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Like if you’re not a fans of marriage , share if you are.

hartopher76:
Married people, have you ever come to a point were you feel that outside your children, you have no other business with your wife.

90% of married men are at this stage.
The typical African woman is incapable of unconditional love,unlike men who can see a woman with no money,no job,no skill,no career,no fine face,no height, no nyash,yet still go for her.
But for the African woman,you must bring something.

hartopher76:
Married people, have you ever come to a point were you feel that outside your children, you have no other business with your wife.

Marriage is a work in progress and a journey. Its what u put into it u get out and also who u choose as a partner on that journey.

It's well oo make una no let us they fear marriage

My advice?

Stay tf away from marriage!

When it isn't fun anymore, and by fun i mean, the other person's presence irtitates you, just leave.

Never wife a ho




You introduce us to your bitchy wifey and we know she sluttin

seanwilliam:
Like if you’re not a fans of marriage , like if you are.

read your comment.

sondeis:
Our prayer should be that we marry our wife. If you marry ur wife, challenges go dey but not to that extent.

Na the woman wey u pay her bride price be your wife..... Which one is let's pray we marry our wife

hartopher76:
Married people, have you ever come to a point were you feel that outside your children, you have no other business with your wife.

Ah married people. Why una dey make us fear na?

It's a long long road. What's happening along the road ooo! Updates!!!

If your spouse has listening ear, have a heart to heart talk and see how best your can resolve your differences and if that still doesn't work, you can meet a specialist (therapist) to help in savaging your marriage.
Divorce is not always the best especially because of the children.
I wish you the very best.

nony43:
That’s why I love Oyibo, they understand themselves a lot of them don’t want to marry they have partners , they knack, have kids and still stay with each other. They want everything that marriages brings but they don’t want it to be legally binding. My friend has a partner and they have stayed together for 36 years. I told him to put a ring on it , he said he and his partner doesn’t want marriage. So many people are like that.

Believe me it is the best.

Exactly. I always ask them y

Tboy222:
Marriage is an institution that has no operating manual, only God keeps marriages nothing else.

God bless you for this price of information

Koild:
It always gets to that point but what counts is your friendship. That's why I always advice people to marry their friends

That marrying your friend of a thing is not working again because of the selfishness of the ladies. And that's why this things are happening. As a man, ur female friend won't marry you if you're not rich.

Marriage becomes toxic?! It means lot's of their misunderstanding have been swept under the rugs they're not communicating well with each other to see the problem solved! And when keep on not discussing these issues it becomes a problems in the marriage. No matter what let's talk about it! I have seen marriages destroyed by the 2 parties with shitty characters and I have seen marriages saved where there's multitudes of councils!

Many rush into marriage thinking they don't have crucial roles to play in sustaining it.

It's either you forgot quickly why you married your partner OR you weren't even mentally and psychologically ready i.e you lacked the maturity.

Always remember that marriage is 'advanced friendship'. You're friends with him/ her on a totally different level from every other friend. Now comes children. The more reason to become stronger partners because you're there to protect and guide them.

If you neglect all these, then you, or your partner as well, are merely 'children' who fail to understand marriage as dutiful and not just some societal rites!

nony43:
That’s why I love Oyibo, they understand themselves a lot of them don’t want to marry they have partners , they knack, have kids and still stay with each other. They want everything that marriages brings but they don’t want it to be legally binding. My friend has a partner and they have stayed together for 36 years. I told him to put a ring on it , he said he and his partner doesn’t want marriage. So many people are like that.

Believe me it is the best.

shey na life b dat

Marriage nah patch! patch!! The more you patch the more you see errors. Best option in marriage is try to be a Raster ferrain. . Feel ire all the time.

nony43:
That’s why I love Oyibo, they understand themselves a lot of them don’t want to marry they have partners , they knack, have kids and still stay with each other. They want everything that marriages brings but they don’t want it to be legally binding. My friend has a partner and they have stayed together for 36 years. I told him to put a ring on it , he said he and his partner doesn’t want marriage. So many people are like that.

Believe me it is the best.

In the religious eye they are committing fornication

I feel like marriages after x amount of years loses maybe it spark
But what those two people have is mutual respect for each other and respect for the things we they both cherish
Getting to a certain point it the unexpected that makes ones marriage interesting not really what we see in Indian movies

niel63:


Ah married people. Why una dey make us fear na?

It's a long long road. What's happening along the road ooo! Updates!!!

you don't have to be afraid. Just pray to be lucky.
If you make a mistake and find it a burden, it's either you quit and be alive or you endure and die in the long run.

Some people (man and woman) are posseed by evil spirit. When peace tries to prevail,, that evil spirit will awaken them.

I talk from experience.

RepoMan007:
read your comment.

Tboy222:
Marriage is an institution that has no operating manual, only God keeps marriages nothing else.

I agreed

sondeis:
Our prayer should be that we marry our wife. If you marry ur wife, challenges go dey but not to that extent.

No matter how much you say those prayers, Life will always happen. Life is not partial and does not pretend to favor you remaining married or not. So, even if you married your wife, marriage can still eventually end. So don't beat yourself up thinking these things define you as an individual.

CaptainAyub:

90% of married men are at this stage.
The typical African woman is incapable of unconditional love,unlike men who can see a woman with no money,no job,no skill,no career,no fine face,no height, no nyash,yet still go for her.
But for the African woman,you must bring something.

African men are as much to blame afterall, it takes two to make a marriage.

CaptainAyub:

90% of married men are at this stage.
The typical African woman is incapable of unconditional love,unlike men who can see a woman with no money,no job,no skill,no career,no fine face,no height, no nyash,yet still go for her.
But for the African woman,you must bring something.

Hahaha.

African men, the Saints; the modern day Mother Theresas.

jaxxy:
Marriage is a work in progress and a journey. Its what u put into it u get out and also who u choose as a partner on that journey.

Businesses can fail...and so also marriages. Life goes on whichever one happens.

Tboy222:
Marriage is an institution that has no operating manual, only God keeps marriages nothing else.

God told you over 2000 years ago that your marriages are of this world and not of the Kingdom of God - Luke 20 vs 34 - 36 - so where do you lot get this idea that it is God that keeps your marriages?

Life shouldn't be bitter, so whoever that wants to make it bitter for one, is not in the best interest to be regarded.....

Atimes we apply a bit tolerance but we shouldn't be too fake to accept heart attack as well....

The issues in marriage are best known between the couple than from any third party. And is only them that can solve it and rest....

Marriage na suicide mission.... I repeat Marriage na suicide mission ... peson where no go marry get peace of mind... lol