HISfavoryt:

Pls house I need this information 4 a friend.

A friend of mine (girl) is a virgin, she said she made a covenant with God at a very tender age of fifteen, 2 remain a virgin until her wedding 9t. But being a very beautiful girl, guys disturb her a lot but she doesn't want 2 accept any. Reason cox few she had tried, she broke up cox they wanted to be intimate(sleep)with her which she not willing to.To her its seems every guy wants 2 be intimate so she rather stay alone, until when the right man
comes. The thing is that some of her friends are telling her that no man in this generation will be willing 2 wait till her wedding 9t n that she's just wasting her time, but I tried encouraging her, cox I like her, she's just cool, disciplined n moral.
we decided 2 post this here 2 get opinions. What do u think?

N.B   Pls serious minded people are needed, no joke pls!

Mr Cork <<<<<<<waited 6 months & still waitin! 

HISfavoryt:

The thing is that some of her friends are telling her that no man in this generation will be willing 2 wait till her wedding 9t n that she's just wasting her time, but I tried encouraging her, cox I like her, she's just cool, disciplined n moral.
we decided 2 post this here 2 get opinions. What do u think?

N.B Pls serious minded people are needed, no joke pls!

Godmouth:

@ bittertruth You have spoken well. The girl in question needs to consider the type of people she calls friends. There are many challenges in marriage and being a virgin before saying your vows doesn't make one immune to them. However there's a reason why God reserves sex for marriage alone.
Both on this side of life and for eternity
The earlier we learn thisthe better

HISfavoryt:


@ bittatruth she is 23 going 2 24. As 4 the reason 4 that I don't know, I think that's a personal issue b/w she n God. All the same sha, 10x 4 your good contribution. 

Godmouth:

God bless you strides for your contribution. With God-fearing women like you around, the future of Nigerian society is very bright!

sexkillz:

Not every one can wait! True fact! But then, to hell with them if they cant wait! And to friends "telling her that no man in this generation will be willing 2 wait till her wedding 9t n that she's just wasting her time", how better off are they? How did they come to that conclusion? Are they all married and she is left? And what guarantee do they have that premarital sex is a sure ticket to a blissful marriage? Let them shut their rotten traps!

Since you say she's of good behavior, let her keep it up alongside her virginity! And tell her she doesnt deserve low life friends that DONT respect her stands on morals! And i can bet my last kobo that they are jealous of her virgin status! Bear the following in mind. I made this comment on an earlier thread:

*Those engaging in premarital sex risk contracting a sexually transmitted disease!
*Each year millions of youths contract a sexually transmitted disease (STD)
*Over half of all new HIV infections worldwide (6,000 a day) occur among those who are between 15 and 24 years of age.
*Females are particularly vulnerable to a host of problems related to premarital sex. In fact, the threat of STDs (as well as HIV) is higher for females than for males. If a young girl becomes pregnant, she places herself and her unborn child at further risk. Why? Because a young girl’s body may not have developed to the point of being able to handle childbirth safely!
*Most youths who have engaged in premarital sex say that they regretted it afterward.
*After having s[b]e[/b]x, a boy is more likely to dump his girlfriend and move on to someone else.
*Many boys have said that they would never marry a girl they have had s[b]e[/b]x with.
*The reality of premarital sex is far different from what is shown in movies and on TV.
*The entertainment industry glamorizes sex and makes it look like true love.
*If you give in to premarital sex, you are degrading yourself by giving away something of precious value.
*If you do marry one day, you can have s[b]e[/b]x. You'll have SO MUCH sex that you'll ask yourself "WHY THE RUSH"?
*When Married, you’ll be able to enjoy sex fully, without the  regrets, and insecurities that are so often the aftermath of premarital sex.
*Sexually permissive people are unlikely to change their habits just because they get married.
*The fact is, virginity is not strange or abnormal. It’s immoral sex that is degrading, humiliating, and harmful. So don’t let ANYONE con you into thinking that something is wrong with BEING A VIRGIN!>>>>>>PURE FABLES!
*By retaining your virginity, you protect your health, your emotional well-being!

Make sure she reads those points and bear them in mind!

And if anyone has an issue with virgins, i'll be right here!

Strides:

Well said bt all these entails being moral n morality has limits when push beyond its limits it gives up everything. Thats why it is necessary to involve God cause its only with in him we can reach our desired goal. Anywayz 9ce piece of advice!

sexkillz:

Not every one can wait! True fact! But then, to hell with them if they cant wait! And to friends "telling her that no man in this generation will be willing 2 wait till her wedding 9t n that she's just wasting her time", how better off are they? How did they come to that conclusion? Are they all married and she is left? And what guarantee do they have that premarital sex is a sure ticket to a blissful marriage? Let them shut their rotten traps!

Since you say she's of good behavior, let her keep it up alongside her virginity! And tell her she doesnt deserve low life friends that DONT respect her stands on morals! And i can bet my last kobo that they are jealous of her virgin status! Bear the following in mind. I made this comment on an earlier thread:

*Those engaging in premarital sex risk contracting a sexually transmitted disease!
*Each year millions of youths contract a sexually transmitted disease (STD)
*Over half of all new HIV infections worldwide (6,000 a day) occur among those who are between 15 and 24 years of age.
*Females are particularly vulnerable to a host of problems related to premarital sex. In fact, the threat of STDs (as well as HIV) is higher for females than for males. If a young girl becomes pregnant, she places herself and her unborn child at further risk. Why? Because a young girl’s body may not have developed to the point of being able to handle childbirth safely!
*Most youths who have engaged in premarital sex say that they regretted it afterward.
*After having s[b]e[/b]x, a boy is more likely to dump his girlfriend and move on to someone else.
*Many boys have said that they would never marry a girl they have had s[b]e[/b]x with.
*The reality of premarital sex is far different from what is shown in movies and on TV.
*The entertainment industry glamorizes sex and makes it look like true love.
*If you give in to premarital sex, you are degrading yourself by giving away something of precious value.
*If you do marry one day, you can have s[b]e[/b]x. You'll have SO MUCH sex that you'll ask yourself "WHY THE RUSH"?
*When Married, you’ll be able to enjoy sex fully, without the  regrets, and insecurities that are so often the aftermath of premarital sex.
*Sexually permissive people are unlikely to change their habits just because they get married.
*The fact is, virginity is not strange or abnormal. It’s immoral sex that is degrading, humiliating, and harmful. So don’t let ANYONE con you into thinking that something is wrong with BEING A VIRGIN!>>>>>>PURE FABLES!
*By retaining your virginity, you protect your health, your emotional well-being!

Make sure she reads those points and bear them in mind!

And if anyone has an issue with virgins, i'll be right here!

sexkillz:

[color=#000099][size=10pt][font=segoe print]Not every one can wait! True fact! But then, to hell with them if they cant wait! And to friends "telling her that no man in this generation will be willing 2 wait till her wedding 9t n that she's just wasting her time", how better off are they? How did they come to that conclusion? Are they all married and she is left? And what guarantee do they have that premarital sex is a sure ticket to a blissful marriage? Let them shut their rotten traps!

Since you say she's of good behavior, let her keep it up alongside her virginity! And tell her she doesnt deserve low life friends that DONT respect her stands on morals! And i can bet my last kobo that they are jealous of her virgin status! Bear the following in mind. I made this comment on an earlier thread:

*Those engaging in premarital sex risk contracting a sexually transmitted disease!
*Each year millions of youths contract a sexually transmitted disease (STD)
*Over half of all new HIV infections worldwide (6,000 a day) occur among those who are between 15 and 24 years of age.
*Females are particularly vulnerable to a host of problems related to premarital sex. In fact, the threat of STDs (as well as HIV) is higher for females than for males. If a young girl becomes pregnant, she places herself and her unborn child at further risk. Why? Because a young girl’s body may not have developed to the point of being able to handle childbirth safely!
*Most youths who have engaged in premarital sex say that they regretted it afterward.
*After having s[b]e[/b]x, a boy is more likely to dump his girlfriend and move on to someone else.
*Many boys have said that they would never marry a girl they have had sex with.
*The reality of premarital sex is far different from what is shown in movies and on TV.
*The entertainment industry glamorizes sex and makes it look like true love.
*If you give in to premarital sex, you are degrading yourself by giving away something of precious value.
*If you do marry one day, you can have s[b]e[/b]x. You'll have SO MUCH sex that you'll ask yourself "WHY THE RUSH"?
*When Married, you’ll be able to enjoy sex fully, without the  regrets, and insecurities that are so often the aftermath of premarital sex.
*Sexually permissive people are unlikely to change their habits just because they get married.
*The fact is, virginity is not strange or abnormal. It’s immoral sex that is degrading, humiliating, and harmful. So don’t let ANYONE con you into thinking that something is wrong with BEING A VIRGIN!>>>>>>PURE FABLES!
*By retaining your virginity, you protect your health, your emotional well-being!