Bros, make she learn lesson. Destroy it with all you've got. If your right hand no fit do am, put your left hand and your legs.

udofia234:



bro I can't lie I'm really pained, this lady called me thrash, humiliated me ah!!! I feel a sharp pain in my heart anytime I remember what she did to me

Give your cousin your phone to read about this story and tell him to comment or hear his opinion...do this with new account

HardBishop:
What you have to do to get revenge is to bargain with her. Tell her you will expose all her wickedness. You have threatened her with sex if really she loves your cousin brother. You vent all your anger using many sex styles including wheel barrow and monkey styles, you have to drink Viagra and alomo bitters.
The repayment strategy will be coded and secretive btw two of you.
You can now forgive her. Where your cousin breaks her heart is none of my biz for he has to collect him own share.

That's how to pay back

Noted

benqo01:
OP if dah girl enter ya family she go cos una trouble u Don even see her behavior don't trust some of Dem girls they re pretenders once dem enter u self go dey wonder which useless character Dem carry come

Noted!!! u are very correct

Fbboyo:
Op no fall our hand oo, this is a payback time. As for one of our male lecturer that has chosen to be an akpa amu on my matter, I dey wait for am after service. Know this and know peace, no body has monopoly for wickedness, if you do me I do you, life goes on.

Revenging is a must

Starz825:
What a coincidence.....
Omi leyan....human beings na water oo...you can meet anywhere

That's life for u!!! I'll pay her with the coin she paid me

Aklee4994:
you be YOGA MAN...I like this your write up...no monopoly of Kala,daju,Iwa ika wetin come pain me pass for the OP be say baba say him tears like small pikin

My brother! u need to see how she humiliated me eh!!!

udofia234:
Good morning everyone!!! I'm so so going to pay her back with the coin she paid me!!! I once worked in a micro finance bank as a marketer and my MD happen to be the relative of the owner of the company and guess what friends she's just 23 year (graduate) when I go the job I was 33 years then, guy she was even the one who employed me and she happens to know I'm also a senior graduate and older than her! this lady is so rude!!! I could remember the day a customer called her to lodge a complain which was false sh never waited to hear my own story, this lady insulted me eh! after I left her presence I went to the rest room and wept bitterly, but since there was no job I destroying every thing , I swear he won't marry that Jezebel of a lady!!! imagine me!!! the lady that insulted my whole life was greeting me and smiling!!! to who? guys I doubt anyone one of you will also allow this union to happen!!!

My response would be simple- it’s either me or her in the family. You marry her, I am dead to you.

Katcall:
you are heartless.

Don't mind her!! bird of the same feathers flocks together

udofia234:
Good morning everyone!!! I'm so so going to pay her back with the coin she paid me!!! I once worked in a micro finance bank as a marketer and my MD happen to be the relative of the owner of the company and guess what friends she's just 23 year (graduate) when I go the job I was 33 years then, guy she was even the one who employed me and she happens to know I'm also a senior graduate and older than her! this lady is so rude!!! I could remember the day a customer called her to lodge a complain which was false sh never waited to hear my own story, this lady insulted me eh! after I left her presence I went to the rest room and wept bitterly, but since there was no job I had to manage it, but this lady picks on me at any slightest mistake, I couldn't attend my brothers wedding because of her, I lost my relationship with my brother because we where very close and we planned it all together! Guys I know u won't believe this! I resigned from that work simply because she attempted to slap me when we had a little argument but thank God I was smart I dodged it, if I had my chance I would have beaten her but I can't because I'm not trained that way, so I simply resigned and relocated away from that place. To my utter amassment my mum called me that my cousin who state with is from childhood until he graduated from the university and now works with dangote was bringing his fiancee to the house to show them, I was happy and told my mum I'll come over. I couldn't believe my eyes when I saw this stupid, useless and God forsaking bastard of a girl that never Regarded me as anything, she humiliated me out of that place!!! I hate her so much, when they came into the house cause we where sited already waiting eagerly for them, my brother was the first to come in and then her , when our eyes met she was shocked and uncomfortable, I was so infuriated that I gave an excise and left them there, and I know her conscience is judging her already!!! I haven't told my cousin and dad the kind of lady that is about to join our family!!! And I'm bent on destroying every thing , I swear he won't marry that Jezebel of a lady!!! imagine me!!! the lady that insulted my whole life was greeting me and smiling!!! to who? guys I doubt anyone one of you will also allow this union to happen!!!

Guy, just stand down and never say a thing. Everything is in the past, try to look out for yourself and move ahead with life. This guy is only a cousin to you, maybe God is trying to show you a sign to be benevolent!

GoldSantana:
Bros, make she learn lesson. Destroy it with all you've got. If your right hand no fit do am, put your left hand and your legs.

Noted

SouthSouth1914:


Guy, just stand down and never say a thing. Everything is in the past, try to look out for yourself and move ahead with life. This guy is only a cousin to you, maybe God is trying to show you a sign to be benevolent!

I'm sorry bro! I won't stand down for a Jezebel in my family

samwash:


I hear you. If you have ever worked in a toxic work environment, you will understand better.
I wouldn't blame the Op.

the op should first explain things to his father and mother in private and den explain things to his brother separately

udofia234:


God have not joined them abeg! that Union will never work o swear and I'll do everything within my reach to make sure she does not marry my brother

haha..Op be calming down small. just explain things to your parents privately and explain things to your brother privately too before doing what's in your mind

Zonefree:
God can't put demon and Light together!

haha.. calm down.

To me, the best way to handle it all is to keep mute about it all. That is maturity.

Just avoid the lady and let her know you are avoiding her but not to tell anyone anything about it. The best you can do is to tell your cousin to think twice before taking the step further with the lady and I am sure he will be curious to ask why, just tell him to be careful. If anything happens tomorrow, you will be able to refer to it

Let me tell you few stuff.

1. Even if your cousin believes you, he won't choose you over her. Before a man can love a woman to the level o marriage, the relationship has passed through some test that goes beyond families.

2. If you succeed to break them apart, there will always be time and situations your cousin will see you as the cause of the relationship breaking up and might not forgive you.

3. Families and friends might tag you as bad/evil person now and/or future (enemy of progress). They will definitely start hiding some stuff from you in future

4. We conquer evil with love not other way round

5. Breaking them up shows you are the looser and a weakling

Romanoff:
The girl will tell him what happened and claim she was a terrible person back then and it could be true.

The cousin might be so on love that he will overlook anything you say and will even rebel against his family for the love of his life.

I've seen this happen in my own family. Even when family decided against the union, guy went ahead and family didn't attend the wedding.

Na him know the shege wey him eyes dey see for the marriage now, na people dey tell is, e no fit use mouth tell him family.

What God has joined together, let not man put asunder.

Just thread carefully, don't allow your emotions get the best of you, else you'll become the enemy.

And the girl in question might have actually changed and regrets her wickedness.

Leopard never changes its spots abeg.
Dear op, God works in mysterious ways. He allowed you to pass through those uncomfortable times for a few months so you can save your cousin from making a mistake that he will suffer for a lifetime. Do not fail OK.

udofia234:
Good morning everyone!!! I'm so so going to pay her back with the coin she paid me!!! I once worked in a micro finance bank as a marketer and my MD happen to be the relative of the owner of the company and guess what friends she's just 23 year (graduate) when I go the job I was 33 years then, guy she was even the one who employed me and she happens to know I'm also a senior graduate and older than her! this lady is so rude!!! I could remember the day a customer called her to lodge a complain which was false sh never waited to hear my own story, this lady insulted me eh! after I left her presence I went to the rest room and wept bitterly, but since there was no job I had to manage it, but this lady picks on me at any slightest mistake, I couldn't attend my brothers wedding because of her, I lost my relationship with my brother because we where very close and we planned it all together! Guys I know u won't believe this! I resigned from that work simply because she attempted to slap me when we had a little argument but thank God I was smart I dodged it, if I had my chance I would have beaten her but I can't because I'm not trained that way, so I simply resigned and relocated away from that place. To my utter amassment my mum called me that my cousin who state with is from childhood until he graduated from the university and now works with dangote was bringing his fiancee to the house to show them, I was happy and told my mum I'll come over. I couldn't believe my eyes when I saw this stupid, useless and God forsaking bastard of a girl that never Regarded me as anything, she humiliated me out of that place!!! I hate her so much, when they came into the house cause we where sited already waiting eagerly for them, my brother was the first to come in and then her , when our eyes met she was shocked and uncomfortable, I was so infuriated that I gave an excise and left them there, and I know her conscience is judging her already!!! I haven't told my cousin and dad the kind of lady that is about to join our family!!! And I'm bent on destroying every thing , I swear he won't marry that Jezebel of a lady!!! imagine me!!! the lady that insulted my whole life was greeting me and smiling!!! to who? guys I doubt anyone one of you will also allow this union to happen!!!

A woman can never be predicted, don't be surprised to know that at the point where you were having issues with her at work, she's another guy's football elsewhere (mumu). a woman that has true love for her man wouldn't express same to another.

On the other hand you said that you work in a microfinance bank, bank jobs in Nigeria we know it's always a place where people come to work with anger because of all the bashings that is involved in it. The slogan is that profit must be made by all means

Please don't use your gossip to dissolve that union.

klonboi:


A woman can never be predicted, don't be surprised to know that at the point where you were having issues with her at work, she's another guy's football elsewhere (mumu). a woman that has true love for her man wouldn't express same to another.

On the other hand you said that you work in a microfinance bank, bank jobs in Nigeria we know it's always a place where people come to work with anger because of all the bashings that is involved in it. The slogan is that profit must be made by all means

Please don't use your gossip to dissolve that union.

are u saying I should not say anything? if yes!! I will not keep quiet for that Jezebel to enter our family abeg

GoldSantana:
Bros, make she learn lesson. Destroy it with all you've got. If your right hand no fit do am, put your left hand and your legs.

Imagine If same is done to your sister,

Nigerian bankers are always like that , so that's not enough reason to destroy her

Mom007:

Leopard never changes its spots abeg.
Dear op, God works in mysterious ways. He allowed you to pass through those uncomfortable times for a few months so you can save your cousin from making a mistake that he will suffer for a lifetime. Do not fail OK.

Noted !!! I'll do every thing possible

udofia234:



are u saying I should not say anything? if yes!! I will not keep quiet for that Jezebel to enter our family abeg

Brother she's not a jezebel, just because of her work attributes as a Nigerian banker?

Nigerian banks grooms staff's like that, their taste for profit is more like a taste for blood by the mosquito.

Do you know the amount of bashing she is collecting from the top for low performance?

Please allow her happiness to flow, I can promise you that you will enjoy/get favored from her wealth soonest.

Romanoff:


And the girl in question might have actually changed and regrets her wickedness.

Ever heard the phrase “a leopard never changes its spots”?

Mom007:

Leopard never changes its spots abeg.
Dear op, God works in mysterious ways. He allowed you to pass through those uncomfortable times for a few months so you can save your cousin from making a mistake that he will suffer for a lifetime. Do not fail OK.

Ma'am please that's not enough reason for him to destroy another person's joy.

If you have worked in a Nigerian bank you will fully understand what the op went through. It's a norm in every Nigerian banks.

Pressure! pressure! pressure!

udofia234:
Good morning everyone!!! I'm so so going to pay her back with the coin she paid me!!! I once worked in a micro finance bank as a marketer and my MD happen to be the relative of the owner of the company and guess what friends she's just 23 year (graduate) when I go the job I was 33 years then, guy she was even the one who employed me and she happens to know I'm also a senior graduate and older than her! this lady is so rude!!! I could remember the day a customer called her to lodge a complain which was false sh never waited to hear my own story, this lady insulted me eh! after I left her presence I went to the rest room and wept bitterly, but since there was no job I had to manage it, but this lady picks on me at any slightest mistake, I couldn't attend my brothers wedding because of her, I lost my relationship with my brother because we where very close and we planned it all together! Guys I know u won't believe this! I resigned from that work simply because she attempted to slap me when we had a little argument but thank God I was smart I dodged it, if I had my chance I would have beaten her but I can't because I'm not trained that way, so I simply resigned and relocated away from that place. To my utter amassment my mum called me that my cousin who state with is from childhood until he graduated from the university and now works with dangote was bringing his fiancee to the house to show them, I was happy and told my mum I'll come over. I couldn't believe my eyes when I saw this stupid, useless and God forsaking bastard of a girl that never Regarded me as anything, she humiliated me out of that place!!! I hate her so much, when they came into the house cause we where sited already waiting eagerly for them, my brother was the first to come in and then her , when our eyes met she was shocked and uncomfortable, I was so infuriated that I gave an excise and left them there, and I know her conscience is judging her already!!! I haven't told my cousin and dad the kind of lady that is about to join our family!!! And I'm bent on destroying every thing , I swear he won't marry that Jezebel of a lady!!! imagine me!!! the lady that insulted my whole life was greeting me and smiling!!! to who? guys I doubt anyone one of you will also allow this union to happen!!!

If this your rant is true, then I support you.


A nasty person will not be allowed in my circle.

libertyfather:
It's your time dont let it go, frustrate her relationship with your cousin let her too look for for husband else where

I don't think you know what it takes to be a banker in Nigeria.

If you do, you will never put up something like this rather you will pray for the said lady

klonboi:


Ma'am please that's not enough reason for him to destroy another person's joy.

If you have worked in a Nigerian bank you will fully understand what the op went through. It's a norm in every Nigerian banks.

Pressure! pressure! pressure!

I detest arrogant people vehemently.



Pressure will not make you attempt to slap a subordinate.

Saintmary:



I detest arrogant people vehemently.



Pressure will not make you attempt to slap a subordinate.

I dey laugh you!

You never see anything.

klonboi:


I dey laugh you!

You never see anything.

With everything I've already seen, bros, ah nor want see anything again.

udofia234:


I'm sorry bro! I won't stand down for a Jezebel in my family

Alright. Hope this matter gets resolved in the best amicable way. Godspeed to your family

klonboi:


Imagine If same is done to your sister,

Nigerian bankers are always like that , so that's not enough reason to destroy her

my advice won't change if it was my sister. Let her reap what she sowed.

klonboi:


Ma'am please that's not enough reason for him to destroy another person's joy.

If you have worked in a Nigerian bank you will fully understand what the op went through. It's a norm in every Nigerian banks.

Pressure! pressure! pressure!

She is not the first person to hold management position in an organization like that pls. A mean and nasty person is a mean and nasty person, its not about bank or no bank. So if it was you in ops shoes, you would keep quiet and let your brother enter into such a potentially injurious union?