A woman would be much better off if she could distinguish the difference between a man that flatters her & a man that compliments her, a man that spends money on her & a man that invests in her, a man that views her as property & a man that views her properly, a man that lusts after her & a man that loves her, a man that believes he is Gods gift to women & a man that REMEMBERS a woman IS God's gift to man,

^^^^^I read this and I know some of you will say it is just cliche - but I had to Repost it here on NL - I pulled it off a status of one of my facebook friends - I am not the author - but I just loved it - because it SPEAKS TRUTH.

Hmm. *subscribing*

Love it.

Shy-One:

A woman would be much better off if she could distinguish the difference between a man that flatters her & a man that compliments her, a man that spends money on her & a man that invests in her, a man that views her as property & a man that views her properly, a man that lusts after her & a man that loves her, a man that believes he is Gods gift to women & a man that REMEMBERS a woman IS God's gift to man,

^^^^^I read this and I know some of you will say it is just cliche - but I had to Repost it here on NL - I pulled it off a status of one of my facebook friends - I am not the author - but I just loved it - because it SPEAKS TRUTH.

i dnt know about other guys o i am a very confident young man and 'wonderfully made' + have money sef so i think am Gods gift to women

Mrs.Chima:

Hmm. *subscribing*

Bite me^^^^

@OP thats a good one.

A GOOD woman is God's gift to men. A bad one ranks high up there with a curse . . . and decapitation.

Yea it sounds really cliche.

I assume ladies nowadays are not really swayed by overused cliches. They more or less want you to prove it by your actions.

@poster
each of us have different scales on which we value women and our action towards y'all can mean different things from different guys.

there is NO WAY a woman can truly decipher HOW/WHY a guy is the way he is with her, as hard as you would try. many men cant even be honest to THEMSELVES, how can they be honest to y'all?!

also, lets say you are beautiful: i could compliment you TODAY because you are OR/AND compliment you tomorrow because i want your juices to flow and allow me access to the fountain. same with spending money on you: many believe that they MUST in order to get closer to a gal therefore they will even if they dont want to. how can you truly know if it's a lifetime investment that this guy is making or just trying to get your legs to open for "business"?

anyway, some women are so emotional that they wouldnt decipher what we trying to say/do even if it was written on our foreheads.

OMG!

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^^^^^

2buff:

A GOOD woman is God's gift to men. A bad one ranks high up there with a curse . . . and decapitation.

All Men like bad girls

Woe betide a man who 'invests' in a young (mostly fickle) woman that is not his blood-relation or wife: It's worse than investing in a ponzi scheme. If it's charity/altruism, then maybe; but then only widows, elderly ones and too-young ones genuinely qualify.

Shy-One:

A woman would be much better off if she could distinguish the difference between a man that flatters her & a man that compliments her, a man that spends money on her & a man that invests in her, a man that views her as property & a man that views her properly, a man that lusts after her & a man that loves her, a man that believes he is Gods gift to women & a man that REMEMBERS a woman IS God's gift to man,

^^^^^I read this and I know some of you will say it is just cliche - but I had to Repost it here on NL - I pulled it off a status of one of my facebook friends - I am not the author - but I just loved it - because it SPEAKS TRUTH.

Very good write up. I like it but I am not a fan of ideal but real. It has a very safe premise. No risk involved.

I don't think all these still holds water these days. A man compliments a lady, views her properly as God's gift to man can be re-written in mins. So its always best to have A couple that knows their weaknesses, bad habits and can tolerate them & willing to compromise.

What happens when God's gift for man screws up later on in future, would he still look at her properly? Would he have doubts at the back of his mind? Would he get another gift?

But all in all, very good for a woman's worth booster around here different from the stereotype belief of women being money conscious.

lolololol - at all of the replies

thank you

Sister, good morning, I think you should not refer to NL opinions, because here is a virtual space and we don't really know how people react or behave in real life, but yes the "everyday challenge" is to found you does really love you

Hmm, me thinks she should become the ideal woman first, if she wants an ideal man to fulfil all these. As being able to distinguish does not mean she will meet this ‘ideal’ man.

If she presents herself as an easy lay/airhead, a man will flatter her to get between her legs. If she presents herself as a Lady worth investing in/willing to develop herself, a real man will do so. If she presents herself as a ‘trophy wife or girlfriend’, the man will treat her like his Ferrari after getting her. If she demonstrates she has intellect, not just physical beauty, his ‘love’ will extend beyond the surface. If she complements him, even if he believes he is God’s gift to women, he will see her as God’s gift to him or at least someone he can’t do without.

It’s all about the image you project, you are what you attract. Then again, these are my thoughts; they may very well be wrong, lol.

pro01:

Woe betide a man who 'invests' in a young (mostly fickle) woman that is not his blood-relation or wife: It's worse than investing in a ponzi scheme. If it's charity/altruism, then maybe; but then only widows, elderly ones and too-young ones genuinely qualify.

From a one time MUGU!!!!

Mynd_44:


From a one time MUGU!!!!

No. From one who has observed several Mugus; I prefer learning from others' experiences.

LongOne1:
Hmm, me thinks she should become the ideal woman first, if she wants an ideal man to fulfil all these. As being able to distinguish does not mean she will meet this ‘ideal’ man.

If she presents herself as an easy lay/airhead, a man will flatter her to get between her legs. If she presents herself as a Lady worth investing in/willing to develop herself, a real man will do so. If she presents herself as a ‘trophy wife or girlfriend’, the man will treat her like his Ferrari after getting her. If she demonstrates she has intellect, not just physical beauty, his ‘love’ will extend beyond the surface. If she complements him, even if he believes he is God’s gift to women, he will see her as God’s gift to him or at least someone he can’t do without.

It’s all about the image you project, you are what you attract. Then again, these are my thoughts; they may very well be wrong, lol.

you are right,I mean 100%...