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Dating For Marriage 101 For Ladies: by horny4u(f): 12:23pm On Sep 25, 2011
The below is what i have learnt and worked for me, you donot have to ff the advice.

When you start dating a man you do the opposite of what your mum thought you on keeping a man to make him connect to you, one he connects you need to go back to your mum's teachings on keeping a man, as you are now keeping him, as opposed to him chasing you, even in marriage i have found that alternating the 2 works , much much more of mum's teaching though grin


You might do what so many women do in the same situation. They KILL their chance with the guy by doing some very UN-attractive things.

Here are some do’s and don’t’s when it comes to being irresistible to a man:

WRONG WAY: Keep moving towards him and fill in any and all empty space that you sense between you. Tell him how much you like him and share all the thoughts and feelings that are racing through your mind.

BETTER WAY: Take time to enjoy the connection that you’re sharing, and don’t try and rush ahead. Do things that engage him and capture his interest, and then sit back and let him come to you a bit too. Give him time and space in your interactions to come to you with his feelings.

WRONG WAY: Kill him with kindness by complimenting him every chance you get, calling him all the time, doing favors for him without him even asking… and generally doing whatever you can to be a special “friend” and companion to him.

BETTER WAY: Think “playful” instead of just nice, as you don’t want to be his friend. Instead, be unpredictable and intriguing. Create tension and interest by not always doing or saying the “obvious” thing. This will keep him thinking and wondering about you, and get him doing things to get more of your time and attention.

WRONG WAY: Sleep with him in the hopes that by being close and intimate he’ll realize how much he likes you, how amazing you both are together, and want a relationship. Act and talk to him like you’re already in a serious and committed relationship, even though you’ve never talked about it. Get upset when you don’t see that he wants a relationship after you’re physical with him.

BETTER WAY: Don’t make the mistake of hoping that sex will bring him closer to you and set up your relationship. Communicate to a man that you’re SELECTIVE, and that you respect yourself more than you need a relationship.

Slow things down and be selective for your own sake, as well as for the sake of the “real” relationship you want to create.

http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/3-ways-to-spark-attraction-with-a-man

I may have culled this, but what is written here , i have used over the years and the intimate part even works in my dealings with men as a woman in business.
Hope it helps a babe out there
Re: Dating For Marriage 101 For Ladies: by Nobody: 12:45pm On Sep 25, 2011
horny4u:

The below is what i have learnt and worked for me, you donot have to ff the advice.

When you start dating a man you do the opposite of what your mum thought you on keeping a man to make him connect to you, one he connects you need to go back to your mum's teachings on keeping a man, as you are now keeping him, as opposed to him chasing you, even in marriage i have found that alternating the 2 works , much much more of mum's teaching though grin


You might do what so many women do in the same situation. They KILL their chance with the guy by doing some very UN-attractive things.

Here are some do’s and don’t’s when it comes to being irresistible to a man:

WRONG WAY: Keep moving towards him and fill in any and all empty space that you sense between you. Tell him how much you like him and share all the thoughts and feelings that are racing through your mind.

BETTER WAY: Take time to enjoy the connection that you’re sharing, and don’t try and rush ahead. Do things that engage him and capture his interest, and then sit back and let him come to you a bit too. Give him time and space in your interactions to come to you with his feelings.

WRONG WAY: Kill him with kindness by complimenting him every chance you get, calling him all the time, doing favors for him without him even asking… and generally doing whatever you can to be a special “friend” and companion to him.

BETTER WAY: Think “playful” instead of just nice, as you don’t want to be his friend. Instead, be unpredictable and intriguing. Create tension and interest by not always doing or saying the “obvious” thing. This will keep him thinking and wondering about you, and get him doing things to get more of your time and attention.

WRONG WAY: Sleep with him in the hopes that by being close and intimate he’ll realize how much he likes you, how amazing you both are together, and want a relationship. Act and talk to him like you’re already in a serious and committed relationship, even though you’ve never talked about it. Get upset when you don’t see that he wants a relationship after you’re physical with him.

BETTER WAY: Don’t make the mistake of hoping that sex will bring him closer to you and set up your relationship. Communicate to a man that you’re SELECTIVE, and that you respect yourself more than you need a relationship.

Slow things down and be selective for your own sake, as well as for the sake of the “real” relationship you want to create.

http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/3-ways-to-spark-attraction-with-a-man

I may have culled this, but what is written here , i have used over the years and the intimate part even works in my dealings with men as a woman in business.
Hope it helps a babe out there
Hmm even u sef don become love specialist grin
Re: Dating For Marriage 101 For Ladies: by Nobody: 1:06pm On Sep 25, 2011
horny4u:

The below is what i have learnt and worked for me, you donot have to ff the advice.

When you start dating a man you do the opposite of what your mum thought you on keeping a man to make him connect to you, one he connects you need to go back to your mum's teachings on keeping a man, as you are now keeping him, as opposed to him chasing you, even in marriage i have found that alternating the 2 works , much much more of mum's teaching though grin


You might do what so many women do in the same situation. They KILL their chance with the guy by doing some very UN-attractive things.

Here are some do’s and don’t’s when it comes to being irresistible to a man:

WRONG WAY: Keep moving towards him and fill in any and all empty space that you sense between you. Tell him how much you like him and share all the thoughts and feelings that are racing through your mind.

BETTER WAY: Take time to enjoy the connection that you’re sharing, and don’t try and rush ahead. Do things that engage him and capture his interest, and then sit back and let him come to you a bit too. Give him time and space in your interactions to come to you with his feelings.

WRONG WAY: Kill him with kindness by complimenting him every chance you get, calling him all the time, doing favors for him without him even asking… and generally doing whatever you can to be a special “friend” and companion to him.

BETTER WAY: Think “playful” instead of just nice, as you don’t want to be his friend. Instead, be unpredictable and intriguing. Create tension and interest by not always doing or saying the “obvious” thing. This will keep him thinking and wondering about you, and get him doing things to get more of your time and attention.

WRONG WAY: Sleep with him in the hopes that by being close and intimate he’ll realize how much he likes you, how amazing you both are together, and want a relationship. Act and talk to him like you’re already in a serious and committed relationship, even though you’ve never talked about it. Get upset when you don’t see that he wants a relationship after you’re physical with him.

BETTER WAY: Don’t make the mistake of hoping that sex will bring him closer to you and set up your relationship. Communicate to a man that you’re SELECTIVE, and that you respect yourself more than you need a relationship.

Slow things down and be selective for your own sake, as well as for the sake of the “real” relationship you want to create.

http://www.datingquestionsforwomen.com/3-ways-to-spark-attraction-with-a-man

I may have culled this, but what is written here , i have used over the years and the intimate part even works in my dealings with men as a woman in business.
Hope it helps a babe out there

Dem don hear
Re: Dating For Marriage 101 For Ladies: by horny4u(f): 1:07pm On Sep 25, 2011
odiaero:

Dem don hear
lefulefu:

Hmm even u sef don become love specialist grin

Hope those tips work for you women guys. grin grin grin grin
Re: Dating For Marriage 101 For Ladies: by MMM2(m): 1:28pm On Sep 25, 2011
horny4u

do u have honey 4 me in ur heart
undecided
Re: Dating For Marriage 101 For Ladies: by horny4u(f): 1:55pm On Sep 25, 2011
M M M:

horny4u

do u have honey 4 me in your heart
undecided

No 2 late sweetheart
Sold my honey to another great man, you will find yours kiss
Re: Dating For Marriage 101 For Ladies: by Nobody: 1:58pm On Sep 25, 2011
horny4u:

No 2 late sweetheart
Sold my honey to another great man, you will find yours kiss
Dont listen to MMM.He be gay grin.
Re: Dating For Marriage 101 For Ladies: by bekay911(f): 2:05pm On Sep 25, 2011
lefulefu:

Dont listen to MMM.He be man-lover grin.
How u com no sey im be man lover grin grin
Re: Dating For Marriage 101 For Ladies: by r231(m): 2:36pm On Sep 25, 2011
bekay911:

How u com no sey im be man lover grin grin

cus both of them go to the same club grin
Re: Dating For Marriage 101 For Ladies: by bekay911(f): 2:45pm On Sep 25, 2011
r231 wetin b d name of d club. hw u come knw sey dey dey go club 2geda ? undecided
Re: Dating For Marriage 101 For Ladies: by r231(m): 2:50pm On Sep 25, 2011
bekay911:

r231 wetin b d name of d club. hw u come knw sey dey dey go club 2geda ? undecided

me ke grin grin nooooooo
Re: Dating For Marriage 101 For Ladies: by horny4u(f): 2:52pm On Sep 25, 2011
They had to derail this thread    undecided

common run along, shoooo shooo be gone cheesy
Re: Dating For Marriage 101 For Ladies: by bekay911(f): 3:13pm On Sep 25, 2011
r231:

me ke grin grin nooooooo

UR not innocent cool cool
Re: Dating For Marriage 101 For Ladies: by Nobody: 3:14pm On Sep 25, 2011
bekay911:

How u com no sey im be man lover grin grin
Na Mr C0rk tell me.Na one of im exs grin.
Re: Dating For Marriage 101 For Ladies: by bekay911(f): 3:18pm On Sep 25, 2011
lefulefu:

Na Mr C0rk tell me.Na one of im exs grin.
Av said it tym without numba dat mr cork is a bad influence to our naaija guys . Pls can he be banned. LEFULEFU watwer u doin wt mr cork wen he told u dat cool cool cool cool
Re: Dating For Marriage 101 For Ladies: by MMM2(m): 5:20pm On Sep 25, 2011
horny4u:

No 2 late sweetheart
Sold my honey to another great man, you will find yours kiss

dont worry undecided

I refund him & even tripple d money 4 him wink
Re: Dating For Marriage 101 For Ladies: by Nobody: 5:24pm On Sep 25, 2011
bekay911:

Av said it tym without numba dat mr cork is a bad influence to our naaija guys . Pls can he be banned. LEFULEFU watwer u doin wt mr cork wen he told u dat cool cool cool cool
We drinking beer and eating bush meat together wen he told me.
Re: Dating For Marriage 101 For Ladies: by MMM2(m): 5:31pm On Sep 25, 2011
lefulefu:

Dont listen to MMM.He be man-lover grin.

close ur mouth jor angry

I know u re gayy wink
Re: Dating For Marriage 101 For Ladies: by MMM2(m): 5:38pm On Sep 25, 2011
bekay911:

How u com no sey im be man lover grin grin

becos he is gayy undecided
Re: Dating For Marriage 101 For Ladies: by bekay911(f): 5:50pm On Sep 25, 2011
lefulefu:

We drinking beer and eating bush meat together wen he told me.
M M M:

becos he is gayy undecided
Hmmm birds of a feather flocking 2geda, abi same mama bon dem grin
Re: Dating For Marriage 101 For Ladies: by MMM2(m): 6:45pm On Sep 25, 2011
GOD forbid bad thing angry
Re: Dating For Marriage 101 For Ladies: by bekay911(f): 6:51pm On Sep 25, 2011
y God God go forbid am? wen u weer jolicatn God forbid am?
Re: Dating For Marriage 101 For Ladies: by MMM2(m): 7:31pm On Sep 25, 2011
^^^

U know say u never ny winkwinkwink me
Or
Did dey tell u dat after ur registration as a newbies u will N . . . Me undecided
Re: Dating For Marriage 101 For Ladies: by bekay911(f): 7:36pm On Sep 25, 2011
rodflmfao ;d ;d ;d ;d ;d ;d ;d ;d ;d ;d
Re: Dating For Marriage 101 For Ladies: by r231(m): 7:37pm On Sep 25, 2011
dude. . . . leave my girl alone grin grin
Re: Dating For Marriage 101 For Ladies: by CalienteMi: 7:39pm On Sep 25, 2011
undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided undecided
Re: Dating For Marriage 101 For Ladies: by Valentinothomas: 10:01am On Feb 14, 2022
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