UselessBuharist:
One of my parents sold my first house at roofing level, I got wind of it from a friend, I asked and I was further lied to. As if that was not enough dem pressure me to bring money for roofing for house wey dem don sell oo.

I made up my mind that i won’t send #1 for the purpose of that house again and they won’t know anything I do going forward.

2 yrs later I asked my sister to buy another land and start a project, I told her I’ll lodge you in a hotel near the project so that she can finish the project before going back home, I even beg her husband we agree oo she do am to roofing level her husband asked her to come back home. Na so them leave the house, 3 weeks later her husband tell me say dem see one very good land suitable for hostel make I come buy, rush rush I pay oo, they said I should just start the building project immediately, I ask my in-law can you handle it he said yes, na so I begin pump money oo, I give my in-law the job, he gave his friend the job and his friend gave a contractor. Dem chop me nor he small but I didn’t complain because the money dey then and I thought they were using the best materials only to come naija meet 21 cracks for house wey dem complete less than 2 months before I come naija. Before I come I don buy car for my brother in law, when I got to the house I was so disappointed right there I told my sister I will never talk to her again. I went and completed the one she was building before by myself. Long story short I sold the hostel last December the same day I bought another house with money I got from selling the hostel. The hostel was just there, nobody goes there to check, even the agent I gave to help me manage it dey do me anyhow.

Because I nor get anyone else to trust I went to my parents to help me build my living house… this one na another long story.

Me, my sister and her husband are cool now, she is even going to check the house I bought in December on Saturday. She has the documents to all my properties since wife never join but I tell her say if you hear say I close my eyes forever make sure everything goes to my son.

I be senior brother, I carry everything wey happen as part of life, I love my family

blackgold2018:
it happens. Life experiences. So just shut up

oxiide22:
Oga it seems you don't help the needy and you're damn stingy man you never person you're selfish that's your family don't pity you

UselessBuharist:



Thank you sir, but nor be me cause your frustration in life na…. I fit nor even senior you oo nairaland nor be charity home boss.

So as you comment that nonsense now I go come reply your email or help you?

oxiide22:
you're right but help me pls

UselessBuharist:


Bleep off sir, so if my family nor pity me na you wan pity me ?

Stay off my posts, comments and moniker

oxiide22:
yes I swear I pity you that's y I even shed tears for your story

UselessBuharist:


Continue oo Oga, I dey very alright with my family… I nor get wahala

officialwdhtv:
American returnee in tears after she saw the "2Storey" building her brother built for her after 40years of living in the USA and sending money to him


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qkKu4Zono5g

officialwdhtv:
American returnee in tears after she saw the "2Storey" building her brother built for her after 40years of living in the USA and sending money to him


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qkKu4Zono5g

Ransomware:
Rule 1: Money and Family don't mix, like 2 dicks
Rule 2: A Nigerian will scam you, the level of scam may differ according to conscience but they will scam you
Rule 3: If you want to do something in Nigeria, do it yourself, all those in starch clothes circling you are not people they are vultures
Rule 4: Never lend anyone in Nigeria money. If you want to help simply give them the money and forget about it
Rule 5: Always know that all stories are exaggerated to get your sympathy and eventually fleece money from you.
Rule 6: Please know that this is an accepted way of life in Nigeria, so crying and wailing will not solve the problem. even your father will tell you to forgive and go hustle some more

UselessBuharist:


Continue oo Oga, I dey very alright with my family… I nor get wahala

oxiide22:
5k pls sir

UselessBuharist:


So na because of 5k you say I stingy, the same ready my family don’t pity me ?

Ransomware:
Rule 1: Money and Family don't mix, like 2 dicks
Rule 2: A Nigerian will scam you, the level of scam may differ according to conscience but they will scam you
Rule 3: If you want to do something in Nigeria, do it yourself, all those in starch clothes circling you are not people they are vultures
Rule 4: Never lend anyone in Nigeria money. If you want to help simply give them the money and forget about it
Rule 5: Always know that all stories are exaggerated to get your sympathy and eventually fleece money from you.
Rule 6: Please know that this is an accepted way of life in Nigeria, so crying and wailing will not solve the problem. even your father will tell you to forgive and go hustle some more

UselessBuharist:
One of my parents sold my first house at roofing level, I got wind of it from a friend, I asked and I was further lied to. As if that was not enough dem pressure me to bring money for roofing for house wey dem don sell oo.

I made up my mind that i won’t send #1 for the purpose of that house again and they won’t know anything I do going forward.

2 yrs later I asked my sister to buy another land and start a project, I told her I’ll lodge you in a hotel near the project so that she can finish the project before going back home, I even beg her husband we agree oo she do am to roofing level her husband asked her to come back home. Na so them leave the house, 3 weeks later her husband tell me say dem see one very good land suitable for hostel make I come buy, rush rush I pay oo, they said I should just start the building project immediately, I ask my in-law can you handle it he said yes, na so I begin pump money oo, I give my in-law the job, he gave his friend the job and his friend gave a contractor. Dem chop me nor he small but I didn’t complain because the money dey then and I thought they were using the best materials only to come naija meet 21 cracks for house wey dem complete less than 2 months before I come naija. Before I come I don buy car for my brother in law, when I got to the house I was so disappointed right there I told my sister I will never talk to her again. I went and completed the one she was building before by myself. Long story short I sold the hostel last December the same day I bought another house with money I got from selling the hostel. The hostel was just there, nobody goes there to check, even the agent I gave to help me manage it dey do me anyhow.

Because I nor get anyone else to trust I went to my parents to help me build my living house… this one na another long story.

Me, my sister and her husband are cool now, she is even going to check the house I bought in December on Saturday. She has the documents to all my properties since wife never join but I tell her say if you hear say I close my eyes forever make sure everything goes to my son.

I be senior brother, I carry everything wey happen as part of life, I love my family

thisisit:


YOU'RE GUILTY OF FALLACY OF GENERALIZATION.... A SIGNIFICANT % OF NIGERIANS ARE STRAIGHT FORWARD.

TO CUT EVERYONE OFF, IS TO REDUCE YOUR SOCIAL CAPITAL BECAUSE WE ARE ALL INTRINSICLY INTERRELATED, INTERCONNECTED & INTERDEPENDENT.

AM SURE YOU DONT WANT TO CUT OFF DANGOTE, JIM OVIA, OTEDOLA, DAVIDO, BURNA BOY... BUT YOUR POOR SIBLINGS AND RELATIVES MUST BE DEMONIZED FOR YOUR STINGINESS.

DON'T THROW AWAY THE BABY WITH THE BATH WATER!

Ransomware:
Rule 1: Money and Family don't mix, like 2 dicks

xpiranza88:
This modern days na him u they give person money to build house for u ....that's foolishness....there are a lot of companies that can do that for u neatly......with out stories that touches the heart.....

udede:
Something is not connecting.
You were sending money. Okay.
You were receiving prograce report. Ok.
BUT YOU DIDN'T ASK FOR SIMPLE WATSSAP IMAGES AND VIDEOS.

IT DOESN'T MAKE SENSE IN A WORLD OF TODAY.

just tell me something else please.

mastermaestro:


You raised a very valid point most ungrateful 'abroadians' don't want to discuss. Most of these people who complain of being cheated are terrible misers and ingrates.

I cut off a relative because of such despicable behavior. They just want errand boys and girls whom they pray should remain stagnant in life so they perpetually have people to use and reuse for their selfish purposes.

eepeepook:
Looks like a skit.

Mercury12:
Obinna don carry him sister handicap.
Why are people this wicked sef.

Elmojiid:
Family is over rated sometimes, some are good and some are bad if you come from a good family you're lucky no family is perfect

ufotunang:
..it's fake..a skit... look at her very well and guess her age .they said she work at USA for 40 years...I am sure she is not more than 47 years old...did she start to work at USA at 7 years old