bad behaviour is adding fuel for its continuation

Mission accomplished

fati2001:


Whatever Man.

He should be wronging about his flaws and how to improve himself if he happens to see a partner with no flaws.

E. g, him planing on how to spy. Is that a good trait of a human being? or is he free from the insecurity he's complaining about?

Typical feminist. The fact that she refused to disclose the name of the person who bought her the phone and you think he should get into a marriage with her ? You're probably used to seeing your mother and the females in your family lie to their husbands and boyfriends which is why you think he is in the wrong. The nerve !

Samakus:


I wonder what's wrong in seeking to obtain basis to trust your partner or otherwise. I would love it if my partner tests me to see if I'm truly who I say that I am.

Trust is not given, it's earned.


What kind of generation is this? Feeling all uneasy when being tested, yet going full nuts when trust is not given as it's not earned. Gosh.

Clear conscience fears no testing. Why the uneasiness?

Why are you wasting time responding to a low IQ feminist like Fati ?

seemlilystun:


Why are you wasting time responding to a low IQ feminist like Fati ?

Same thing I asked him because not everyone deserves a reply no matter the provocation.