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Re: My Girlfriend's Mom Said Some Pastors Said Our Marriage Won't Work. Please Help by Osanoghodua1: 12:59pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
Your Rev father is wrong. I won't go in much details. The Holy spirit suggested to me to marry my wife,then there was nothing common with us, when the aunty cooked a Falsehood against me, I asked my then pastor to pray, he told me everything is okay. I first heard from God about her when I had nothing to do with her. You must stop fornicating or cuddling her to hear from God and not be bclouded by emotions. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend's Mom Said Some Pastors Said Our Marriage Won't Work. Please Help by ConfidentialDoc: 12:59pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
klimkid: Some things only become active after marriage. I'm not saying you should believe them.. |
Re: My Girlfriend's Mom Said Some Pastors Said Our Marriage Won't Work. Please Help by Nyanabo(m): 1:03pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
Who then dictates partners to the said pastors? Oga if you both love yourself enough, she loves you in you worst, and you love her in her worst times, then go ahead. If it was a mistake you'll both live with it. If it was a good decision you'll both live with it simple. |
Re: My Girlfriend's Mom Said Some Pastors Said Our Marriage Won't Work. Please Help by Rhema04(m): 1:05pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
The same kind of pastors that predicted Tinubu will not win abi... |
Re: My Girlfriend's Mom Said Some Pastors Said Our Marriage Won't Work. Please Help by SalamRushdie: 1:06pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
I noticed all NIGERIANs like to use fortune tellers |
Re: My Girlfriend's Mom Said Some Pastors Said Our Marriage Won't Work. Please Help by Angelfrost(m): 1:13pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
How can you even claim to be a child of God, yet you can't hear and feel the leading of God in your life and relationship??! Everything a Clergyman tells you is LAW! Especially you ladies! |
Re: My Girlfriend's Mom Said Some Pastors Said Our Marriage Won't Work. Please Help by Onyi90(m): 1:16pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
taylor89: This is the consequences when you can't pray for yourself |
Re: My Girlfriend's Mom Said Some Pastors Said Our Marriage Won't Work. Please Help by sweetTai(m): 1:19pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
Something tells me that you are a civil servant. If you own your own business or in political office, your mother in law won’t say that. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend's Mom Said Some Pastors Said Our Marriage Won't Work. Please Help by iramure(m): 1:20pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
I advise you to flee from anything religious... it's the biggest scam and stupidity to mankind. |
Re: My Girlfriend's Mom Said Some Pastors Said Our Marriage Won't Work. Please Help by poseidon12: 1:20pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
klimkid: It's only the Reverend Father that made sense, for obvious reasons. Reverend Fathers (Catholic) are generally well educated unlike all these fake Pastors and Prophets. |
Re: My Girlfriend's Mom Said Some Pastors Said Our Marriage Won't Work. Please Help by broadman20: 1:21pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
siofragspot: Hmmmmm! This thing na still first half o! E never even finish self, you don start to sing wining song. |
Re: My Girlfriend's Mom Said Some Pastors Said Our Marriage Won't Work. Please Help by siofragspot: 1:25pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
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Re: My Girlfriend's Mom Said Some Pastors Said Our Marriage Won't Work. Please Help by akpascomartino: 1:27pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
klimkid:Had similar experience. In my own case her mother wasn't involved. Even the mother was was asking the name of the church she refused to tell. Have engaged her already and was planning for her introduction . This revelation from this her unknown pastor came up Oct the preceding year. She started running after a guy whose brother is in Malaysia . She even cheated on me sleeping in the guys house over night . Unknown to her that she will be caught by me. In the morning while returning from the guys house I called her on video call, she refused to pick. Asking me me didn't j trust her. This was after 4 days she spend the day and night with me. I behaved ad if I have forgotten every then saved that particular date in my brain. I then invited her about 2weeks later. At night I checked her phone on that particular date. Oh boy, my heart cut. In fact my own story bad pass yours. Bro forget the girl. She had started seeing a richer guy. So focus on yourself and build yourself. To cut my story short, this guy she dumped me for dumped her and marry his fellow state girl in Jan 2022. 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend's Mom Said Some Pastors Said Our Marriage Won't Work. Please Help by dododawa1: 1:30pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
Is pastor GOD |
Re: My Girlfriend's Mom Said Some Pastors Said Our Marriage Won't Work. Please Help by dododawa1: 1:31pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
MONEY involved |
Re: My Girlfriend's Mom Said Some Pastors Said Our Marriage Won't Work. Please Help by Ade1177: 1:32pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
akpascomartino: Girls will always do this Go for a richer dude and lie to the good guy they dating If only guys know What 50k can make some ladies in serious relationships do You won't die on one girl that you are not sure is always in your house at night everyday from 6pm Even those that go to work. Guys they pick them at work then after everything they go home Women life is boring without a guy If it's not with you It's with another guy she feels is better When a girl breaks up and says she wants to be alone She means she wants to be without you in particular not other guys 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend's Mom Said Some Pastors Said Our Marriage Won't Work. Please Help by elbulk(m): 1:36pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
klimkid: You have a mouth, you have knees, and you have Bible so why all the prayer contracting please? So a prophecy is usually a confirmation of what you already feel. So the Holy Spirit isn't a confusionist |
Re: My Girlfriend's Mom Said Some Pastors Said Our Marriage Won't Work. Please Help by deegalaxy(m): 1:40pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
Man, let her go! They could be right, they could be wrong. Aside that you already have a big breach with your mother inlaw believe me you don't want to start your marriage that way. So move on! Don't let kids, who are not yet married or have any experience about marriage advice you to engage in a love conquering fight that is not worth it. Relationship is not marriage. Let her go! |
Re: My Girlfriend's Mom Said Some Pastors Said Our Marriage Won't Work. Please Help by thesmallgod(m): 1:44pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
Indirectly the woman is telling you that you cannot Marry her daughter |
Re: My Girlfriend's Mom Said Some Pastors Said Our Marriage Won't Work. Please Help by janeedema(f): 1:45pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
But the OP visits spiritualists, too. He said: "There's a woman that prays for him here in Lagos". This means there are others who he consults to pray for him outside of Lagos. Abi you aren't seeing what I am seeing? The OP is simply inheriting his mother-in-law. His wife-to-be is not innocent as well. After all, the message that they shouldn't marry was delivered by his fiancee on behalf of her mum. The OP now brought something as sensitive as marriage to Nairalanders to help him decide what to do. Chaiii... Do you know what it truly means to be a husband? Like to be a man who leads his home? I don't think so. If you keep going at this rate, your marriage will be a haven where people will be dropping all forms of prophecy and because you are disconnected from God, you will be running helter skelter. Please, find God and build a relationship with Him. That's the only way to get clarity. quote author=blaise26abj post=124023612] Lol. All these scammers . They are just betting against the high divorce rates . When they get it right , those women that patronize them will tell all their friends that believe in such things that they have one powerful prophet . That’s how the prophet keep cashing out or using those women for sexual gratifications . My advice is work on yourself and give your best . Marriage is not for the faint hearted . Pray and keep working with your wife . Beware of your mother Inlaw sha . In-laws that visit spiritualists can constitute nuisance in your home . [/quote] 1 Like |
Re: My Girlfriend's Mom Said Some Pastors Said Our Marriage Won't Work. Please Help by Bananapill: 1:46pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
klimkid: I like the reply of your other Pastors and the Rev. Carry on if your girlfriend says she's ready to walk down the aisle with you. |
Re: My Girlfriend's Mom Said Some Pastors Said Our Marriage Won't Work. Please Help by ImpactBooks: 2:06pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
This was what happened to me year 2003. In a nutshell, the guy my fiancee committed her to marry ended up leaving her as a single mother with 3 children to God knows where and of course, as an irresponsible man. The lady is now a shadow of herself. I felt pity for the lady the day we met and narrated her ordeal to me. She even narrated how she fought with her mother over her present marital predicament. She specifically accused her mom of misleading her and her mom had to come begging her. This lady is now begging me for financial assistance. Hmmm. Story plenty o. But I thank God for my life. Op, it is well with you 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: My Girlfriend's Mom Said Some Pastors Said Our Marriage Won't Work. Please Help by lollybizzu(m): 2:06pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
klimkid: I have experienced this first hand. I got a fake prophecy that my fiancee, now my wife was a witch and jezebel. I cried and cried that day...after four years of friendship + relationship. We are married now three years and I can say she's one of the best things that has happened to me. The decision is yours to make. Know what you want and be determined to fight for it. |
Re: My Girlfriend's Mom Said Some Pastors Said Our Marriage Won't Work. Please Help by Lastborn0074: 2:06pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
Marriage happens between two people. Pro 18:22 he who finds a wife finds a good thing... the key thing is that a man must find. Not even God finds for a man. So if you have found, go ahead and formalise, but I suspect that the mother is not comfortable with you either bc of your financial status or your tribe. If her mother is not comfortable with you, then you may have to look elsewhere. But don't let anyone dictate for you. It's not biblical. The choice is solely yours. Good luck! |
Re: My Girlfriend's Mom Said Some Pastors Said Our Marriage Won't Work. Please Help by outofthebox: 2:25pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
Once you have had sexual relationship with her, somethings wouldn't be clear. I learnt this the hard way and I am still learning. Everything is not physical. Africans are fetish in nature and would go any length to satisfy their wishes. What if her mum doesn't want you as her daughter's husband? And she is just wanting you to not marry her daughter I would advise you to fast for 3days. Take leave off work. Many people have lost their lives/destinies due to a wrong decision. I was saved by God's grace. I believe God would talk to you directly. Just cry to him. |
Re: My Girlfriend's Mom Said Some Pastors Said Our Marriage Won't Work. Please Help by adverttrading: 2:25pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
Dem no dey tell person. If you like, leave the babe for your pastor, https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CDcB9TUmQQM |
Re: My Girlfriend's Mom Said Some Pastors Said Our Marriage Won't Work. Please Help by afroxyz: 2:32pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
Provided yiu guys are still seeking the opinion of other people to get married, then I would advise you guys not ti get married. You both are not yet matured for marriage |
Re: My Girlfriend's Mom Said Some Pastors Said Our Marriage Won't Work. Please Help by onoriodeemmy: 2:37pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
klimkid: |
Re: My Girlfriend's Mom Said Some Pastors Said Our Marriage Won't Work. Please Help by onoriodeemmy: 2:39pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
Guy why re u looking for God wen He is not lost but beside u.please learn to go on ur knees and pray to God.He will answer u.imagine the number of prophets and pastor that saw Nigeria last election from their own views .some even said deir will be no inauguration. Pray and work hard to ensure ur marriage works .all d best |
Re: My Girlfriend's Mom Said Some Pastors Said Our Marriage Won't Work. Please Help by SyndyB(m): 3:08pm On Jun 25, 2023 |
Okay, everybody has said this or that about your marriage, you what do you have to say about yourself and your spouse to me, will you work, will she work? |
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