uju_1:

Hi Guys

So a couple of days ago I went on a date with a gentleman,  I will call him mr D.

Mr D is very handsome, tall, dark, everything I like. 

He picked me up from the office at 6.30pm.  We agreed on 5.30pm but he was an hour late due to work commitments.  I understand he works for an oil company but keeping a lady waiting is not cool.

So we went to dinner.  I absolutely love chinese and there are a number of really good chinese restaurants in the town but he took me to the one i absolutely hate and its also the furthest away,  I am suspecting this is due to the fact it is the cheapest,  but as a working guy I didn't think this was a good move I would rather have had chicken republic or mister biggs than that rubbish.  And also normally the first date the lady picks or is that just my experience?

On the bright side the conversation was good at the restaurant but then on the way to drop me at home he talked on his mobile half the way.  I am not a nagger so i just kept quiet praying in my head.  I was scared for my life and was tempted to get him to drop me at the office and call my driver to get me.

The cheekiest part,  we got to my house i gave him a hug goodbye.  We were in my compound and d gateman and others were not far away.  This boy held my face and tried to kiss me by force.  I blocked him with my hand and resisted the urge to slap him.  I feel he disrespected me and my house by doing this and it would be embarassing if uncle abdul the gateman saw me kissing a random man in the car all the househelps will say 'small madam don spoil oh she no dey do church again'.

Oh well.  I have a lunch 'date' after church tomorrow with an igbo boy,  should be interesting.

I dont think I'm over reacting,  tell me what you think people

why M M M ?:

op

can i date u

r231:

so far you can take her to the Chinese restaurant of her choice 

and make sure you stay off your phone

190smh:

Hisses walks out and slams door

uju_1:




kmt right back at you. 1. did anybody call you here 2. responding is not by force biko 3. whats your stress? go sidown abeg abi is this mr D in disguise? if so why wont you hiss kmt

well i cant blame you, thats why you keep attracting men who look like potential psychopaths.


Hisses and walks out again and slam door

190smh:


well i cant blame you, thats why you keep attracting men who look like potential psychopaths.


Hisses and walks out again and slam door

uju_1:

Hi Guys

So a couple of days ago I went on a date with a gentleman,  I will call him mr D.

Mr D is very handsome, tall, dark, everything I like. 

He picked me up from the office at 6.30pm.  We agreed on 5.30pm but he was an hour late due to work commitments.  I understand he works for an oil company but keeping a lady waiting is not cool.

So we went to dinner.  I absolutely love chinese and there are a number of really good chinese restaurants in the town but he took me to the one i absolutely hate and its also the furthest away,  I am suspecting this is due to the fact it is the cheapest,  but as a working guy I didn't think this was a good move I would rather have had chicken republic or mister biggs than that rubbish.  And also normally the first date the lady picks or is that just my experience?

On the bright side the conversation was good at the restaurant but then on the way to drop me at home he talked on his mobile half the way.  I am not a nagger so i just kept quiet praying in my head.  I was scared for my life and was tempted to get him to drop me at the office and call my driver to get me.

The cheekiest part,  we got to my house i gave him a hug goodbye.  We were in my compound and d gateman and others were not far away.  This boy held my face and tried to kiss me by force.  I blocked him with my hand and resisted the urge to slap him.  I feel he disrespected me and my house by doing this and it would be embarassing if uncle abdul the gateman saw me kissing a random man in the car all the househelps will say 'small madam don spoil oh she no dey do church again'.

Oh well.  I have a lunch 'date' after church tomorrow with an igbo boy,  should be interesting.

I dont think I'm over reacting,  tell me what you think people

Madukaele:

WOMEN AND MONEY, HISSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS, silly POSTER, make we clap for u? , or u no sabi take ursef out? ugly thing, u wan finish d guy moni, thunder scatter your head der  

190smh:

. .  May your next date spit on your eyes for refusing to kiss him

food kill you  

Smilenw:

Woman, do a spell check next time you type out long pointless posts

bhusayor:

Can't quote right now but your last reply to 190smh was classic! LMAO

Yeah it was -

Now Join me in laffin

after that go look for your food vendor too

tpia@:

journal section, please.


this may take a while.

Mynd_44:

All these small pikins sef

190smh:

Hisses

walks out and slams door

uju_1:

[size=20pt]You need education on the definition of psychopath,  right now someone who slams imaginary doors on the internet seems pretty close.
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Please dont come back.

[size=30pt]joblessness should be illegal! [/size]hissssssssssssssssssssssssssssssss

Mynd_44:

All these small pikins sef

tpia@:

journal section, please.


this may take a while.

uju_1:

Its not a journal, i'm interested in peoples responses to my reaction to a romantic occurance.

Smilenw:

Woman, do a spell check next time you type out long pointless posts

violent:

haha, the joke is on you for being lousy and not knowing "furthest" is an English word!. . gosh, the sad loss of attending a cheap school!

Pweety4me:

@Poster lol you know about b4?why u enter him car?

tpia@:


so obviously you're not as new as you want people to believe.

if you already know the journal section.

sexkillz:

And to ANSWER your QUESTION! NO! You were NOT over reacting! Only an MO[b]R[/b]ONIC Arrow would keep a LADY WAITING, talk on PHONE half the way home, in a war with a lady he just met, and is trying to impress, completely IGNORING HER and then turn around to FRENCH KISS HER! WHAT? (not even on the lips or forehead)  That's NOT GENTLEMANLY! You should have SLAPPED HIM!

sexkillz:

And HEY! The OP posted her story and ASKED for opinions! If NONE of you HALF BAKED ROMANTICS spewing thrash on this thread has any thing positive to contribute, why dont you ALL SHUT THA F[b]U[/b]CK UP, and go look for a THREAD that suits your SARDONIC, PATHETIC and MORONIC responses! DAMN HYPOCRITES!