She doesn't deserve to be cared for and shouldn't be answered when she demands anything from you....but, do help her in your little ways so you can at least mark the register that you did you part when the tables turn. The 10k here and there shouldn't hurt your purse. Soon, she will wish she has you guys around her instead of the money you send. If only people know that there is a time called tomorrow when we will harvest what we had sowed yesterday. It is well.

JovialRPiller:

So we should ignore when a parent fails woefully simply because of these ??

I'm a Christian and I do not agree

One Word. NIGERIANS..

Deadbeat mother.
Will send her money,but she will never see me or my kids till she dies.

I'm seeing how almost all the ladies here are telling her to forgive and continue to care of such a horrible mother,

Imagine for a moment that all these were to be about her father.
You will read how she should cut him off, and how he should not reap where he didn't sow etc.

Omo the hypocrisy is sooooo glaring

She definitely have a mental disorder that wasn't diagnosed.

That's the country we live in

When u are clothed and aren't roaming the street, everyone thinks you're normal.

But sanity takes more than that.....

If it's not too late, take her for mental evaluation.

A very bad mother, she deserves nothing from any of you, ignore her till Oblivion.

You owe her nothing.
I don't believe in all this she's still your mother nonsense.
She hasn't changed from all indication so I don't understand why you have her in your lives still keeping you miserable.

JovialRPiller:

Nonsense.

The same bible said that parents should not provoke their children to anger.

She has sowed and she must reap what she had sown.


OP, the mother-son love is long gone nodoubt. You have every right to neglect her but please dont. Just take care of her like you would take care of any elderly woman out there.