A friend of mine recently shared with me how her boyfriend forcefully had intercourse with her without her consent. the guy had formally proposed 2 her and they have dated for barely one year.
she claims she had loved every bit of this guy. now she has lost all the respect she had for him because of that singular act. If he could do this to her while they r still dating, he is capable of doing worse things when they eventually get married.she needs ur advice, should she forgive him and continue or quit?

Did he open her legs by force or did he violation her or did he force her into alcoholism and capitalize on her?

How is it without her consent?

190_@:

Nigerian Girls are always confused

and they Love Intimacy damn too much

I heard most Nigerian girls cant stay without sex for a day

OP is that true  

190 you and nigerian girls kai

it must av been what she wanted, cuz am veri sure they were 2geda in a room b4 d thought of rape came in2 d guy's mind

However, any guy who rapes his gf even when he can get it willingly is simply a GOAT!
The gurl should FLEE!

190_@:

I get nigerian wife oo - nor mind me

lol, if you get, hope she is not a nairalander otherwise u could just divorce you.
If you dont have u r missing out seriously.

If it was actually R!AP!E (which I don't believe), then I dunno y she's thinking twice about leaving

A gf told me sth similar too.
There relatnshp according 2 her is ok n she intends spending her life wit him. Sounds awkward bt she said she enjoyd sex wit him.
Poster, if she feels ok, its her choice cos its her lyf.

She should be talking to the police

@ Andrew,it was a R/A/P/E case in which her legs were forced open

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her bf is sick

Oh!!! Another story of girl admitting she was r-apped again Nigerian girls!!!! Always fond of saying they were this or that, seduced, bla bla bla, mtcheww

Unfortunately, it sometimes happens even in marriage, however, no matter the circumstances r/ape is always an awful experience for a woman and therefore shouldn't be condoned.

On the other hand, the guy has already formally proposed and they have been going out for 2years.
Well, I believe 2yrs is long enough wait, the girl should appreciate that he may have been so deprived that he could have lost control in a moment of weakness, perhaps when they were romancing.
His crime although despicable is also forgivable, after-all they are about to get married and soon he would be getting it on the tap anyway, moreover she may later even be the one demanding the guy for regular servicing.   

I suggest she should forgive him, but should discuss the issue with him and if necessary set new boundaries that would be practical and reasonably acceptable to both parties. Their problem is not insurmountable or irredeemable.

Really painful but the guy probably took "no" to mean "yes" as is the case with most women especially after a year of waiting.

If love has now turned to hatred, let her quit pls.