Rozross:
I would apologise and make up for my mistakes so that the money and attention can continue from where it stops. So he should also do same

If he decides he's not ready to forgive you and is still pissed and the money and attention isn't flowing yet, is he excused?

virginprincess:
I can't also take that num 3&4,like i have every right to question his going in and his coming out,and i also have the right as his legally married wife to question any woman i see with him but for that num2,i don't think i can deny my hubby sex,it his right and property,denying a man sex can push him to cheat and i won't want that,for your num1,i don't think there is any reason to check my husband's phone especially whatapp,emails and fackbook massages when i truly trust him expect i don't and i know he can't deny me access to his phone.

Hello babe two plate of cat fish and Cold five alive for this woman

I love that

Never deny your husband sex
A one night sex deny can make a man change or loose interest or find interest in another woman …

if your husband Bleep up and he want sex if he comes tell him way thing pain you straight up
Before beeping don’t keep hate for your man

NeeKlaus:

If he decides he's not ready to forgive you and is still pissed and the money and attention isn't flowing yet, is he excused?

Is he not my husband? I definitely know his weaknesses and know where and when to get him soften

Rozross:
Is he not my husband? I definitely know his weaknesses and know where and when to get him soften

How did u get on my friend's nerves?

RichProminent:
How did u get on my friend's nerves?

Which of your friend? �‍♀️

Rozross:
Which of your friend? �‍♀️

The one who tagged my Obama account.

RichProminent:
The one who tagged my Obama account.

Nothing serious, we’ve settled it. He was trolling my friends and I asked him to stop

una still de marry for this country??

Na waooo......May God help us.

My wife to be can starve me of sex when I offend.....But she should not starve me of food.

So many men are going through sex starvation from their wives as we speak......If na lie, Take a cab down to Igando customary court.

Rozross, Remember, Men are polygamous in Nature......Know this and know peace in ya marriage..

Infidelity and physical abuse are a deal breaker for me.

If he cheats or lays his hands on me just once, we're done.

Rozross:
The following are the marriage advise I can never take. (1). Don’t check his phone: I will check his phone if I’m suspecting him because i don’t play with my territory and I also don’t want what happened to May Yul Edochie to ever surface in my marriage. (2). Don’t deny him sex: I will deny him sex if he offends me and we’ve not sorted it out, I’m human with feelings and not some piece of furniture. (3). Don’t question his movement: I will question his unGodly movements, you can’t be married and not show some act of responsibility, a married man shouldn’t keep late nights. You’ll have to provide a reasonable reason why you were still outside at odd hours. (4). Don’t challenge him if you see him with other women: I will challenge him because men misuse freedom and take their wife’s soft heart for granted. (5) Don’t question the kind of people he lifts with his car: A married man should not give lifts to a single lady standing on the road, It’s from clap that dance will enter and if I see a single and unknown lady in your car, you’ll have to explain and pacify me and you should know I’m just been protective over you because I love you and don’t want anything to scatter our union.

How are they polygamous in nature?

GOFRONT:
Na waooo......May God help us.

My wife to be can starve me of sex when I offend.....But she should not starve me of food.

So many men are going through sex starvation from their wives as we speak......If na lie, Take a cab down to Igando customary court.

Rozross, Remember, Men are polygamous in Nature......Know this and know peace in ya marriage..

Rozross:
A responsible man should look for ways to sort out the problems with his wife if she deny him sex and not to see it as an opportunity to jump on other women

What do you term as "responsible"? A man u can manipulate at will i guess. Funny girl.

Rozross:
Is he not my husband? I definitely know his weaknesses and know where and when to get him soften

You are missing the point.

If he's angry, is he allowed to deny you money and attention, same way you are allowed to deny him sex when you are angry?

NeeKlaus:

You are missing the point.

If he's angry, is he allowed to deny you money and attention, same way you are allowed to deny him sex when you are angry?

deap wahala ..

Rozross:
The following are the marriage advise I can never take. (1). Don’t check his phone: I will check his phone if I’m suspecting him because i don’t play with my territory and I also don’t want what happened to May Yul Edochie to ever surface in my marriage. (2). Don’t deny him sex: I will deny him sex if he offends me and we’ve not sorted it out, I’m human with feelings and not some piece of furniture. (3). Don’t question his movement: I will question his unGodly movements, you can’t be married and not show some act of responsibility, a married man shouldn’t keep late nights. You’ll have to provide a reasonable reason why you were still outside at odd hours. (4). Don’t challenge him if you see him with other women: I will challenge him because men misuse freedom and take their wife’s soft heart for granted. (5) Don’t question the kind of people he lifts with his car: A married man should not give lifts to a single lady standing on the road, It’s from clap that dance will enter and if I see a single and unknown lady in your car, you’ll have to explain and pacify me and you should know I’m just been protective over you because I love you and don’t want anything to scatter our union.

u are fiercely territorial.

Rozross:
The following are the marriage advise I can never take. (1). Don’t check his phone: I will check his phone if I’m suspecting him because i don’t play with my territory and I also don’t want what happened to May Yul Edochie to ever surface in my marriage. (2). Don’t deny him sex: I will deny him sex if he offends me and we’ve not sorted it out, I’m human with feelings and not some piece of furniture. (3). Don’t question his movement: I will question his unGodly movements, you can’t be married and not show some act of responsibility, a married man shouldn’t keep late nights. You’ll have to provide a reasonable reason why you were still outside at odd hours. (4). Don’t challenge him if you see him with other women: I will challenge him because men misuse freedom and take their wife’s soft heart for granted. (5) Don’t question the kind of people he lifts with his car: A married man should not give lifts to a single lady standing on the road, It’s from clap that dance will enter and if I see a single and unknown lady in your car, you’ll have to explain and pacify me and you should know I’m just been protective over you because I love you and don’t want anything to scatter our union.

Reasons I concluded no marriage for me.
I love freedom!

Michelle70:
u are fiercely territorial.

You have to be to sustain your marriage

Rozross:
You have to be to sustain your marriage

u have to understand that ur husband should have his own space and it should be respected.

While i do not have problem with ur points, checking his phone is a "no no" for me

Michelle70:
u have to understand that ur husband should have his own space and it should be respected.

While i do not have problem with ur points, checking his phone is a "no no" for me

Phone checking between spouses should not be a problem, remember they’ve become one and as such they should not hide anything from each other

Rozross:
Phone checking between spouses should not be a problem, remember they’ve become one and as such they should not hide anything from each other

Madam, ur mind is made up sha.

But its best u dont check on ur husbands phone, he may not be cheating but u could ruin ur home if u dont respect his privacy.

Moreover the best way to catch a cheat is by making them lose their guard.

It will be more difficult to catch him if he knows u are always on the attack, he will erase his prints and give u little or no hints.

Michelle70:
Madam, ur mind is made up sha.

But its best u dont check on ur husbands phone, he may not be cheating but u could ruin ur home if u dont respect his privacy.

Moreover the best way to catch a cheat is by making them lose their guard.

It will be more difficult to catch him if he knows u are always on the attack, he will erase his prints and give u little or no hints.

But can’t I just play with his phone, what is he hiding? And why is he so possessive over his phone

Rozross:
But can’t I just play with his phone, what is he hiding? And why is he so possessive over his phone

checking his phone and playing with his phone are two different things.

You know what i meant, u are just being thick and maneuvering around the discussion.

I am tired of talking, u can check his phones my dear.
Afterall, iits for better for worse

Michelle70:
checking his phone and playing with his phone are two different things.

You know what i meant, u are just being thick and maneuvering around the discussion.

I am tired of talking, u can check his phones my dear.
Afterall, iits for better for worse

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Rozross:
But can’t I just play with his phone, what is he hiding? And why is he so possessive over his phone

heaven will definitely fall on earth the day you go 24 hours without talking about marriage and it's entities

Culer:
heaven will definitely fall on earth the day you go 24 hours without talking about marriage and it's entities

It simply means I want to get married

Culer:
heaven will definitely fall on earth the day you go 24 hours without talking about marriage and it's entities

I'd rather discuss marriage than most topics i see on NL

Rozross:
It simply means I want to get married

adopt the pace of nature... Her secret is patience

Michelle70:
I'd rather discuss marriage than most topics i see on NL

there's more to nairaland than romance and family section.. take a hike, explore..

Culer:
adopt the pace of nature... Her secret is patience

See as you are forming calm and cool headed lol. Same you that’ll snap and switch mood any moment

Rozross:
See as you are forming calm and cool headed lol. Same you that’ll snap and switch mood any moment

i'm gentle as a dove yet fiery as a tiger

This one doesn't have a husband, no fiance, no boyfriend, not even chykers, only hookup patrons yet she is here talking about what she will do and will not do in marriage. Talk about stupidity.

Culer:
i'm gentle as a dove yet fiery as a tiger

Nothing about you is gentle, I can say a lot about you