Yeah, it once happened to me.
I once lost a scholarship opportunity bcoz of hot temper. I actually wrote exams for the scholarship three times. My local government and some rich men in my LG came up with the idea of supporting some of the bright students of my LG through a scholarship opportunity. All these while I never knew they deliberately hid the part of waning to send 5 of the best students in the exams to a European university and For u to scale through u must pass through three stages of exams. I thought it was a a scholarship to a Nigerian university. Studying oversea was always my dream. So I wrote the three stages of exams and came out second to the best student. It was for science students. So after some days we were told to come back for another exam which I went and I was the best. Instead of them giving out the scholarship to the 5 of us that came out top they told us to serve in some of the sponsors' houses for 5 months before we were eligible. At this point I became so angry that I threw away the results before our LG chairman and other leaders and left the secretariat. Now in conclusion, the 6 best was chosen in my place and he's now a medical doctor in the US and all the others are doing very well abroad. Two are medical doctors in US and the rest are engineers. Two in UK and the last in Australia and I am still a struggling graduate of a Nigerian university. After graduation, I started working for someone for 15k salary. At some point I became fed up and resigned, gathered small amount and started an ok shoe business and the business is really struggling that I'm becoming a shadow of myself. Life hasn't been great at some point I stopped going to church. This is my story and I'm sorry for wasting ur time. Pls if you're a hot tempered person, pray for God's help bcoz u can miss a great opportunity like I did. U can lose ur future wife and hubby bcoz of hot temper. Sorry for my errors. I saw one of the guys in a house he built for his family today and to be serious I'm so ashamed of myself.

Do u have ur own experience? Pls share let's learn from u.

Pls mods help me push it to fp.

I no get hot temper and e dey pain me,,... I no Sabi vex


Hustle oo

Blackestjunior:
I no get hot temper and e dey pain me,,... I no Sabi vex


Hustle oo

Don't do this pls. At least for today. I am a broken man.

Nawao.

Village people truly exist.

Zonefree:
Nawao.

Village people truly exist.

I don't believe it has anything to do with my village pple bro. Anger is devilish ND I've learnt my lessons the hard way.

Mehnn so sorry OP but this your case ehn. Anger is actually a Infectious disease that should be cured by any means possible.

I'm not an Hot tempered person but my own issue be say e no dey hard me to change am for person if something don't sit well with me

The bottom line is all 9ja girls are ashawo both the ones forming GF or church girl. They are all the same.

The fact that you have never caught your babe doing ashawo, doesn't mean she is not an ashawo

Icandream:
Yeah, it once happened to me.
I once lost a scholarship opportunity bcoz of hot temper. I actually wrote exams for the scholarship three times. My local government and some rich men in my LG came up with the idea of supporting some of the bright students of my LG through a scholarship opportunity. All these while I never knew they deliberately hid the part of waning to send 5 of the best students in the exams to a European university and For u to scale through u must pass through three stages of exams. I thought it was a a scholarship to a Nigerian university. Studying oversea was always my dream. So I wrote the three stages of exams and came out second to the best student. It was for science students. So after some days we were told to come back for another exam which I went and I was the best. Instead of them giving out the scholarship to the 5 of us that came out top they told us to serve in some of the sponsors' houses for 5 months before we were eligible. At this point I became so angry that I threw away the results before our LG chairman and other leaders and left the secretariat. Now in conclusion, the 6 best was chosen in my place and he's now a medical doctor in the US and all the others are doing very well abroad. Two are medical doctors in US and the rest are engineers. Two in UK and the last in Australia and I am still a struggling graduate of a Nigerian university. After graduation, I started working for someone for 15k salary. At some point I became fed up and resigned, gathered small amount and started an ok shoe business and the business is really struggling that I'm becoming a shadow of myself. Life hasn't been great at some point I stopped going to church. This is my story and I'm sorry for wasting ur time. Pls if you're a hot tempered person, pray for God's help bcoz u can miss a great opportunity like I did. U can lose ur future wife and hubby bcoz of hot temper. Sorry for my errors. I saw one of the guys in a house he built for his family today and to be serious I'm so ashamed of myself.

Do u have ur own experience? Pls share let's learn from u.

Pls mods help me push it to fp.

What year was this

Bro this your case strong.
You didn’t lose the scholarship because of your hot temper,you are not loyal.

Even if it was a Nigerian university,,,what is wrong in serving your destiny helper for just 5months?

Bro,some of us did more than that….but we had our targets…

One white winxh...My sure plug wanted weed,Henny,porn and sex for a perfect date...After coordinating she came and immediately changed her mind for reasons best known to her....Me,initially got fed up and locked the doors then turned it to play...She wanted to leave but I think say na 9ja I dey I no gree,dey scope.Like play like play sh&t became serious na so dem take deport me from Cotonou come Nigeria for forcing my gf to watch porn and also lying about my age.
Wetin I go tell my mama say I no make am,ogadi very serious ohh

Savedday2:
The bottom line is all 9ja girls are ashawo both the ones forming GF or church girl. They are all the same.

The fact that you have never caught your babe doing ashawo, doesn't mean she is not an ashawo

Did you even read what the OP typed?

😱😬😤

Am not hot tempered ,every decision I made was for the best and I have not regretted anything I did when I was angry.But I notice that I am not good at keeping friends,I dont know how to keep contacts and relationships with people.And if you Bleep up,I distance myself.I think this is bad of me.really bad.

Icandream:
Yeah, it once happened to me.
I once lost a scholarship opportunity bcoz of hot temper. I actually wrote exams for the scholarship three times. My local government and some rich men in my LG came up with the idea of supporting some of the bright students of my LG through a scholarship opportunity. All these while I never knew they deliberately hid the part of waning to send 5 of the best students in the exams to a European university and For u to scale through u must pass through three stages of exams. I thought it was a a scholarship to a Nigerian university. Studying oversea was always my dream. So I wrote the three stages of exams and came out second to the best student. It was for science students. So after some days we were told to come back for another exam which I went and I was the best. Instead of them giving out the scholarship to the 5 of us that came out top they told us to serve in some of the sponsors' houses for 5 months before we were eligible. At this point I became so angry that I threw away the results before our LG chairman and other leaders and left the secretariat. Now in conclusion, the 6 best was chosen in my place and he's now a medical doctor in the US and all the others are doing very well abroad. Two are medical doctors in US and the rest are engineers. Two in UK and the last in Australia and I am still a struggling graduate of a Nigerian university. After graduation, I started working for someone for 15k salary. At some point I became fed up and resigned, gathered small amount and started an ok shoe business and the business is really struggling that I'm becoming a shadow of myself. Life hasn't been great at some point I stopped going to church. This is my story and I'm sorry for wasting ur time. Pls if you're a hot tempered person, pray for God's help bcoz u can miss a great opportunity like I did. U can lose ur future wife and hubby bcoz of hot temper. Sorry for my errors. I saw one of the guys in a house he built for his family today and to be serious I'm so ashamed of myself.

Do u have ur own experience? Pls share let's learn from u.

Pls mods help me push it to fp.

@ Icandream,

Learn to paragraph your write-up(s).

This one makes the eye sore

Op I feel your pain. However that is not the end of life. I am glad you have learned your lesson even though you learnt it the hard way.

But what stops the village sponsors from letting the top candidates know about their full intentions though? Rather than putting them in the dark. It is well though.

For me personally the worst set of people I cannot associate with are those that cannot control their emotions. Knowing how to control your emotions and not allowing your emotions control you is a discipline that every success inspired person must have.

Yes....Many times............ But these days,i thank God I've been able to find a way to control my anger........