CondenseMilk:
It's not even possible to forget those whom you have slept with.

Birdbyrde440:


Yes, but some women keep sleeping with more and more men. Many have slept with 100+ men and hope that one day they will dump all that misfortune and calamity on one unfortinate man.

CondenseMilk:


When you see such women you will know. Infact once a woman has slept with over 10men, she will immediately start having a masculine face.

CondenseMilk:


When you see such women you will know. Infact once a woman has slept with over 10men, she will immediately start having a masculine face.

woginid967:


You lie oooo

All your Nollywood actresses who are dubai sluuuurrts... Where is their masculine face. Biko...

Nothing like that. You can't even know....

Some people were raped into loving sex, some were born ad circumcised wrongly so their libido is extremely high....

Sex shouldn't be a stigma Biko no one is a saint

CondenseMilk:


When you see such women you will know. Infact once a woman has slept with over 10men, she will immediately start having a masculine face.

CondenseMilk:


It's very easy and simple to identify a slut.

woginid967:


You lie oooo

All your Nollywood actresses who are dubai sluuuurrts... Where is their masculine face. Biko...

Nothing like that. You can't even know....

Some people were raped into loving sex, some were born ad circumcised wrongly so their libido is extremely high....

Sex shouldn't be a stigma Biko no one is a saint

Birdbyrde440:
A study conducted by the techman heritage college h scientifically proves that when you marry your first sexual partner, the chances of staying happily married till death is 91%, as the number of men you have sex with before marriage starts to go up, your chances of a happy marriage starts to go down consistently, a woman that has had more than 6+ sexually partners before marriage has a 17% chance of being happily married the study showed. The more casual sex with different partners a woman has, the low the possibility of being able bond with one man.

Why is this not so for men?
A KEY that OPENS many LOCKS is called a MASTERKEY.

A LOCK that is OPENNED BY many KEYS is a BROKEN LOCK.

In otherwords, men have the ability to love and provide for many women but a woman can only love and respect one man. If you think it is a false analogy then try experimenting.

So the more sexual partners a woman has the more she loses her ability to Pair bond with her husband because she will constant compare him to her previous sexual partners at the slightest misunderstanding she has with her husband. Even if her previous sex partner is a nonentity, she will pick something slightly good about him and compare with her husband and as such she is never happy, the husband starts to lose interest and infidelity sets in, confusion in the home, eventually they divorce. Another consequence of multiple sexual partners before marriage is that you become tied spiritually to your ex's, if unfortunately you are tied spiritually to a bunch of destiny stealers and people with badluck in their families, you will carry all that rubbish and dump on your husband, thats why you see some couples few months after marriage things start to fall apart.

Marrying a virgin will absolve you of all these calmities, you will experience love, emotional stability and unmerited favor, this might sound meaningless to those that dont believe in God.

What happens when a woman loses her virginity to the wrong man?
This happens as a result of peer pressure, lack of dicernment, ignorance and gullibility, poor parenting.
If your parents haven't thought you about how to do things in an orderly way, you will surely fall victim.
Girls like to think they can have male besties, anyone that thinks in this way is a product of poor parenting.
Man and woman can never be just friends, there is an element of lust in such relationships and if you lose your virginity to your high school boyfriend or male bestie , rest assured in 95% of cases he will dump you, avoid you and despise you.
Any man that has not come out expressly to propose to you or atleast let you know he admires you is scavenger. He is just waiting for an opportunity to have sex with you and flee.
Ceteri paribus, If he proposes, take him to your father not your mother. It is only your father that can examine him and deduce his true character.

In conclusion, Men should avoid marrying non-virgins if they want a happy married life free from unnecessary drama and calamity. All non virgins are promiscuous and damaged, will never make a good wife unless she REPENTS.
REPENTANCE is not by going to church or mosque or visiting different false prophets. it requires tedious work on the mind which includes accepting faults and the consequences of your actions.
When a promiscuous woman repents it usually shows in her attitude considering that women are highly pretentious in nature.

juri:
These two much denied realities are worthy of note from the writeup:

1. That a man and a woman can not be friends, like just close friends/besties type stuff without sexual attraction cropping up is a fact that is true but denied by people. Sometimes, it is not even always the case that the sexual attraction comes mutually from both parties, but rather that one is more sexually attracted to the other over time, while the other may not necessary feel the same way and this creats tention/frustration. There should be a distance or some level of barrier in relationships with the opposite sex unless something more is intended.

2. That the more sexual encounter a woman has with different partners, the lower the possibility of being able to bond with one man or a man even in marriage is also a fact denied by many. People sometimes like to live in denial of facts like these, but it is what it is. This is not in denial of other factors that could hamper relationship between parties (compatibility etc), but the relationship between the number of a woman's sexual partners and her ability to bond with a man should not be denied.

I do not necessarily believe that All non virgins are promiscuous and damaged and will never make a good wife.

verybadmouth:
Don't kill yourself on top woman matter. How will a non virgin be looking for a virgin to marry? Does it make any sense?

SUFFERInSMILIIN:


A lot of the so-called Virgin today with Nigerian women are fake they go for things which they can use to fool the guys they are Virgin there are things on the open market you can buy to make a guy think you are a virgin or you can go to doctor and they can do it for you.

I know of a guy which was claiming the girl is a virgin and married half but I know that girl slept with more than three other guys including me

juri:
These two much denied realities are worthy of note from the writeup:

1. That a man and a woman can not be friends, like just close friends/besties type stuff without sexual attraction cropping up is a fact that is true but denied by people. Sometimes, it is not even always the case that the sexual attraction comes mutually from both parties, but rather that one is more sexually attracted to the other over time, while the other may not necessary feel the same way and this creats tention/frustration. There should be a distance or some level of barrier in relationships with the opposite sex unless something more is intended.

2. That the more sexual encounter a woman has with different partners, the lower the possibility of being able to bond with one man or a man even in marriage is also a fact denied by many. People sometimes like to live in denial of facts like these, but it is what it is. This is not in denial of other factors that could hamper relationship between parties (compatibility etc), but the relationship between the number of a woman's sexual partners and her ability to bond with a man should not be denied.

I do not necessarily believe that All non virgins are promiscuous and damaged and will never make a good wife.

BRIMBRAM:


All non virgins we're once a virgin is an undisputable fact. Hence, how does virginity relate to fidelity?!

verybadmouth:
Don't kill yourself on top woman matter. How will a non virgin be looking for a virgin to marry? Does it make any sense?

Birdbyrde440:


Why are they no longer virgins?

efficiencie:


So as you be non virgin go marry olosho na. As for me and my sons na to marry virgin...

BRIMBRAM:


Lol . You know exactly what am asking you.

Birdbyrde440:


If a girl decide to break her virginity for a cheap pot of beans, she is on her own.

You are trying to say men will still cheat even if they married a virgin, probably but highly unlikely. A man can still marry more wives.

But you must understand that man and woman are not equal. A woman must respect and totally submit to her husband.

Also once a woman is damaged she can never be normal again so thread carefully.

BRIMBRAM:


My point is, in the real world. Getting Married to a virgin doesn't guarantee fidelity. FACT!

Birdbyrde440:


I better marry a virgin than a washed out, high body count

CondenseMilk:


When you see such women you will know. Infact once a woman has slept with over 10men, she will immediately start having a masculine face.

woginid967:

Some people were raped into loving sex, some were born ad circumcised wrongly so their libido is extremely high....

Sex shouldn't be a stigma Biko no one is a saint

Birdbyrde440:


Well i advise men to avoid non virgins. Let the women go back to the men that disvirgined them

BRIMBRAM:


That's why I said, it's nothing more than a preference and doesn't guarantee that she would not end up with high body count. After all they washed out, high body count ladies too were once virgins. FACT

Birdbyrde440:


How can a person that has kept her virginity for this long, spoil it all at the mid line?
A 23yo virgin knows what she is doing, these days the promiscuos girls lose it at 15-16.
Infact to pass through any university system and maintain your virginity... it means such lady will understand male logic perfectly.
Too much sex with different men makes you a keeper of the oracle for all the men you have slept it, you are spiritually married to them and you share in their spiritual burden but not in their physical enjoyment, most been in Nigeria carry badluck, curses. God is the perfect judge, believe me, whatever you are going through you deserve it, it Godswill so take life as you see it, the case before you is too big for your brain.

efficiencie:


So as you be non virgin go marry olosho na. As for me and my sons na to marry virgin...