Popular Ghanaian actor Van Vicker has questioned the sanity of men at the age of 45 who still engage in talks about their future love and marriage.

The thespian implied that men within such bracket should be fully settled matrimonially.

Vicker, fondly called the young godfather, said men guilty of such romantic talks should question their sanity.

He said, “You’re 45 and you’re talking about your future love and marriage?

“I mean, I get it. But you sure say you well? At 45? Come on now.”

Recall the actor recently shared his thought on how best to maintain a long-lasting relationship.

According to the actor, sharing income and expenses with your partner is vital for a happy marriage.

He said,” People always say communication I agree, but for me, I think one of the greatest way to stay together is not to separate your income and expenses.

“Being open about your source of income and money is one of the greatest way to stay together. Spend it together, project it together, bring it in together or, if one person is bringing it in, be open about it.”

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Country hard oooo

Those whose nuts are cracked by a benevolent spirit think other people are mad.

Oga van' allow the singles to breath, don't suffocate them'
As man if you never see any wifeable materials'
Just give one of your girls belle and take the child'' i am currently flexing life with my children'
Don't go and kill urself because of one fish brain mentality fool and likely a liability.

Vicker please help us ask them o,most were rather irresponsible during their youthful age that they never thought of marriage,i pity this category of men because they are going to live a life of misery and regret in old age.

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I married at 18

Men don't have a biological clock like women do

Flora2Sweet:
I married at 18

Are you still married

izonborn098:
Oga van' allow the singles to breath, don't suffocate them'
As man if you never see any wifeable materials'
Just give one of your girls belle and take the child'' i am currently flexing life with my children'
Don't go and kill urself because one fish brain mentality' likely a liability.

Tell him o

Person wey life dey favour go think others no serious dem just dey play

Marrying at 45 is hmm...it mean ur first child will graduate at 65.

And if pregnancy delays,u will know what it means to prepare early.

Nice2023:
Marrying at 45 is hmm...it mean ur first child will graduate at 65.

And if pregnancy delays,u will know what it means to prepare early.

Wetin concern graduation and marriage?

Is your purpose of marriage to produce graduates at a specific time?

jmoore:


Wetin concern graduation and marriage?

Is your purpose of marriage to produce graduates at a specific time?

We aren't on the same lane. That is an opinion it may as well be a conclusion if u so choose.

virginprincess:
Vicker please help us ask them o,most were rather irresponsible during their youthful age that they never thought of marriage,i pity this category of men because they are going to live a life of misery and regret in old age.

Don't say that. You can't predict life. Anyone can die anytime even married people.

Marriage is by choice not by age and it is also grossly overrated.

Marriage is not for everybody, is a choice.

Honestly, 45years is Late for a Man to Marry.

Once you are Getting to 37,38years as a Guy, and you are still Struggling,
Just kuku give any Small Girl for your Area, belle.

For ladies, If you are approaching 35,36 and no Husband,
Pack out of your parents house, have One night stand with any Man
And carry belle.🙁🙂

Vinnie2000:


Honestly, 45years is Late for a Man to Marry.

Once you are Getting to 37,38years as a Guy, and you are still Struggling,
Just kuku give any Small Girl for your Area, belle.

For ladies, If you are approaching 35,36 and no Husband,
Pack out of your parents house, have One night stand with any Man
And carry belle.

And feed the baby with sand?

jmoore:
And feed the baby with sand?

Don't mind that idiot.

jmoore:


Wetin concern graduation and marriage?

Is your purpose of marriage to produce graduates at a specific time?

U will produce them when u are 70...don't worry when u marry,u will know better.

As they say often,experience is the best teacher.

Na wa

Nope

Zigzagman:


Are you still married

Nice2023:




U will produce them when u are 70...don't worry when u marry,u will know better.

As they say often,experience is the best teacher.

People should determine their own timeline..You don't force your own schedule on others.




Some married early and never had kids.

Some married early but child came after 15 years of marriage.

Some had graduates who died after NYSC.


Marriage has nothing to do with producing graduates.

bluefilm:


Don't mind that idiot.

Bluefilm my Guy, so na me you dey call Idiot, abi?

Nor worry o.

So A Struggling unmarried Man should reach 45,47 years and Remain single till he Dies?

Make him kuku give one smallie Belle naw. 😏🙂

jmoore:
And feed the baby with sand?

No, the Girl's Mother will be taking care of her and the Baby in their House. 🙂

While He will be sending like 15K, 20K every month.

I have seen some Guymen doing this Style. 😊

Vinnie2000:
Bluefilm my Guy, so na me you dey call Idiot, abi?

Nor worry o.

So A Struggling unmarried Man should reach 45,47 years and Remain single till he Dies?

Make you kuku give one smallie Belle naw. 😏🙂

Sorry for that

But one thing you have to understand in this life is that life is not a race, neither does it have any Formula.

You need to understand where someone is coming from before you start passing judgment.

bluefilm:


Sorry for that

But one thing you have to understand in this life is that life is not a race, neither does it have any Formula.

You need to understand where someone is coming from before you start passing judgment.

Whatever any Young Unmarried Man is Passing through,
By 40years, Make him Just Try get pikin.😏

Life Expectancy is getting Lower everyday.

U no see how Ronaldinho, Iniesta, Jamie Carragher,etc don get White hair finish?

They are around 41,42 Years oo.😕

Vinnie2000:
Whatever any Young Unmarried Man is Passing through,
By 40years, Make him Just Try get pikin.😏

Life Expectancy is getting Lower everyday.

U no see how Ronaldinho, Iniesta, Jamie Carragher,etc don get White hair finish?

They are around 41,42 Years oo.😕

This is the same mentality that has kept Africa in perpetual poverty: poor people making more and more babies!

You see a family that is struggling to survive, and when you count the number of children they have, you find out they are numbering up to six or more...

Of what use is bringing a child into this world to suffer?

Love is sweet oo, when money comes love is sweeter. But must we now say because money no dey man shouldn't get marry? No.

Like, I do tell my friends who are yet to marry that, man should just accept his faith/destiny if he couldn't get those things he want, dreamth/aspire for once he clock 40yrs.

So man should think and be able to plan a family once they reach a certain chronological age with past savings and present income.

bluefilm:


This is the same mentality that has kept Africa in perpetual poverty: poor people making more and more babies!

You see a family that is struggling to survive, and when you count the number of children they have, you find out they are numbering up to six or more...

Of what use is bringing a child into this world to suffer?

Ogbeni, God will provide' Abeg.😏🙂

So you want a 39, 40 years old Guy to Continue Waiting to Hit the Jackpot?

If that does not Materialize, what do you expect him to do?.😒

One Guy in my area is like this. Born in 1979 and still Struggling when some of his mates children's are writing Common entrance or even WAEC.😔

Dem no Tell am 2x.

He Impregnated one Area smallie and now he has two kids with her.☺️🙂

Not an Honorable thing to do But like play, he was getting closer to 50 years of age, still Single!😕

virginprincess:
Vicker please help us ask them o,most were rather irresponsible during their youthful age that they never thought of marriage,i pity this category of men because they are going to live a life of misery and regret in old age.

Meaning the same applies for women too ba?

Regret why? Because they didn't have kids or they were irresponsible?

I) If it's about kids: All these regretting in old age threats(towards male or female) is not dependant on if one has biological kids or not.

There are many people who didn't have kids and didn't regret anything. Although they didn't have biological children, they raised other people who see themselves as children to them.

If you have people you have invested in or raised, have been on importance to their life and you have servef God faithfully, you won't regret anything. It's not only until you have biological kids. It's because you think the kids are the only major investment that there'll be regrets if you have no children.

Many of you only think of children along the biological perspective.

Invest and involve in the building of other people. Such that they can point to you as someone who did something that change their lives. They would honour and treat you as the would to their own parents.

II) If it's about irresponsibility not much to say on this. Simply because there's no one God cannot redeem. It doesn't cost God anything. If the person is willing to submit to him and "sins no more".