A girl I met online who I’m vibing with via chat just told me this. Can anyone explains what it means to “move with intention”? I’ll appreciate that.

TemplarLandry:
That's what you hear when she doesn't have feelings for you but just sees you as just a friend.
You've been friend-zoned.

I thought so too. Oh well.

Thanks for your input.

Candidlady:

I’ll need some perspective from a lady so you better talk.

From my understanding, it means the vibe you were giving her was like that of a friend not really someone who has meaningful intentions towards her like dating, relationship. And it seems she likes you but waiting for you to hit it real first.

fyzaila:
From my understanding, it means the vibe you were giving her was like that of a friend not really someone who has meaningful intentions towards her like dating, relationship. And it seems she likes you but waiting for you to hit it real first.

Unfortunately, you're wrong. She does not like the guy. This is a situation of a SIMPle guy trying so hard to escape his friendzoned cubicle while the wicked Jezebel is doing everything possible to make sure he doesn't go above his boundary.

The guy after wasting his time, energy, and resources now wants more than being a friend with her but the girl got him placed as a 'brother' already.

One of the demerits of being nice with a Nigerian girl.

Friend zoning

1. You're probably shy, and have auto-rejected yourself into the friendzone, with the hope that she will soften the path for your entry into a relationship with her.

2. A clever way to reject you, why making you think it's your fault.

3. She wants you to be direct with what you want. If she sees the energy you'll coming with, she may bulldoze all other options for you only.

pansophist:
1. You're probably shy, and have auto-rejected yourself into the friendzone, with the hope that she will soften the path for your entry into a relationship with her.

2. A clever way to reject you, why making you think it's your fault.

3. She wants you to be direct with what you want. If she sees the energy you'll coming with, she may bulldoze all other options for you only.

Thank you for your input, I really appreciate.

Can you share tips on how I could be more direct with her and ladies in general? We’ve just been vibing, discussing on various topics and getting to know each other but I feel like there is something I’m missing.

And just to add, she actually dmed me first so I know the interest is there. I’m just looking to learn how to be more “intentional”.

I’m usually someone who doesn’t go all in for women like always calling and chatting all the time, I could even go days without a text or call because I’m quite busy with life so I think these things might also be one of the causes of the issue.

fyzaila:
From my understanding, it means the vibe you were giving her was like that of a friend not really someone who has meaningful intentions towards her like dating, relationship. And it seems she likes you but waiting for you to hit it real first.

Any tips on how to escalate things from normal chats? Looking to learn some things since I’m not generally the best when it comes to women. Lol

Wow! Who's the girl that said that to you? I like her what a blunt and direct statement.

netsurfer01:

Any tips on how to escalate things from normal chats? Looking to learn some things since I’m not generally the best when it comes to women. Lol

Chat her up very often, and don't wait till she's online before dropping your chats. If she doesn't take long before replying ur chats, it's a sign that you should keep it up.

And don't be asking all those shitty questions of 'have u eating? what did u eat?

Zonefree:

Unfortunately, you're wrong. She does not like the guy. This is a situation of a SIMPle guy trying so hard to escape his friendzoned cubicle while the wicked Jezebel is doing everything possible to make sure he doesn't go above his boundary.

The guy after wasting his time, energy, and resources now wants more than being a friend with her but the girl got him placed as a 'brother' already.

One of the demerits of being nice with a Nigerian girl.

Hmmmm
Your hatred for Nigerian girls has clouded your vision that your don't see anything good in them be it the good ones or bad ones.

fyzaila:



Hmmmm
Your hatred for Nigerian girls has clouded your vision that your don't see anything good in them be it the good ones or bad ones.

So, you believe there are good Nigerian girls?

Zonefree:

So, you believe there are good Nigerian girls?

Ofcourse they're. It's just the few ones you met that coincidentally turned out to be bad ones.

fyzaila:



Chat her up very often, and don't wait till she's online before dropping your chats. If she doesn't take long before replying ur chats, it's a sign that you should keep it up.

And don't be asking all those shitty questions of 'have u eating? what did u eat?

Thanks for your input, I appreciate. And yeah she responds to my chats asap when I send messages so I guess I’ll just try to keep the chats as constant as possible then see what happens.