One thing every attractive person male or female can agree on is the fact that you constantly have to reduce your shine so others can shine before you are accepted. I will explain.

When people think you’re attractive they automatically see you as a threat, either as a man or woman. People always take second glances at you and that makes them feel inferior and it offends them that someone can just come out of their house and look better than them without even trying. They automatically dislike you in their mind and the only way they can accept you is if you pretend to not know you are attractive and you always make them feel special in public.

I have spent most of my life tip toeing around people, I try not to talk too much, not to dress too much , not to do this or do that just so it doesn’t look like I’m trying to rub my shine in peoples faces, what did I get for that? Nothing, no matter what you do they will still hate and envy you.

In my life I’m ready to shine, God blessed me and I’m not spending one second of my life reducing my greatness just so other people around me can feel comfortable, I’m officially done.

Everyone is competing with me, if I go out and people are nicer to me than my friends they try to hurt my feelings with harsh words, I’m not living like this no more. I’m a star and I’m going to let it shine.

If you’re a beautiful girl or a very handsome man please flex that shit, don’t reduce your star for any idiot just because it makes them feel inferior

Ranting. E get how fine person take dey reduce their shine or as I be 6 feet 3 inches, I go come dey crawl because I dey with short guys or if they feel bad?

SocialJustice:
Ranting. E get how fine person take dey reduce their shine or as I be 6 feet 3 inches, I go come dey crawl because I dey with short guys or if they feel bad?

Bro please let’s not bring negativity into this thread. Most people can relate with my post, in a way it will help so many people. Not everything is cruise.

My brother it's not easy....na my cross

Braintaf23:
One thing every attractive person male or female can agree on is the fact that you constantly have to reduce your shine so others can shine before you are accepted.

Every? Please speak for yourself. I am the lion in the room even at my worst and I don't consider sheeps.
TURN DOWN FOR WHAT ?
TURN DOWN FOR WHO

superCleanworks:


Every? Please speak for yourself. I am the lion in the room even at my worst and I don't consider sheeps.
TURN DOWN FOR WHAT ?
TURN DOWN FOR WHO

Exactly bro that’s how I be especially nowadays, never dim your light for any baskardd

That’s your feeling and it’s Blush!t

I can relate to this.

Loveisnotenough:
I can relate to this.

Not worth it bro, don’t ever dim your light for anyone again

Lets see your pics, so that we understand what you saying.

Rant







My siggy

Shine and shine more.

As inferiority complex dey naso superiority complex dey too.

Just be yourself.. tiptoe for what.. people will always talk.. and hate.. since you feel you have that awareness.. limit it to defending against the jealous ones.

But if you are really being yourself.. the jealous ones sef go rest