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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by Slmgirldippussy: 4:48pm On Dec 14, 2022
I cut off a friend the day he referred to me as just his acquaintance. He mentioned a certain guy name and call him his friend. Now the one he call his friend and left him. He was t to connect with me back. I just look awayyyyy

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by Tzar(m): 4:49pm On Dec 14, 2022
Of course! The b*st*rd f^cked my girlfriend, attempted to use fetish stuff on me, schemed me out of money, borrowed money and never returned it and lied against me severally.
Just because I wanted to save a worthless close to 30yr friendship, I kept forgiving the idi0t until the last straw. He is one of the reasons I think Nigerians are evil people.

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by Parachoko: 4:51pm On Dec 14, 2022
frank14011991:
I had to cut off my best friend for allowing Peter obi sweet mouth brain wash am
Lol

You made the right choice
Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by achimendy(m): 4:51pm On Dec 14, 2022
Carcholce:
Have you ever cut of a very close friend completely? If yes, give your reasons why you did.


I didn't cut mine off, I gave him distance, and he noticed it , since then we've been relating once in a while or when we see on the road.

The guy has no direction in life , always talking about women and bet9ja. He doesn't have his own personal house, he stays with his parents at his age, but he sleeps with women in different houses owned by his friends, but he doesn't come to my own.

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by 360Master: 4:55pm On Dec 14, 2022
Slawomirr:
Damnnn niggar
It is hard but there are some things a man got to do ....because some friends dey do pass themselves....



me way one of my guy loose guard in 2016....the guy wake up the morning of the day he want travel to Abuja go meet he boss for huzzle kingdom....he wake up to realize say he laptop nor green on...immediately na im he beg me for my hp laptop( the only laptop when I dey use as at that time unto say man pikin broke)...but i no reason am..i just give am....unto say my kind heart
This guy reach Abuja...good six months he nor collect anything...na so hungry dey beat am...he go dey call me I go dey give am hope..even send am small small money make he take dey support he feeding unto say their boss dey feed them only once in a day..
Oluwa run am for am...na im the guy pick...but the boss percentage too much......I come advice am make he return to Benin city come dey huzzle on he own afterall he don learn some work, tools and format...
The guy enter Benin...before you know it my guy dey collect am steadily...
Surprisingly or rather i shock when this guy start to dey loose guard me....if I call am he nor dey pick and return call...and funny enough the reason I dey call am na make we dey together as we dey do before dey smoke weed and most importantly make he help me tie weed....because as at that time I nor sabi tie weed...and na him introduce me to weed smoking....by constantly tieing it for me....
but the idiot was thinking because he now has a little money that is why am calling him and wanting to be around him
The one that reallly got to me or rather got me annoyed was the day I called him three times and he didn't pick ...from that day I stopped calling him...for one year I didn't call him...when he realize his mistake he called me one day but I managed to picked and we talked but deep down inside me our friendship can never remain the same...I was no longer picking his subsequent calls...I cut am off
And thank God..I can tie weed now....am a professional in weed tieing as am typing now


May cruise no key you Nigga… How I go take learn how to tie weed bro… I be new entrant…

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by youngmoore(m): 4:55pm On Dec 14, 2022
I cut off with one of my teacher when I was in jjs2 this man stays very close to school and he always promise to finance me which he did like buying me textbook which have collected the money from parent,he always gimme money and I alway go to his house to do cleaning.one Sunday like that I went there to do cleaning and after the cleaning I eat and drank tea tea which I slept off like he added something to the tea that makes me sleep.I’m a boy of 16years then and this man has to put his dick in my laps after trying to use anal.
1-fear was catch me
2-I was so slowing to rush up due to the drink he gimme
3-I keep been like what’s going
Not until this man release on my laps and keep begging me after not to tell anyone that he is trying to help me learning me how to have sex
The worst part of it o never knew what’s calling homosexual things then.i keep this thing to my self not until after 20-25years I told a friend close to me and till date I still can’t tell anyone aside from him.when I grow up later I discovered what they call homosexuals and I later know the man is a gay.it was so scared to me that I can’t tell

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by highchief1: 4:56pm On Dec 14, 2022
Carcholce:
Have you ever cut of a very close friend completely? If yes, give your reasons why you did.
one in 2020 one in 2022.the one in 2020 didn’t attend my dads burial even though he was in town.the one in 2022 does not realize that my spirit does not take insults.we all have our private graves.nobody accompanies anybody to the morgue.life is personal and must be lived this wise.Do not allow anybody no matter how close u r with them to make u feel less human.life is per head.nobody is indispensable

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by dododawa1: 4:58pm On Dec 14, 2022
1) Definition of CLOSE FRIEND.
2) KIDS full this forum.

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by blaquebelle: 4:58pm On Dec 14, 2022
Gospel2Day:


Quit tieing and smoking weed
Don't let heaven cut you off permanently and perpetually.
You still have time to repent and receive Jesus NOW before it is too late.
Hell is the Place of everlasting torment and torture where God sends all those He has cut ties with eternally.
Is It a sin to smoke? Or its just one of those things that are judged as morally wrong by society. I'm genuinely curious.

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by Silentgroper(m): 5:00pm On Dec 14, 2022
Calibrator:
For this life wey some immediate family members sef dey mental blocklist..... What is a common close friend?




No price is too expensive to pay for peace of mind!
I swear down..
Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by Rehoboth2020(m): 5:00pm On Dec 14, 2022
I pity those who are hell bent on running this country to the ground.

As a medical personnel the health system is running aground. Many consultants have vowed to leave the country if the wrong candidate wins.

Recently many teaching hospitals have been calling for doctors to come and take up jobs but no one is even available.

I have seen many people die of resolvable issues because there was no specialist within that vicinity to proper help.

Keep supporting the wrong candidates when you know the right thing to do.

You know Peter Obi is the best chance we have at redeeming the country.

Soon when someone has an ordinary stroke, there wouldn't be even an experienced hand to solve it. You think it is about being paid. Very soon no good doctor will be on ground to help you even if you have all the money.

I rest my case

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by Wealthv(m): 5:02pm On Dec 14, 2022
Sickness way money nor fit cure omo shocked shocked shocked
Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by wiseone28: 5:02pm On Dec 14, 2022

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by Victoria938(f): 5:04pm On Dec 14, 2022
She slept with my boyfriend at the time, cut both of them from my life.

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by AmuRubber(m): 5:04pm On Dec 14, 2022
Karleb:

I hope when the future comes you won't be alone.
Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by wiseone28: 5:04pm On Dec 14, 2022
genkins:
I cut out one of my good friends of 12 years coz dude was a bad influence. Envious and use me as yardstick to his success.

Apart from the fact that he drinks and smokes too much which I don't see how an adult male in his productive age should spend most times drinking and smoking.
If I buy lexus, my guy must buy the higher version of it otherwise he is a failure.
If I dress well, my guy must dress better.
If I have a girlfriend,my guy is constantly calculating how the girl should be his.
He always want to be the star in our gathering especially when babe de involved.
If I decide to buy Suv, my guy sef must change to Suv. If I build Bungalow, my guy must build something that has staircase.. Lol
I noticed all these characteristics but I felt he was just being childish
Then I noticed that if I put in for an international exams, he will do everything to rubbish the exams so I don't write it, then turns around to go attempt it. When we were around marriageable age, he tried to discourage me from serious dating but went behind to propose to his girl so he will marry first.. I can go on and on...

One day, I decided that these character cannot be my friend again. I just blocked and blanked him... Now for 2yrs.And I have been a better person since in terms of foresight and achievement.
Omo you should have done one thing before cutting him off..


Fake death, maybe he would have drank poison to die first before you.

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by highchief1: 5:07pm On Dec 14, 2022
Jeon:
Cutting off people is my hobby.

I always give 1st, 2nd and the 3rd time is final.
lol u fit be my twin brother.I don even cut sotey go cut 3 members of my family off.

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by EdiskyHarry: 5:09pm On Dec 14, 2022
In this world there is nothing like friend.see everyone as your friend and your enemies. No special friends.
Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by Jeon(m): 5:09pm On Dec 14, 2022
highchief1:
lol u fit be my twin brother.I don even cut sotey go cut 3 members of my family off.

lolz.

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by BigDawsNet: 5:10pm On Dec 14, 2022
Carcholce:
Have you ever cut of a very close friend completely? If yes, give your reasons why you did.

Yes... a very close lady...
She was close to me but she never trusted me for a bit... I really don't know why maybe she struggling with trust issue... anyway I had to let her be because I can't have people who don't trust me around them...

I dint block her but I stop responding to her messages

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by Herbephe1(m): 5:11pm On Dec 14, 2022
Smarte724:
I just Cut one off recently, he brought his girlfriend to my office and introduce her to me as his junior sister, he plead that I allow her do IT in my office, which I accepted , the lady spent all the ASUU strike in my office doing her industrial training , I went extra mile to make sure that I trained her to be the best, recently my cousin called me and inform me that the girl was the guy girlfriend ,



You've feelings for the girl??
If not this shouldn't not stop your friendship, it's just thing that you can just sit down and iron it out.

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by isimmia: 5:12pm On Dec 14, 2022
Yes! I totally and completely cut off a long time friend turned twin.
we were seen as twins yet we are from different states.

The reason is as simple as this:
When we were growing, I sustained him because I had enough then
We lived in opposite building but he usually sleeps in my house because,
1. I cook and he doesn't
2. I had PS and he hasn't
3. I stock provisions yet I don't take tea, custard nor cornflakes but he helps me consume them and I never for a day complained

I later traveled to ABJ and was doing building material business at Dei Dei.
Countless times I bought clothes and sent to him anytime I see one that will fit him and send him money too but he appreciates it at that time, honestly

I wanted him to come over to ABJ in 2012 and join me in the business, but he said no with a reason that boko haram is terrorizing that side.

Later on, I had a problem with my business in ABJ and returned to Onitsha in 2013 and discovered that he has started electronics business at Electromart along Onitsha-Enugu express way and he was doing great which was why he refused to come over to ABJ when I called him

He saw my condition and never helped. At first I didn't take it to heart
I later took a shuttle bus on hire purchase, and started from scratch
He started giving me attitude, if he wants to go out and chill, he will lose guard me, if I bump into him, he will give me attitude. I asked him for 5k to fix my motor when it got spoiled and he said market is bad.

As God may have it, I started picking slowly until 2018 February when I bought my own car, he started getting close. Lol

Finally, I scheduled my traditional marriage in November 2018 and he thought I'd chose him as my best man, but I disappointed him and went for they guy that stood by me all those time. I gave him invitation and he agreed to go with me but on that faithful day, he went to the market.

I called him several times and he said he's coming home to get ready, I waited for him until 12 and decided to drive to his shop. On getting there, he was not at the shop and when I called him, he said he is sorry that he went to supply in Asaba, then I left for my traditional marriage.

My brethren, I came back and he didn't call me to know how I went till date, I didn't pick offence then. My lovely wife who happened to like him so much gave birth to my prince charming son. I called him and told him about it but he never showed up. I invited him to our child dedication ceremony and he didn't come and didn't call so I did the needful without regrets.

I cut him off and I will never reverse that.
He is richer than me now though, but I will never in my life have his contact on my phone or have anyone call him with my phone. Not in my life

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by Hotty321(m): 5:13pm On Dec 14, 2022
Yes when I figure out he's just hypocrite and has non challant attitude
Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by mokset123: 5:13pm On Dec 14, 2022
I made a friend during my nysc days, and the friendship continued into our postgraduate days at the University, some years after bagging our masters degree, i had to cut him off, because, I saw he was a selfish person, I remembered coming to lagos and telling him let's meet at the cinema and my guy stood me up, failed to pick my call, then came my wedding he failed to show up, that was when I knew the friendship was over. Years later he sent me a message begging me to forgive him in anyway he might have wronged me, he later discovered himself because I had deleted his contact from my phone then he knew the friendship was over.

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by femie21(m): 5:14pm On Dec 14, 2022
Urheadmaster:
I had to cutoff my bosom friend for fucking my sister tongue






This one na nice ending o

But to my greatest surprise.

They are now husband and wife blessed with 3 wonderful kids tongue
Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by Nobody: 5:15pm On Dec 14, 2022
Stfu bst
Hopebringer:


I dey like fall nighaz like you ..

You suppose fall
Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by Parachoko: 5:15pm On Dec 14, 2022
Gospel2Day:


Quit tieing and smoking weed
Don't let heaven cut you off permanently and perpetually.
You still have time to repent and receive Jesus NOW before it is too late.
Hell is the Place of everlasting torment and torture where God sends all those He has cut ties with eternally.
Is smoking Marijuana also a sin?
Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by Bombeverybody: 5:16pm On Dec 14, 2022
I had to cut one off due to his archaic way of thinking. He didn't offend me in anyway I swear to God, but his way of life is slowing down my growth. I'm an ambivert and is 101percent introvert, he's 7 years older than myself. He's too religious and not pushful. He attach religious views to things that we can think one on one ....he never admits to mistakes caused by him....he will quote bible verses to support his foolishness.....my ex-wife cheated on me, left me when I was sick. She wanted to be back to my life after she notice that I progressed without her, I swore not to take her back due to my principles and readings about life. This my friend did everything possible for me to take her back not until I insulted him to back off and call him human wrapper.....

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Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by benqo01(m): 5:16pm On Dec 14, 2022
Urheadmaster:
I had to cutoff my bosom friend for fucking my sister tongue








But to my greatest surprise.

They are now husband and wife blessed with 3 wonderful kids tongue


Lol
Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by AmuRubber(m): 5:18pm On Dec 14, 2022
Pharaoh4rin:
This my guy ehn, we don enter police cell for four different states and we don enter guardroom taya.
But in 2015, he said he was going to vote buhari. I refused. We argued, and I told him that if he vote buhari,, it'll mark the end of our friendship. He went ahead, and I cut him off. Till now we could not reconnect. I honor my word above myself and he knows it.

grin grin grin
Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by Pootle: 5:22pm On Dec 14, 2022
Urheadmaster:
I had to cutoff my bosom friend for fucking my sister tongue








But to my greatest surprise.

They are now husband and wife blessed with 3 wonderful kids tongue

:ou dont mean it grin
Re: Have You Ever Cut Off A Very Close Friend Completely? by Fragility6: 5:28pm On Dec 14, 2022
frank14011991:
I had to cut off my best friend for allowing Peter obi sweet mouth brain wash am
If na tinubu wey slow pass buhari abi the dubai thief atiku u dey support then na God do am for that your friend. You too stupid to be e friend

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