baralatie:

And his dropping of money at the home makes him useless?

If you think dropping money is enough, then enjoy your sexless, bondless, empty marriage.


Let me enjoy my afternoon aneg

but you guys are funny Sha
Man meets babe..he says I love you and let's get married
Babe now says ...no sex before marriage
You are both married
Babe now says she is going through life phase ehn..osigini? Kilojebe? Mene?

Say for you to see her pant after you drop money for house!you go wash cloth,wash plate,carry baby?

Omo we don end the marriage because you no gree Bleep be that o

Reminds me of a marital issue on radio by uncle Jimmy!
The lady and her husband were married for 26 years and we're both 50+ years old
Now the lady said "for the first time she has falling in love"
I said ( problem don get belle and it is due for delivery )

Now the lady now said there is a big issue .the man she has been having affair with is 2 years older than her husband and is married .the man's wife will not give up her marriage because of the comfort she enjoys been married to the man

So what is the problem.. the man says babe divorce your husband



And I laughed hard

Then another funny experience which I saw with my own two eyes
Was a young married couples just got married and the girls father gave them a good accomodations and start up funds!
Mehn! These two were going at it sexually like rabbits but I noticed that her friends hated the husband with a passion.i got to know six months down the marriage.thebwoman ran away from the man
The excuse .he doesn't have what it takes to nature a home
I said after the two don knack shingbain non stop?

AdamuKD:
It's no longer a topic that most married women loose interest in sex after marriage and start denying their husbands his conjugal rights even if she is comfortable with the marriage

Please married women what is the cause because right now, I am experiencing this in my house even though my marriage is not up to 2 years

Stress factor

Economic factor that affects her state of emotions

Child bearing and nursing

Family and work pressure

Lack of attitude and attention from the husband

Lack of show of love

Naturally women are just drama queen

Blunttruth:

Because the women become overwhelmed with house chores, kids and work. According to Madame those are a huge mojo killer. The trick to getting extra action I have learned is learning to do simple gestures,that lifts some burden off her. That way she has more time and energy for the oza room.
If she hasn't been like this from the start, ask yourself what has changed.
It's good to hear from her side too. I hope you have not being abusing her , verbally or physically.

This house chores etc is not always the case, in fact most times we do assist them with it as well as have house help that do most of the work, but she still deny sex, giving you yeye reasons.

Anyway I think they usually loose interest or fall out of love, and most times they still get it outside from their ex.
This marriage is scam mostly

Hhhhm! Oro agba- true talk

Tokskob2008:
The only reason most of them do such is because they now have the feeling of "at last I don hook am down" nothing more. Let her know you are bringing in a second wife or let her be obvious about your numerous side chicks, you will see how things will turn around fast. Forget about all other excuses about being tired,busy or lost of sex drive. Women are just naturally selfish and the worst is she doesn't want to have it with you neither does she want you to have it with anyone else..

A wife claiming low sex drive or tiredness will still go out and meet her ex for sex all in the name of she is no longer attracted to her husband. Why can't she just move in with her ex instead

Selfishness!!

Spirit04:
some married men are very dirty. they work too hard and aren't able to take care of themselves. smelling ampit, mouth odor atc

really? I guess he was very clean like Maclean and you never saw him like that before agreeing to marry him

frozen70:


Stress factor

Economic factor that affects her state of emotions

Child bearing and nursing

Family and work pressure

Lack of attitude and attention from the husband

Lack of show of love

Naturally women are just drama queen

I believe you. They are full of drama oh

It was already closing time at my work place. But my co staff (a lady) sitting opposite me has been showing her pxssy to me that I would toast or talk to her about sex or love.

But I didn't, I looked at it and kept pressing my phone.

Ten minutes later, she yelled at me. And I responded "what is it?"

She knew what had transpired, so she left without saying goodbye

To the topic,

Even if a woman is 1000% hor.ny, she will still be forming, pretending and letting men think that she isn't.

Most ladies don't want men to have the upper hand on them.

Sex is a tool that they use to manipulate men.

And that's why first wife will keep hating the second wife, because she came to spoil her market.
Even spiritual charms and physical fights will be used by her to deal with her.

God made men the head and we all know how women are performing, but if He(God) hadn't, that is if women were the head, men will be chained like dogs in cages, starved for months before being fed, flogged every hour and at the end of their life, fed to the lions in the wild.

You might be a bad guy, but please no try women oh!
Many great men were brought down by women, Biblical Samson, American R&B maestro Rkelly, etc.

#itiswell!

nazicartel:
Since I started doing relationship. Everybody I have dated are always the ones bringing up sex advances. Even if I touch her. She will rush down to it. I'm always surprised when I read people complaining about been denied sex. Like I don't understand

Marry one of those u re dating dt rush to you instantly for sex.. give her some years like 3/4, also like after 2/3 kids..
You will come back here opening a thread like this

mikkyjay:


This house chores etc is not always the case, in fact most times we do assist them with it as well as have house help that do most of the work, but she still deny sex, giving you yeye reasons.

Anyway I think they usually loose interest or fall out of love, and most times they still get it outside from their ex.
This marriage is scam mostly

Not my marriage . Been together over 15 years, both dating and marriage combined and we still have great sex. Though we are not both as adventurous as we used to be. That's understandable, considering age,busy schedules and kids. But we get it on very frequently

Blunttruth:

Not my marriage . Been together over 15 years, both dating and marriage combined and we still have great sex. Though we are not both as adventurous as we used to be. That's understandable, considering age,busy schedules and kids. But we get it on very frequently

what adventure are you talking about ? There is only one hole; vagina and you've been in and out of it for 15yrs ..

The only adventure is maybe a 3 some .. heard it's popular in lekki as we speak

Curious345:
what adventure are you talking about ? There is only one hole; vagina and you've been in and out of it for 15yrs ..

The only adventure is maybe a 3 some .. heard it's popular in lekki as we speak

Oh yea of little knowledge. I guess everyone is just different, she's my lobster and I am hers.

Blunttruth:


Oh yea of little knowledge. I guess everyone is just different, she's my lobster and I am hers.

Awwn. I love to see marriages like this.


More grease to your elbows.

Saintmary:



Awwn. I love to see marriages like this.


More grease to your elbows.

Thanks, it's not all rosy, we have had our ups and downs, but we are what we are today because we were both determined to make our union work.

Heathrow44:
Most of naija women weaponize sex to make sure u marry them, that's y they say no sex until marriage, haven't u had, "naija women marry who is ready and not who they love" they don't find u sexually appealing but still go ahead to marry cos thats what the society expects of them, so after d Ist month, their real reasons why they married u begins to show

You have said it all.

Blunttruth:

Thanks, it's not all rosy, we have had our ups and downs, but we are what we are today because we were both determined to make our union work.

Kudos to you both.

I pray that you will reap the rewards of your sacrifice.

Saintmary:


Has the husband outlined how useful he is at home apart from dropping money?

If a man "drops" money like you put it, then the woman shouldn't complain of doing chores and also making out time to sex her husband. She could get a maid as well.

The last I checked, making money nor be beans! Or will you be comfortable switching roles

baralatie:

But it creates another problem
Side problem...

Her denying him sex in marriage all the while enjoying all the benefits that comes with being a wife (roof over her head, money for upkeep etc) causes what exactly in first place?
She never cared what her actions will cause, why should he care?

Blunttruth:

Because the women become overwhelmed with house chores, kids and work. According to Madame those are a huge mojo killer. The trick to getting extra action I have learned is learning to do simple gestures,that lifts some burden off her. That way she has more time and energy for the oza room.
If she hasn't been like this from the start, ask yourself what has changed.
It's good to hear from her side too. I hope you have not being abusing her , verbally or physically.

Lame excuse as always.
While you claimed she's overwhelmed by house chores are you turning a blind eye that he's not overwhelmed by work and providing for her and the children?
Bottom line is she's selfish and cares only for herself all the while still enjoying the benefits the man's brings.

AdamuKD:

When I was still single I didn't cheat, na now I go wan start am?
God forbid

Then masturbate in peace my brother. Life is not that hard.

They're tired of their husbands doing missionary every time.

AdamuKD:
It's no longer a topic that most married women loose interest in sex after marriage and start denying their husbands his conjugal rights even if she is comfortable with the marriage

Please married women what is the cause because right now, I am experiencing this in my house even though my marriage is not up to 2 years

baralatie:

How is it lame?

How does a man's decision to stop financing his home correlate with a wife's decision not to have sex with her husband

Because its his money and his money is his sweat and he can do whatever he likes with his money since she has made it clear that it's her body and she can do whatever she likes and I respect that.
Marriage is like a contract agreement, you play your part while I do mine.

Jman06:
If a man "drops" money like you put it, then the woman shouldn't complain of doing chores and also making out time to sex her husband. She could get a maid as well.

The last I checked, making money nor be beans! Or will you be comfortable switching roles

Your money that can barely feed the family, let alone cover all other expenses. In fact, nothing is left to buy the woman any treats.


Majority of women are working to supplement their family income, yet, they are saddled with house chores that is beneath men, double stress.


On top of that, you insensitive, selfish, callous, narrow minded nitwits are asking for porn style sex every night!



Just hold on to any woman foolish enough to kill herself in order to please you. But take this as fact: not all women are that foolish, so choose carefully.




Nonsense.

Saintmary:



Your money that can barely feed the family, let alone cover all other expenses. In fact, nothing is left to buy the woman any treats.


Majority of women are working to supplement their family income, yet, they are saddled with house chores that is beneath men, double stress.


On top of that, you insensitive, selfish, callous, narrow minded nitwits are asking for porn style sex every night!



Just hold on to any woman foolish enough to kill herself in order to please you. But take this as fact: not all women are that foolish, so choose carefully.




Nonsense.

If you refuse to offer your husband great sex, small girls outside will offer him. In fact, the sex would even be more adventurous and fun.

Case closed

Jman06:
If you refuse to offer your husband great sex, small girls outside will offer him. In fact, the sex would even be more adventurous and fun.

Case closed

And so what?



You're not the first one to indulge in debauchery and mindless lasciviousness, neither will you be the last.


But when the true purpose of sex has eluded you while you were busy chasing shadows, you will have no one to come back to. No one will truly love you, no one will be faithful to you, you will spend your old age a grumpy old man, cynical like the foolish men who have gone on before you.

Loneliness will cut your life short, old age will add to your pains, you will have only money to console you, and that's if you didn't blow it all on women who will focus on their families when they're done with you.


What a pitiful inevitable end for foolish men.


Enjoy now, because you will pay later, it's the way of the world.



C'est la vie.

Saintmary:



And so what?



You're not the first one to indulge in debauchery and mindless lasciviousness, neither will you be the last.


But when the true purpose of sex has eluded you while you were busy chasing shadows, you will have no one to come back to. No one will truly love you, no one will be faithful to you, you will spend your old age a grumpy old man, cynical like the foolish men who have gone on before you.

Loneliness will cut your life short, old age will add to your pains, you will have only money to console you, and that's if you didn't blow it all on women who will focus on their families when they're done with you.


What a pitiful inevitable end for foolish men.


Enjoy now, because you will pay later, it's the way of the world.



C'est la vie.

Bullsh1t!

As if anyone cares about a man before Men have always been used to loneliness and finding their own happiness their own way, so don't even threaten us with that loneliness at old age crap. It won't work!

Jman06:
Bullsh1t!

As if anyone cares about a man before Men have always been used to loneliness and finding their own happiness their own way, so don't even threaten us with that loneliness at old age crap. It won't work!

Since you know that it's your reality, why are you now asking for more?


Just stop whining.