rokiatu:

Again this story is not about me geeezz. lol


You try Cork, but go back to page1 and read again.

^^^^Typical african woman.   A simple **thank you Mr Cork would have been nice**. No wonder she cant find a man.    Chuuupiiid girl![color=#990000][/color]

rokiatu:

We do not freaking tell our heart who to fall in love with.
Very true, but we can decide who we will get married to.

That make a lot of sense and that is exactly their worry.

But trust me this guy is truthworthy. And offcourse he is willing to learn about the religion.
Blind love is talking here.

You are right dear, but how can you marry without your family approval?

Let him go (I am not denying the fact that it hurts) but it is better to be hurt now than for you to lose both ways as an unhappy wife and your parents being resentful of your decisions.

Forget the fact that it hurts you will get over it. Immerse yourself in distractions for the time being.

rokiatu:

Again this story is not about me geeezz. lol


You try Cork, but go back to page1 and read again.

Sure, and my advice is not meant for you.  

****Thank God we have nicer  options:  WHITE WOMEN!!** 

Honestly,i rily fink there's no solution,LOVE no matter how blind still has AT LEAST SOME SENSE IN IT! SO,if he is ready to break up fine or dey elope!! At d end of d[i][/i][font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font] day,the gals parents myt have a RE-THINK!!!

Mr, Cork:

****Thank God we have nicer options: WHITE WOMEN!!**

Joker.

it`s not your familys life its your life and if you and him are both madly inlove and your family dissaproves of it fine.

you have two options

marry him and get insults from your family

or respect your family and lose the love of your life.


there was one case where a nigerian girl ,wanted to marry a jamaican man.Her family were fully against it,but she went and had a baby with him and married him without their permission.at the end of the day the family finally accepted the husband.

rokiatu:

Too much kissing people. Are you guys lady-loving-ladies?

Jealous wifey?

u jst nd to listn to ur parents tho its nt goin 2b ezy bt to avoid future problems.blv me dey r sein wt u cant c.if u av trustin and obeyn dem eva since en if truly dey r ur parnts and u trust dem my dear u jst av to let go, i no its nt ezy.ds myt sound stp bt i no wat am sayn

Mrs, Chima:

Jealous wifey?

don't mind her

Hotie Tima:

don't mind her

Stay on topic.

sexkillz:

**First hand Experience**
A very close family friend wanted to get married to an ishan lady! His parents objected! Why? She was ishan, they were ibo, the lady was 29, he was 26! The father was distraught when the guy insisted. Mother called the lady a slut! they did everything they knew to stop this two from getting married! The guy sought the advice of his aunts and uncles, The family of the lady were in support, Some part of the guys family were in support! DEADLOCK!!!

The guy refused to let go! He begged and begged his parents. They blatantly refused! Well he proceeded without them! Well meaning friends of the parents spoke to them and they reluctantly budged! Now it's 2011! The guy is 31, the lady is 34! they have 2 kids, his parents have 2 grandchildren! Everyone is happy! Mother inlaw and daughter inlaw are inseparable, as i write this!

Bottom line is that they did not Elope! They continued tying to make his parents see reason! It only took time! Now, all that is in the past!

Time works wonders! But how your friend puts her time to use, sexkillz doesnt know! No parent has the heart of stone! Sooner or later, they'll budge!. . .

Oh wow inspiring story.

sexsinners:

it`s not your familys life its your life and if you and him are both madly inlove and your family dissaproves of it fine.

you have two options

marry him and get insults from your family

or respect your family and lose the love of your life.


there was one case where a nigerian girl ,wanted to marry a jamaican man.Her family were fully against it,but she went and had a baby with him and married him without their permission.at the end of the day the family finally accepted the husband.

ROFLMAO dude, well this one is a different case, na death you want cause upon the girl?

That is the last plan on our minds.

chill woman gosh!!!!!

LOL I am quite relaxed.

i hope so

but it don't look so

Your family is too strict Rokiatu

ekt_bear:

Your family is too strict Rokiatu

lol just because she is seeking for advice don't mean it's her lol i can't stop laughing

^lol HOTTIE

i swear man he don't even know and he straight away thinking it's my sister lol

Hotie Tima:

i swear man he don't even know and he straight away thinking it's my sister lol

LOL

I have said it like 500 times. I am not the girl.

^^^ Yea right, she aint one. Elton Jon must be straight

^^^^^^ lol
Dude u are so crazy.

rokiatu:

LOL

I have said it like 500 times. I am not the girl.

Hmm, ok.