I may sound kindergarten but am really ignorant of what compatibilities I should checkout in ma wife to be.
I look forward to get married very soon but am yet to figure out what I like and dislike In a woman.
There is this ibo girl i recently came across although we have not physically met, we started a wireless
Relationship. she is in Nigeria while am in Dublin. I met her on Facebook and the same week we started proclaiming
Romeo and Juliet love. Due to the way we talk and chat, (she calls me I call her)I started concluding that since ma
Mum wont let me rest because of grand child I could just go back home and without thinking twice take her to the
Alter. I was so flabbergasted last week when we were exchanging pictures via bbm and she sent me her unclad pic
I was a kind of heart broken and felt unsecured. I have previously complained to her about some pics she had with
Some rough looking guys which she claimed she is a local movie actor and those were just movie scenes. I had previously planned her trip so we could meet as ma leave will not be very soon but now am thinking twice maybe she is not what i want ma woman to be. I told her openly that jealousy is ma second name and she was ok with that.

Here is ma question, could it be she is not good for me or just not my type? Am a very shy and quite type, I need a wife not a knife. should i forget about her and move on or let her come over and i see the stuff she is made of?

i like how it sounds, i need a wife and not a knife, cool

Easy get a lady to spend time with and you will know your compatibility.

here is what your post said to me:

I may sound kindergarten but  am really ignorant of what compatibilities I should checkout in ma wife to be.

CHILDISH
you should first be in a REAL r/ship and get to know someone before you can talk of compatibilities.

I look forward to get married very soon but am yet to figure out what I like and  dislike In a woman.

CONFUSED
how can you soon get married if you have no idea about what you want in a mate?! i suggest you discover YOURSELF before putting yourself on the market because you SURELY aint ready!

There is this ibo girl i recently came across although we have not physically met, we started a wireless Relationship.

DELUSIONAL
until you physically MEET and spend valuable time with that person, there is no way you can know if you guys are compatible (or if what she says is true)

she is in Nigeria while am in Dublin. I met her on Facebook and the same week we started proclaiming
Romeo and Juliet love.

DESPERATE
you are infatuated with a dream, an illusion! there is NO love between you two and you certainly have no idea what love means.
here is a simple question to you: what do you actually know about this person (apart from what she claims)? what do you LIKE about her, let alone LOVE?

Due to the way we talk and chat, (she calls me I call her)I started concluding that since ma
Mum wont let me rest because of grand child Grin I could just go back home and without thinking twice take her to the Alter.

PEER PRESSURE
if you had any idea what MARRIAGE means, you wouldnt be here telling us that simply because your mother is desperate for a grandchild, you will marry and she goat out there.
imagine what you are saying: you want to marry someone because of the way you guys TALK!!!!!!!!
it's just like playing the lottery, that marriage of 2 stranger have very little chance to SUCCEED.

I was so flabbergasted last week when we were exchanging pictures via bbm and she sent me her unclad pic

WTF!!!!!!
i guess this stranger is into you. the important question IS: what is her aim?! and how many guys have received her pics?

I was a kind of heart broken and felt unsecured. I have previously complained to her about some pics she had with Some rough looking guys which she claimed she is a local movie actor and those were just movie scenes.

STOOPID
why dont you just ask her the title of the movie so you can watch how great of an "actress" she is, duh!

I had previously planned her trip so we could meet as ma leave will not be very soon but now am thinking twice maybe she is not what i want ma woman to be. I told her openly that jealousy is ma second name  and she was ok with that.

LOW SELF ESTEEM
if jealousy is your second name then you best work on your issues and find someone that you can relate to because i am sure your "actress" friend will have to kiss in movies and possibly do love scenes. so think about that for a minute.

Here is ma question, could it be she is not good for me or just not my type?  Am a very shy and quite type, I need a wife not a knife. should i forget about her and move on or let her come over and i see the stuff she is made of?

you dont know this person (how can we?) and until you spend VALUABLE time with her, there is no saying what it will be like between you two. you need nothing less than 2 LONG years of physical contact (no online BS) before you can THINK that you know who she is and go ahead with marriage plans.
so i suggest you tell your MUM that you aint ready for marriage and discover who that woman is FIRST!!!

OP

Am I compatible with r231?

u're kidding right

@ poster,
Don't believe any lady you get through the internet.Some are real and fake too.She's not a good lady.Run very fast.

MRbrownJAY:

here is what your post said to me:

CHILDISH
you should first be in a REAL r/ship and get to know someone before you can talk of compatibilities.

CONFUSED
how can you soon get married if you have no idea about what you want in a mate?! i suggest you discover YOURSELF before putting yourself on the market because you SURELY aint ready!

DELUSIONAL
until you physically MEET and spend valuable time with that person, there is no way you can know if you guys are compatible (or if what she says is true)

DESPERATE
you are infatuated with a dream, an illusion! there is NO love between you two and you certainly have no idea what love means.
here is a simple question to you: what do you actually know about this person (apart from what she claims)? what do you LIKE about her, let alone LOVE?

PEER PRESSURE
if you had any idea what MARRIAGE means, you wouldnt be here telling us that simply because your mother is desperate for a grandchild, you will marry and she goat out there.
imagine what you are saying: you want to marry someone because of the way you guys TALK!!!!!!!!
it's just like playing the lottery, that marriage of 2 stranger have very little chance to SUCCEED.


WTF!!!!!!
i guess this stranger is into you. the important question IS: what is her aim?! and how many guys have received her pics?

STOOPID
why dont you just ask her the title of the movie so you can watch how great of an "actress" she is, duh!

LOW SELF ESTEEM
if jealousy is your second name then you best work on your issues and find someone that you can relate to because i am sure your "actress" friend will have to kiss in movies and possibly do love scenes. so think about that for a minute.

you dont know this person (how can we?) and until you spend VALUABLE time with her, there is no saying what it will be like between you two. you need nothing less than 2 LONG years of physical contact (no online BS) before you can THINK that you know who she is and go ahead with marriage plans.
so i suggest you tell your MUM that you aint ready for marriage and discover who that woman is FIRST!!!

waoooo, really appreciate but eeee

MMM DON COME AM SURE NO GOOD REPLY WILL COME AGAIN

it is all about DUBLIN!!!!, before you can think of marraige, you have to have a real relationship first, i guess not knowing who your spouse is, or knowing but overlooking, is what destroys marraiges this days.

sexkillz:

Ok Andrew! I'm willing to help! Let's start by you telling me about your self! Your likes and dislikes! That will only help in putting you on a more trajectory plane, if you are to achieve any measure of success in finding a compatible mate!

Thanks. Lets say ma likes are: I want ma woman to be career oriented, not her career alone but mine also. A woman that complains about me not having her time in the name of job or career really will be a turn off because ma
abstinence  from relationship has really been because of that reason. I happen to be a reversed programmer and 99%
of ma time is needed in. I broke up with ma first gf because i was always programming. she boldly told me I can date my laptop and let her be. I also admire a woman that will contribute in opinion to many of ma decisions. look is really not ma priority but some how not bad. A woman that can understand how jealousy eats deep in ma heart and avoid the shits that makes me jealous while i try to fight it.
So have u any babes?

^^^^ I agree. Work is everything to the OP. The type of lady who will be willing to accept him will be those who dont love him but are willing to settle with him as a means to an end.
Eventually even those will determine being with him will not be worth it after a while. Good thing he did not include faithfulness or loyalty in his list of requirements in a woman. So that might actually work.

@sexkillz
Thanks very much I really appreciate your valuable comment. I will put some in application.

::Andrew:::

MMM DON COME AM SURE NO GOOD REPLY WILL COME AGAIN

my guy is better u use gun and kill ur self than knife