THE STORY
My elder brother is a very handsome man. He is a very good man, a good husband, a wonderful father and a provider. He was the type of man most women will fast and pray to have in their life.

Despite all his good qualities, he was unlucky in love. He always fell for wrong women. How a very good man got himself engage with only terrible Nigeria women is what the natural mind cannot fathom. He was also not being careful, so he fell into the hands of a terrible Nigeria woman.

He provide and did everything for the lady, but yet she made life miserable for my brother. She fled with another man and left the baby boy for my brother to raise alone.

She left and followed another man

My elder brother was stressed because his baby was about two years old. He can't be a father and mother at the same time.

My brother had no other choice but to take the child to my mother. Years later, he felt my mother was not doing a good job, so he took the child to live with one of my sister.

My elder bro will provide everything my sister need to nurse and care for his child, but my sister will use most of the provision for her own children.

Whatever my brother bought for his child, he will also buy for the the children of my sister. Whatever my sister bought for her own children, she will not buy for my young nephew.

My elder brother will always buy things for my sister children because it was right, but my sister will never do the same.

My elder brother complained to me about it. At first, I saw nothing wrong with it, but now I do. I know through the hen above.

One day, my elder brother told my sister that, if you can be this wicked to your own nephew, then you forever seize to exist as my sister.

He took his son away and my sister never saw him again. He cut ties and stop relating with my wicked sister and his entire lineage.

Years later, my sister began to long for the friend and reconciliation with my brother, but you see, you can't sow weed and expect to reap an apple.

THE MESSAGE

If a woman cannot love and care for her own nephew as her own, why do you think they will love and genuinely care for the child of another woman ?

Fineman2

shaybebaby:


Thanks Sis, I will ALWAYS advocate team interracial or non naija because for what most women get out of mingling with them, it ain't worth it.

Me look back ke? Haven't looked at a naija man in over 2 decades.

And I dey always look them with their delusions of how life dey be for women if women reject them but do not want to talk lest it seems like bragging.

But let me audio some little snippets, my man loves my son like his own pikin, my son's dad and him get along, as the boy dey collect from im papa, he dey collect from his step-dad. Minimum of two holidays a year, one with papa and another with mama and step papa.

I have a child from a previous marriage, yes! But my man moved away from his family, re-arranged work so he could be with me and my child ( and he earns more than I do before dem talk say he is after money).

So sis, all that single mama talk no dey worry me but it's worth stating my experience so other chicks know that there are men out there that will worship the ground you walk on, provide to the best of their ability, spoil you with all they have AND remain monogamous, share your burdens with you, contribute financially and emotionally, be all hands on deck both on the home front and beyond.

Strong message

I moved to one beautiful middle class neighborhood

No vex oo, na poultry neighborhood you moved to?

helinues:


No vex oo, na poultry neighborhood you moved to?

Your question got me laughing.

Na fowl Neighbourhood