i'm planing of marriage but the question is can 30,000 salary sustain both of us ?she is a graduate but no work yet. i need your advice.

Naira? Hell no!

Abeg suspended the marriage till you're capable of doing that, man

Go ahead and get married, Almighty is your strength!

after all my father married my mom when his financial state wasn't so good ( Just one bedroom )

thanks for ur reply,i strongly belief in the lord that nothing is impossible with him.

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Yeah you have faith and all that but I will still say NO. Just cos you believe God will do something does not guve you the right to walk into something silly

justsun:

thanks for your reply,i strongly belief in the lord that nothing is impossible with him.

who have you been talking with lately?

op how old are u? why are u in a hurry to get married? take ur time and wait till ur income grows

u dey kraze 190. divide N30000 by N260 to get the £ equivalent

Don't you belief that there is blessing in marriage,God can open doors of opportunities after the marriage, after all he said in his word that he that fineth a wife fineth a good thing and obtaineth fovour of the lord.is not a man that he should lie.God is faithful to his promise.

Sure bro why not. It worked for me. With $100 monthly income

omg. 190. u mean 190 is crippled? i will tell mr corke what u said

justsun:

Don't you belief that there is blessing in marriage,God can open doors of opportunities after the marriage, after all he said in his word that he that fineth a wife fineth a good thing and obtaineth fovour of the lord.is not a man that he should lie.God is faithful to his promise.

If you are so sure then WHY DID YOU CREATED THIS POST ASKING US [size=44pt]WHAT DO WE THINK?[/size]

I don't get some people, they go around asking people questions and then get defensive when people are not telling them what they wants to hear.  Why the hell you asked for our opinions then?

mr cork & toba pounds is now 280 - 285

op
dont try dat.

Dats risk


re u a gambler

Yes! N30k can sustain you and your wife if you intend to feed on beans every day. Some people don't pity themselves. Tomorrow, dem go say na "winch" for village dey hinder dia progress

M M M:

op
dont try dat.

Dats risk


re u a gambler

@OP,
Please tell me you are taking the mickey.
I think you posted this in the wrong section.The jokes section is over there.

30,000 gold bars or . Naira?

Location matters. Lagos, Abuja, PH, Eastern Cities, it will be hard to survive on dat alone, "cost of meals, accomodatn n transportatn". I stayed in Ilorin n I will tell u, YES, they can survive. So LOCATION matters!Location matters. Lagos, Abuja, PH, Eastern Cities, it will be hard to survive on dat alone, "cost of meals, accomodatn n transportatn". I stayed in Ilorin n I will tell u, YES, they can survive. So LOCATION matters!

singin felA for dIS OP, U GO SUFFER! U GO TIRE! U GO QUENCH! U GO PISS 4 BODY U NOR GO KNOW!

@OP: its a sure thing u r only here to inform fellow nairalanders and not seeking anyone's opinion, u already have ur mind made up. anyway, if u want to go ahead, then i wish u luck, u should know what u want man.

@OP

NGN30000 monthly. It can be difficult, but you can never say never. If the girl in question is okay with it, then you guys can work out the methods to which you can live with the money. The truth is that money is never enough, whether as a single person or a married couple. You just have to plan yourself. If you personal expenses does not exceed NGN10000 per month, then I think you can do it. You can get married to your girl, but you have to postpone child birth till she gets a jobl. However, you have to be looking up for better future as well.

yes it cant sustain you

except the girl is super rich ,

@op,hope u're not in lagos,Abuja,PH&oda big cities.Though,som pple earn less dan 30,000/month in lagos but dey manage to survive.If u stay in Osun,Ekiti,ondo,oyo or kwara,u may liv confortably wit ur wife witout children&cars or wit jst one child,@op,hope u're not in lagos,Abuja,PH&oda big cities.Though,som pple earn less dan 30,000/month in lagos but dey manage to survive.If u stay in Osun,Ekiti,ondo,oyo or kwara,u may liv confortably wit ur wife witout children&cars or wit jst one child,

It all depends on your age. If ur 35 and above, go ahead and get married, cut your coat according to ur cloth and hope for better conditions. But if ure still 34 try and improve ur financies firstly.

@Poster,  It is VERY POSSIBLE. Like other Posters have noted, Choice of location matters alot and also the nature of what you do that gives you that 30k, If it gives you time to do other things, then Its VERY POSSIBLE. Also another thing to consider is you and your spouse style of living (living expenses) your collective choice for life and where you might want to be in the next 10yrs. OUTSIDE LAGOS, ABUJA and PH, You can survive in ANY OTHER TOWN IN NIGERIA VERY WELL, Its just your determination and state of mind. God always bless a faithful and hardworking hands, that is my personal belief.  The marriage should not be expensive( just according to your earnings, don't rely on people to help you, cos they will not want you to succeed, SO PUT ALL YOUR TRUST IN GOD, I tell you with as little as 60-150k, you can do your wedding it all depends on YOU AND YOUR WIFE to be., REMEMBER Marriage is not the celebration, but the LIVING AND STAYING TOGETHER IN LOVE AND PEACE. (NOTE FOR YOU NOT TO SIN, IT IS BETTER TO MARRY (I know its in the bible can't really remember the portion now)

@ All the rest posters, Why are you people not encouraging him? Do you know his destiny? (will you be happy if this man blindfolds and carry gun tomorrow). How did Iwayanwu, Dangote, and their likes started, can you really tell. YOU MUST LEARN TO MANAGE whatever you have. My Brother Read Mathew 25:15-29, This should really tell you HOW BIG OUR GOD CAN BE. BE WISE AND MAKE THE RIGHT DECISION, ALL YOU NEED IS GOOD PLANNING AND MANAGEMENT.  BEST OF SUCCESS.