the following are what i'll ensure happens if i eventually marry a muslim sister.

1) where jeans/trouser

2) make up

3) relax/fix her hair always and wouldnt cover her hair except during prayers

4) wouldnt wear hijab around town except during prayers

5) drive latest and flashy cars (provided i can afford it)

6) must be fashion oriented and must be ready to look good



let me rest for now and continue later. anything outside these is a no no

Hrd u
bt u shld know Muslims dont even wanna do dose anymore
dey wanna b funky

haha may be some of u that understand the fashion language. ask bhusayor about what i mean. some of u pple still prefer the old school style which's no longer in vogue

Well dunno abt sm
bt i cld tel d few r large
even d ones dats bn 2 Mecca dresses so funky wit dere glowin tooth

those are the ones that are soji and wakie. i watch aljazeera arabic and saw muslim newscasters with beautiful hair do, nice jeans trousers and exquisite dressing and elegantly looking muslims in Qatar. i was like dont they follow islamic tenets that some nigerians follow that make them keep wearing hijab and not wear trouser? a sister has never hand shaked a man in her life cos she tells us its haram. during NYSC, she converted her trouser into skirt. i fear that if i marry a muslim, she must dress like high class descent ladies and not old school ones

Now left 2 u mk a choice
gd luck

yea. im definitely going to choose from the soji ones like u.



are u still in the market or taken away?

I m taken by one Eket dude

dont tell me u gonna marry that xtian dude over me

Y nt
he s got my world spinning
love him crazy

thats pathetic.
1) hes a xtian

2) has many babes unlike me thats single

3) hes not yoruba like me

N wat does dat mata?
U 4got 2 add he s got much more . . . . . . dan u

thats a lie. what has he got?

Everyth dat made me conclude i wanna share eternity wit him
*he s watchin kip ur voice down*
now back 2 topic

back to topic. what if ur man insists that u cant do makeup, trouser or relax ur hair, what will u do?

a muslim woman who marries you has totally lost her deen. she may just a well put on the cross and worship what you worship; your 3 gods which 1 God.

toba, Pathetic!

Sweetnecta:

a muslim woman who marries you has totally lost her deen. she may just a well put on the cross and worship what you worship; your 3 gods which 1 God.

smdh at this level of hypocrisy. leave my case and lets address the obvious. i can bet with u that many muslims are no longer in the old school realm. they belong to the new school which is fashion conscious. i gave u a story of aljazeera staff in Qatar that are dressing like westerners. will they also go to hell fire? i called bhusayor on sunday when i saw how the new nikkai is being done in Nigeria. its exactly the same way the christians conducts theres. the only thing that was different was the mode of prayer. muslims now use bridal train, where black suits with white wedding gown etc. no one belongs to the old school. u sir belong to the old school

deols:

toba, Pathetic!

whats pathetic in speaking the truth? why dont u just ask how things work, before crucifying me?

toba:

whats pathetic in speaking the truth? why dont u just ask how things work, before crucifying me?

so, how do things work   . me using d word pathetic is just about using your own term against u. gerrit?

Dyt:

Hrd u
bt u shld know Muslims dont even wanna do dose anymore
dey wanna b funky

Islam is never about the majority carrying the vote. It is a matter of right versus wrong. Even if the king of saudi wld do somthn bad today doesnt mean every muslim must follow suit. Pple wear hijab better/ more in d Nigeria of today. At least when our own parents were in d uni dey werent wearing d kinda hijab we now wear. nd Muslims in Uk nd d USA are more ready to show off their faith by trying out the hijab. The way they do might however be different.

Hmnnn, T O B A!!

Well Deols
m sure u read where i said funky
we v diff means of bein funky
eida use d hijab or nt
as 4 me
i dont do d hijabs
scarf ll do 4 me
so long i get 2 cover my hair smtyms

deols:

so, how do things work   . me using d word pathetic is just about using your own term against u. gerrit?

things work out in modernized way ma. when i was in the higher institution, there was nothing like Black or white berry. facebook wasnt even available then. now when the likes of Dyt, Deols, bhusayor and co are schooling, theres BB and facebook. they all use it. i also told u about the change in the nikkai way of doing marriage. most nikkai are beiing done in a xtian like carnival manner. with engagement, dance to English songs in the presence of top muslim clerics. young muslims like jarus etc would want a well modernised nikkai devoid of the old school style. at least i know 3 muslims here that are very well mannered and are good ladies. yet none of them do hijabs or where old school dresses. we must change with the trend whilst not getting carried away. i love ladies that dress funky and smart and presentable. when u take them out to see ur friends and colleagues, they'll commend for having a taste of fashion and classy lady. its a matter of choice and most nigerians are getting out of the old school thinkingop muslim clerics. young muslims like jarus etc would want a well modernised nikkai devoid of the old school style. at least i know 3 muslims here that are very well mannered and are good ladies. yet none of them do hijabs or where old school dresses. we must change with the trend whilst not getting carried away. i love ladies that dress funky and smart and presentable. when u take them out to see ur friends and colleagues, they'll commend for having a taste of fashion and classy lady. its a matter of choice and most nigerians are getting out of the old school thinking

Man Why would you exempted prayer any motive for that?

I exempted prayer cos my bible tells me that women should cover their hair

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Quote from: Sweetnecta on Today at 12:19:50 AM
a muslim woman who marries you has totally lost her deen. she may just a well put on the cross and worship what you worship; your 3 gods which 1 God.
smdh at this level of hypocrisy. leave my case and lets address the obvious. i can bet with u that many muslims are no longer in the old school realm. they belong to the new school which is fashion conscious. i gave u a story of aljazeera staff in Qatar that are dressing like westerners. will they also go to hell fire? i called bhusayor on sunday when i saw how the new nikkai is being done in Nigeria. its exactly the same way the christians conducts theres. the only thing that was different was the mode of prayer. muslims now use bridal train, where black suits with white wedding gown etc. no one belongs to the old school. u sir belong to the old school[/Quote]there is no old school or new school in Islam. the westernized issue is shunned by the muslims in the west who know their deen.
Allah or His Messenger [as] did not say a woman can be exposed just one time; on the occasion of her Nikah and covers up when she goes out or pray. A woman covers, always [thats what is supposed to be], as if ready to pray, except in the presence of those she could "uncover'; brother, etc to a limit but husband all the way.
Again, the bad behaviors of Yoruba or in general african muslims is not to indicate that there is a new school emerging but their is bidah [deviation, as in innovation] emerging, at least. Islam was complete in the time of the Messenger [as]. We do wear appropriate clothing in Islam and it does not have to be arabic or asiatic or even african.
I do wear jeans. and the west i know enough. the old school is the only school that exist, if it is in conformity with what Muhammad [as] brought.

toba:

things work out in modernized way ma. when i was in the higher institution, there was nothing like Black or white berry. facebook wasnt even available then. now when the likes of Dyt, Deols, bhusayor and co are schooling, theres BB and facebook. they all use it. i also told u about the change in the nikkai way of doing marriage. most nikkai are beiing done in a xtian like carnival manner. with engagement, dance to English songs in the presence of top muslim clerics. young muslims like jarus etc would want a well modernised nikkai devoid of the old school style. at least i know 3 muslims here that are very well mannered and are good ladies. yet none of them do hijabs or where old school dresses. we must change with the trend whilst not getting carried away. i love ladies that dress funky and smart and presentable. when u take them out to see your friends and colleagues, they'll commend for having a taste of fashion and classy lady. its a matter of choice and most nigerians are getting out of the old school thinkingop muslim clerics. young muslims like jarus etc would want a well modernised nikkai devoid of the old school style. at least i know 3 muslims here that are very well mannered and are good ladies. yet none of them do hijabs or where old school dresses. we must change with the trend whilst not getting carried away. i love ladies that dress funky and smart and presentable. when u take them out to see your friends and colleagues, they'll commend for having a taste of fashion and classy lady. its a matter of choice and most nigerians are getting out of the old school thinking

see ds toba boy oo. u are comparing technology with religion. You are calling an injuction of the QUr'an old fashioned. Are u going to accept it when an atheist tells u going to church is old fashioned?? nd ur dance talent would be better put to use with some rap song with lewd lyrics rather than the choir master thing u do. *smih*

Sweetnecta:

there is no old school or new school in Islam. the westernized issue is shunned by the muslims in the west who know their deen.

I can tell that more than 60% 0f muslims that i know in Nigeria are wakkie. I mean the soji type. Even on This Nl most of ur muslim ladies are wassup people yet they believe in God and some are wayward whilst some are not.

Allah or His Messenger [as] did not say a woman can be exposed just one time; on the occasion of her Nikah and covers up when she goes out or pray. A woman covers, always [thats what is supposed to be], as if ready to pray, except in the presence of those she could "uncover'; brother, etc to a limit but husband all the way.

Me im telling u that the reverse is the case in Nigeria, Uk and Ghana. These are the places i seldom spend my time in a year and i study people as well

Again, the bad behaviors of Yoruba or in general african muslims is not to indicate that there is a new school emerging but their is bidah [deviation, as in innovation] emerging, at least. Islam was complete in the time of the Messenger [as]. We do wear appropriate clothing in Islam and it does not have to be arabic or asiatic or even african.

This isnt just yoruba or African issue. Its general. k and france nko? People are moving away from the old school This is the fact and u must accept it sir

I do wear jeans. and the west i know enough. the old school is the only school that exist, if it is in conformity with what Muhammad [as] brought.

u are once again wrong. Can i take a poll on this? if i do take a poll we will discover that over 80% of NL that are muslims male and female are leaving the old school. My question is by going with these latest trend go to hell fire?

deols:

see ds toba boy  oo. u are comparing technology with religion. You are calling an injuction of the QUr'an old fashioned. Are u going to accept it when an atheist tells u going to church is old fashioned?? nd your dance talent would be better put to use with some rap song with lewd lyrics rather than the choir master thing u do. *smih*

Smdh. Its not about me my sister. u know i adore so much and if not for religion difference hmmmmmmm.


Seriously im telling the fact. im not against the Qur'an's injunction, but what im saying is that we human being must evolve with the latest trend withot sinning against God. Im a choir master and i sometimes chastise my girls if their hair comes out one small bit in church. i dont permit them to wearing trouser in church or open their hair, yet im an advocate of funky dressing that wouldnt cause sin against God.

U are not to keep covering r hair 24Hours naaaah. To me it makes less sense. I love ladies that are well packaged and good looking. thats me my sister

Sweetnecta:

there is no old school or new school in Islam. the westernized issue is shunned by the muslims in the west who know their deen.
Allah or His Messenger [as] did not say a woman can be exposed just one time; on the occasion of her Nikah and covers up when she goes out or pray. A woman covers, always [thats what is supposed to be], as if ready to pray, except in the presence of those she could "uncover'; brother, etc to a limit but husband all the way.
Again, the bad behaviors of Yoruba or in general african muslims is not to indicate that there is a new school emerging but their is bidah [deviation, as in innovation] emerging, at least. Islam was complete in the time of the Messenger [as]. We do wear appropriate clothing in Islam and it does not have to be arabic or asiatic or even african.
I do wear jeans. and the west i know enough. the old school is the only school that exist, if it is in conformity with what Muhammad [as] brought.

and here was i thinking boko haram was an extremist group. They are just good old muslims who know their deen.

toba:

Smdh. Its not about me my sister. u know i adore so much and if not for religion difference hmmmmmmm.


Seriously im telling the fact. im not against the Qur'an's injunction, but what im saying is that we human being must evolve with the latest trend withot sinning against God. Im a choir master and i sometimes chastise my girls if their hair comes out one small bit in church. i dont permit them to wearing trouser in church or open their hair, yet im an advocate of funky dressing that wouldnt cause sin against God.

U are not to keep covering r hair 24Hours naaaah. To me it makes less sense. I love ladies that are well packaged and good looking. thats me my sister 

u are using your xtian mentality to judge Islam. xtianity doesnt give u a dress code nd doesnt tell u to dress in particular ways But Islam does. Sometimes i feel like u make deliberate attempts at pretending not to understand.

Now, I know a little sociology( did dat in my 1st yr) nd I must tel u dat am aware cultures change naturally. They evolve nd dat is wat happens in Arab countries. they seem to be moving towards d ideals of the west. But the west has evolved too by getting bits from other cultures. At least, dat is obviously seen in their entertainment industry. Point is, where there is religion to guide you, every form of mislead must be avoided. Every thing good about other cultures can be imbibed but nothing that goes against Islam should be condoned!.


Rather than make assumptions about Islam, always ask questions. Muslim women dont cover up 24/7. U only cover up when non mahram are around.

toba:

I can tell that more than 60% 0f muslims that i know in Nigeria are wakkie. I mean the soji type. Even on This Nl most of your muslim ladies are wassup people yet they believe in God and some are wayward whilst some are not.

Me im telling u that the reverse is the case in Nigeria, Uk and Ghana. These are the places i seldom spend my time in a year and i study people as well
This isnt just yoruba or African issue. Its general. k and france nko? People are moving away from the old school This is the fact and u must accept it sir
u are once again wrong. Can i take a poll on this? if i do take a poll we will discover that over 80% of NL that are muslims male and female are leaving the old school. My question is by going with these latest trend go to hell fire?

yes. people do those things but the fact that they do them doesnt make them right. There are many fake pastors in Nigeria. That should make a good representative of christianity abi?. Now, I think the fake pastors are funky. That is how every pastor should be. Every pastor should be a cultist to increase the number of followers and make money from tithes. They should perm their hair and make their followers steal from their bosses so the house of God may be in abundance.