Little wins in my career struggle they discussed among themselves, make mockery of me behind me when i Bought a car, and they said it has no second hand value, after like four to five years, they struggle to buy that same car they discredited.
Joseph (Not real name) will tell me this what Charles said (Not real name too). But Charles has never in a day tell me this is what Joseph said behind me.

Any little opportunity Joseph have with me,he bring conversation him and Charles had. How Charles envy and hatted me so much.

I summoned courage to reach out to Charles, by telling him, why is it that whenever he's with people, he bring my issues, even the trivial ones that we always laugh together. He said the person telling me all of these is exaggerating.

Why I confronted him is that, I want to do away with both of them for life, so that they won't be surprised seeing me avoiding them.

Because this has been happening for years and it's telling on my mental health. Even women hardly behaves like this, these days.

I really do not know if I over reacted by confronting Charles for all his shenanigans

Another fast way to death is "carrying" friends (ship) mata for head...

Change phone or your movement..no need deceiving yourself with frienemies.. they are very dangerous because they know your secrets and weak spots.. cut them off and face new goals

spinna:
Change phone or your movement..no need deceiving yourself with frienemies.. they are very dangerous because they know your secrets and weak spots.. cut them off and face new goals

Many thanks

Spray:

Many thanks

You're welcome.. i cut off some friends since August and new and big things entered my life since then

Move on this time, in a matured way. Friends are overrated.

spinna:
Change phone or your movement..no need deceiving yourself with frienemies.. they are very dangerous because they know your secrets and weak spots.. cut them off and face new goals

Change phone number and movement cos of two useless homo sapiens

Zonefree:

Change phone number and movement cos of two useless homo sapiens

I won't change contact and movement. But I will avoid them for life. Dem Sabi me too well

Spray:

I won't change contact and movement. But I will avoid them for life. Dem Sabi me too well

Avoid them for life until one of them becomes Governor and you unavoid them

Zonefree:

Avoid them for life until one of them becomes Governor and you unavoid them

Lolz. U don't just know me oo. Even if they become president

Spray:
Little wins in my career struggle they discussed among themselves, make mockery of me behind me when i Bought a car, and they said it has no second hand value, after like four to five years, they struggle to buy that same car they discredited.
Joseph (Not real name) will tell me this what Charles said (Not real name too). But Charles has never in a day tell me this is what Joseph said behind me.

Any little opportunity Joseph have with me,he bring conversation him and Charles had. How Charles envy and hatted me so much.

I summoned courage to reach out to Charles, by telling him, why is it that whenever he's with people, he bring my issues, even the trivial ones that we always laugh together. He said the person telling me all of these is exaggerating.

Why I confronted him is that, I want to do away with both of them for life, so that they won't be surprised seeing me avoiding them.

Because this has been happening for year and it's telling on my mental health. Even women hardly behaves like this, these days.

I really do not know if I over reacted by confronting Charles for all his shenanigans

You did well in your best interest

Am glad that both of them are now aware of the nonsense that they are talking about you and you have confronted one of them

Spill the beans and tell each other what you heard the gossiped about you

Then use it as an excuse to drop them

I don't trust anyone of them
Men don't gossip so am surprise

Spray:
Little wins in my career struggle they discussed among themselves, make mockery of me behind me when i Bought a car, and they said it has no second hand value, after like four to five years, they struggle to buy that same car they discredited.
Joseph (Not real name) will tell me this what Charles said (Not real name too). But Charles has never in a day tell me this is what Joseph said behind me.

Any little opportunity Joseph have with me,he bring conversation him and Charles had. How Charles envy and hatted me so much.

I summoned courage to reach out to Charles, by telling him, why is it that whenever he's with people, he bring my issues, even the trivial ones that we always laugh together. He said the person telling me all of these is exaggerating.

Why I confronted him is that, I want to do away with both of them for life, so that they won't be surprised seeing me avoiding them.

Because this has been happening for years and it's telling on my mental health. Even women hardly behaves like this, these days.

I really do not know if I over reacted by confronting Charles for all his shenanigans

I use to have a friend called vicent that is like that... For the sake of my sanity and reputation, i cut him off.
There are billions of people in the world... Good friends are not scarce

frozen70:


You did well in your best interest

Am glad that both of them are now aware of the nonsense that they are talking about you and you have confronted one of them

Spill the beans and tell each other what you heard the gossiped about you

Then use it as an excuse to drop them

I don't trust anyone of them
Men don't gossip so am surprise

Men don't gossip? Are you for real? Infact, this generation of men gossip more than ladies do.

E.g I was in an eatery one day, a group of men sat on a table, middle age men o, and all they talked about was a fellow male colleague who tries to manage the little he earns. This is just one out of the many gatherings I have seen.

Charles na man he be.

Joseph is the real enemy here.
People like joseph are the one to bring out issues just to hear what charles have to say abt it, and in return comes back to tell you what charles says and didnt say. Claiming to have your back, and telling you tales abt Charles.

Joseph is the enemy here.
Shine your eye.

faithfull18:

Men don't gossip? Are you for real? Infact, this generation of men gossip more than ladies do.

E.g I was in an eatery one day, a group of men saw on a table, middle age men o, and all they talked about was a fellow male colleague who tries to manage the little he earns. This is just one out of the many gatherings I have seen.

If that's the case

Real gently men don't have time for gossips

They are busy struggling to feed their family

[quote author=jcflex post=117339768]Charles na man he be.

Joseph is the real enemy here.
People like joseph are the one to bring out issues just to hear what charles have to say abt it, and in return comes back to tell you what charles says and didnt say. Claiming to have your back, and telling you tales abt Charles.

Joseph is the enemy here.

Exactly Joseph is the real enemy

Don't do away with them.. maybe they are the frenemies God want to prepare your table in their presence..

I like friends like that cause they indirectly motivates me to push harder and shove my success in their faces.

Oga thier reason for resenting you is rooted in your behavior ... Maybe you are the type to show off and make everyone around you feel small ... That is the seed of envy. And most times it is planted by the person being envied, consciously or unconsciously.

What ever it is I would advice you to be careful now that you have unmasked them, they don't have pretense as a shield anymore ... Nah attack mode Dem dey so. It's universal human nature o.

Joseph is playing you, he's a manipulator. As Charles has said, it's nothing. Don't be surprise if it was Joseph that do initiate your topic when the two are together

Avoid Mr Joseph, he doesn't mean well for you

Ghost mode, ignore and other dissociation tactics come easy for some of us. I don't make friends with talkatives. Never did, never will.

Franzinni:
Oga thier reason for resenting you is rooted in your behavior ... Maybe you are the type to show off and make everyone around you feel small ... That is the seed of envy. And most times it is planted by the person being envied, consciously or unconsciously.

What ever it is I would advice you to be careful now that you have unmasked them, they don't have pretense as a shield anymore ... [b]Nah attack mode Dem dey so. It's universal human nature [/b]o.

Na me dem go attacked? Lol. And telling me i do show off that shows you don't know me too well

Aareakinwunmi:
Joseph is playing you, he's a manipulator. As Charles has said, it's nothing. Don't be surprise if it was Joseph that do initiate your topic when the two are together

Avoid Mr Joseph, he doesn't mean well for you

I have avoided him. Many Thanks

Cut them off, same thing is happening to my Boss

Spray:
Little wins in my career struggle they discussed among themselves, make mockery of me behind me when i Bought a car, and they said it has no second hand value, after like four to five years, they struggle to buy that same car they discredited.
Joseph (Not real name) will tell me this what Charles said (Not real name too). But Charles has never in a day tell me this is what Joseph said behind me.

Any little opportunity Joseph have with me,he bring conversation him and Charles had. How Charles envy and hatted me so much.

I summoned courage to reach out to Charles, by telling him, why is it that whenever he's with people, he bring my issues, even the trivial ones that we always laugh together. He said the person telling me all of these is exaggerating.

Why I confronted him is that, I want to do away with both of them for life, so that they won't be surprised seeing me avoiding them.

Because this has been happening for years and it's telling on my mental health. Even women hardly behaves like this, these days.

I really do not know if I over reacted by confronting Charles for all his shenanigans

You don't need to cut them off completely, nobody is useless in life, as bad as you think they are, they might be the ones to safe you in future, that is what life has taught me.

Since you've knows them for who they are, it should be very easy to relate with them. Don't tell them your plans again, don't get too close to them again, be mindful of what you eat or drink with them, never follow their advises again, and more importantly, remotely help them where you think is necessary.

The companion fools shall be destroyed.

Charles seems like a matured chap, Joseph is the instigator, cut him off!!! Leave Charles, he knew the person that fed you with the news when you confronted him, but still didn't blow the cover trying to explain unnecessary stuffs, he has my respect for that , he can keep secrets.

Keep them on a low, Dont let them much access into your life.

You might need a thing or the other from them

Cut those Ipob miscreants off from your life and have a happy life

Spray:

I won't change contact and movement. But I will avoid them for life. Dem Sabi me too well

Change contacts because of friends? what happened to block button

Skyfornia:
Don't do away with them.. maybe they are the frenemies God want to prepare your table in their presence..

I like friends like that cause they indirectly motivates me to push harder and shove my success in their faces.

Be careful of poison if you decide to keep such friends.

Samething once happened to me, all i did was call them, made then realize i hate gossips and it doesn’t help people grow.

Afterwards, i blocked them everywhere online!!! No time for negativity bro. Surround yourself with the right people that would challenge you to be better…

U are even lucky they haven't poisoned u.

Now that u know them,what are u waiting for?

Discard and unfriend them quickly.