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A Married Man Needs Help by smurfs: 9:20am On Oct 04, 2011
Good morning all,
This is my first time of posting on this interesting forum.
I am a newly married man, I need urgent help concerning my sexual relationship.My wife was a virgin when we got married and she is complaining now that sex between us i now a routine.She said we do the same thing ,same way , same sequence all the time and i have exhausted everything i think i know about sex. The main issue now is that i just realized yesterday that she has being asking for tutorials from some one a guy and they have being discussing in graphic details. Please i need help as in How can we have sex differently. How can i please my wife sexually,porn is not an option because i have tried it and it did not help. please i will appreciate comment from married folks.
Thanks
Re: A Married Man Needs Help by tellwisdom: 9:35am On Oct 04, 2011
Only married folks aby?? Ok Goodluck Jonathanlipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Re: A Married Man Needs Help by pendo89(f): 9:53am On Oct 04, 2011
wait for MBJ.
Not sure though if hes married or not but hes an expert in such topics.
good luuck
Re: A Married Man Needs Help by smurfs: 10:05am On Oct 04, 2011
@tellwisdom,
please i am sorry experience single too can also advise.
Thanks
Re: A Married Man Needs Help by smurfs: 10:07am On Oct 04, 2011
@pendo89
Thanks
Re: A Married Man Needs Help by brixton: 10:49am On Oct 04, 2011
you should stop her from talking to dat oda dude abt sex tutorials. Try talking her through nasty and naughty sex topics,seek for what pleases her and maybe watch some mojo films togeda.But u 2 have to be open with each other to solve d problem tgeda. Goodluck
Re: A Married Man Needs Help by ebonyvibe(f): 11:16am On Oct 04, 2011
OMG

Why dont you simply talk to your wife as to what she wants and let her know how far you are willing to go and both of you meet each other half way after all that is marriage for you.

She should stop talking to the other guy now that she is married otherwise you will never satisfy her. Anyway i can tell you guys just got married after a will you both wil realise that se.x is over-rated in marriage any way. This is why i am not an advocate for marring virgins it is better to marry an expereinced lady that is ready to settle down.

Good luck
Re: A Married Man Needs Help by ifyalways(f): 11:16am On Oct 04, 2011
Why is your wife talking with "the other guy" as oppossed to you?Even if you guys are the churchous types did anyone not tell you guys during counselling that the best way to enjoy each other's bodies is by "talking with each other,tell ur partner exactly what u want,like,wud want to try" etc.

One day from graphic description,the other guy go enter ur wife,take her to cloud 9 and before you can say jack ur wife is on her way outta ur life.

Go home man,set the mood,prepare her fav. meal,get adult movies in the bedroom,talk intimately and encourage her to be open and honest too,then ACT.

btwn,not doing "sex" during coutship does not mean you should not "talk" sex.Talking sex for patners prating abstinence during courtship is a sure way of eliminating such scenarios after marriage.
Re: A Married Man Needs Help by tpia5: 11:27am On Oct 04, 2011
If you can type on the internet then surely you can also buy a book that has the informtion you want?
Re: A Married Man Needs Help by smurfs: 11:41am On Oct 04, 2011
Thanks everyone for the comment so far, but i will like to say that i have asked her several time about what she wants sexually since she is in the best position to let me know how she really feels,but she has being quiet on me
Re: A Married Man Needs Help by smurfs: 11:46am On Oct 04, 2011
@tpia thanks for your comment but please can you recommend a good book i have bought some
Re: A Married Man Needs Help by sylve11: 11:55am On Oct 04, 2011
. . . This is a serious matter. Another man doing graphical teachings of sexuality 2 another man's wife?

@op, your best bet lies in the hands of God as in spirituality. . .hands of Indecency as physicality and viagra as in normality. sad cool
Re: A Married Man Needs Help by ebonyvibe(f): 12:04pm On Oct 04, 2011
goggle 'kamasutra' and that is all you need.

But there are somethings in the book i wouldnt do
Re: A Married Man Needs Help by maureena(f): 12:47pm On Oct 04, 2011
If your wife is actually a virgin as you said, what makes her to know that there are other positions since this is her first time. I suspect a foul play. As a virgin any position , probably the adams style is common. Get a copy of EveryWoman. Ther are differnt sex positons descibed in it. I think that can help.

More so, you can go to Google and type sex positions. I think that will help you too.
Re: A Married Man Needs Help by PastorAji(m): 12:59pm On Oct 04, 2011
Mr. Smurfs aka @poster visit www.sexinfo101.com the site might helps
Re: A Married Man Needs Help by smurfs: 1:43pm On Oct 04, 2011
@Pastor Aji, thank you so much. I have checked the site it was enlightening.
Thanks
Re: A Married Man Needs Help by shehu50(m): 2:55pm On Oct 04, 2011
Talk with her,find out what would turn her on or what she fantassises about.discus it then u could watch porn movies together.then you could do it in odd places not necessacirily in the bedroom.use the kitchen,u could giver from the back,do it in the sitting room,u seat on the chair and she rides you.u know variety is the spice of life.
Re: A Married Man Needs Help by tellwisdom: 3:02pm On Oct 04, 2011
you should stop her from talking to dat oda dude abt sex tutorials. Try talking her through nasty and naughty sex topics,seek for what pleases her and maybe watch some mojo films togeda.But u 2 have to be open with each other to solve d problem tgeda. Goodluck

shocked shocked shocked-----> HARM sad sad
Re: A Married Man Needs Help by kpolli(m): 3:50pm On Oct 04, 2011
[size=18pt]MOJO TIME[/size] grin

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