Good day, fellas. Can u date a lady or guy that has a leaking mouth? i.e he/she rarely keeps secret. I have a female friend that I like but this behavior has made me to be scared of her and avoid her like body odour. She noticed my distance from her and she was offended. I had to act friendly with her again so as not to give her that impression that I am avoiding her. But deep inside of me, I am scared of her behavior.

If u have nothing to hide like me, why not?

PoliteActivist:
If u have nothing to hide like me, why not?

U seemed not to understand what I mean. Someone that rarely keep confidential matter or secret. I mean a chronic gossip.

Truvelisback:
U seemed not to understand what I mean. Someone that rarely keep confidential matter or secret. I mean a chronic gossip.

So what? Just don't tell her secrets. Better yet, don't have secrets!

When I read the headline I thought its leaking mouth like Carter Efe's. When he talks spit comes out of his mouth. Stop all this misleading headlines mbok.

PoliteActivist:


So what? Just don't tell her secrets. Better yet, don't have secrets!

even if you no tell am secret. She go still monitor you, study your life, study how you talk, and what you talk about. Deduce rubbish, and talk nonsense with your name. E be like say you no know those kind people, better avoid them o. Just greet them and face front

Oscarhakx:
even if you no tell am secret. She go still monitor you, study your life, study how you talk, and what you talk about. Deduce rubbish, and talk nonsense with your name. E be like say you no know those kind people, better avoid them o. Just greet them and face front

Omo, no be lie sha!. We dey greet sha but i don zip my mouth for where she dey. Once beaten, twice shy. . Na she dey tell me wetin dey sup for area, me na just to listen to her.

HELL NO!!!! People like that shouldn't be around because they can unknowingly leak your secret to your enemies or those looking to harm you

There is a saying " Loose lips sink ships". It's better you hurt their feelings than for them to hurt you.

Truvelisback:
Omo, no be lie sha!. We dey greet sha but i don zip my mouth for where she dey. Once beaten, twice shy. . Na she dey tell me wetin dey sup for area, me na just to listen to her.

good. Just dey behave like small pikin wey no sabi anything. That way, you will keep her in the dark. She will never see nothing about you to talk about

Berrityga:
When I read the headline I thought its leaking mouth like Carter Efe's. When he talks spit comes out of his mouth. Stop all this misleading headlines mbok.

Same.

IkeIgboNile:
HELL NO!!!! People like that shouldn't be around because they can unknowingly leak your secret to your enemies or those looking to harm you

There is a saying " Loose lips sink ships". It's better you hurt their feelings than for them to hurt you.

l don't just want to make enemity out of it. She is my colleague at my place of work. I had to handle her with care make she no go pour sain,sain for my garri with her mouth one way or the other.

Berrityga:
When I read the headline I thought its leaking mouth like Carter Efe's. When he talks spit comes out of his mouth. Stop all this misleading headlines mbok.

Abeg, na wetin be the difference?

Oscarhakx:
even if you no tell am secret. She go still monitor you, study your life, study how you talk, and what you talk about. Deduce rubbish, and talk nonsense with your name. E be like say you no know those kind people, better avoid them o. Just greet them and face front

Well, OP did not say she does all that. He said she "could barely keep a secret"

Hell no .

Make she no come wake up one morning come begin tell people say I be wetin I no be.

PoliteActivist:


Well, OP did not say she does all that. He said she "could barely keep a secret"

if you were following, you will see were op said she's a chronic gossip

No

PoliteActivist:


Well, OP did not say she does all that. He said she "could barely keep a secret"

She does. As a matter of fact, i never knew she was that way until i started noticing somethings and behaviours from those she gossips with. If ur sensitivity is not strong or very strong, u won't know. She looks so innocent in appearance.

Omoh......i no try dat mistake 4 life again.

E Get 1 grl i be dey kpash 4 akwa ibom,at 1st i be no knw say dis grl nah basketmouth...nah 4 her frds mouth i take dey hear wetin we do 4 bed..

naso i brk up with her ooh,b4 dis grl go turn me to samson.

Illegal1:
Omoh......i no try dat mistake 4 life again.

E Get 1 grl i be dey kpash 4 akwa ibom,at 1st i be no knw say dis grl nah basketmouth...nah 4 her frds mouth i take dey hear wetin we do 4 bed..

naso i brk up with her ooh,b4 dis grl go turn me to samson.

The funny part of it is that, this lady is also very inquisitive. She don't mind making friends with those u chat with or hangout with to get info from them.

Truvelisback:
She does. As a matter of fact, i never knew she was that way until i started noticing somethings and behaviours from those she gossips with. If ur sensitivity is not strong or very strong, u won't know. She looks so innocent in appearance.

Well, if makes up stuff as the other guy said, then you have nothing to worry about. She'd have the reputation - everyone will know she makes up stuff. Nobody will believe anything she says. Infact you can even use her to discredit a true story!

Illegal1:
Omoh......i no try dat mistake 4 life again.

E Get 1 grl i be dey kpash 4 akwa ibom,at 1st i be no knw say dis grl nah basketmouth...nah 4 her frds mouth i take dey hear wetin we do 4 bed..

naso i brk up with her ooh,b4 dis grl go turn me to samson.

😂 🤣

It's not advisable. Flee from such people because your life history n plans will be in the street.

Truvelisback:
Good day, fellas. Can u date a lady or guy that has a leaking mouth? i.e he/she rarely keeps secret. I have a female friend that I like but this behavior has made me to be scared of her and avoid her like body odour. She noticed my distance from her and she was offended. I had to act friendly with her again so as not to give her that impression that I am avoiding her. But deep inside of me, I am scared of her behavior.

Tell her why you're avoiding her stop pretending because she won't pretend if she's in your shoes

diogo23:

Tell her why you're avoiding her stop pretending because she won't pretend if she's in your shoes

I don't want to look like a judge to her. The truth is that she knows what she is doing.