Unperturbedpota:


Oh well.... 🙄
None of em is a hoe and they all happily married the youngest being married now for 4 years.

Go figure, nanny mcphee

dealslip:

😂😂😂. Which one are talking about hoe or deceitfulness of women? Is being happily married equivalent to being not being deceitful. I am not used to chatting with children but let me let you amuse yourself.

madridguy:
Baba, immediately I have the plan to relocate abroad, the first thing I will so is to set up another family. Once the one we travel abroad start misbehaving, I will just quietly carry my bag, leave her with the children and continue my life with my second wife back home.

I will never accept any woman to lord over me as abroad women are use to be doing.

oshaosha2014:
Why should we remove any stigma. We are not animals.

emmaodet:


So true.
If there is no stigma against divorcing and single motherhood, oboy divorce go plenty pass condom.
Many women are enduring marriages due to many factors.
Finance - I know atleast 5 women who have declared to me that if not for stigma, they would have packed out of the marriage they are due to poverty. From my observation, I think poverty will take 70% of the reason why most women are tired and exhausted in marriages.
Infidelity - many women will rather endure with a providing man than staying alone while poverty and hardship strikes them down.

ogelekpomgam:

Oga,there is money there.
Let no man deceive you.A cleaner or professional job can fetch you 3000 pounds monthly.About 3 million naira.O boy,in a year, that's 36 million naira.
Who dash monkey banana in Nigeria??..

madridguy:
Oyinbo country self too get wahala.

You cannot discipline your wife as one can do in Nigeria... Your wife can wake up and call police for you and police will ask you to leave your home.

You cannot scold your kids, if you do so and the authority get to know, they will take away your kids and hand them over to a foster parent.

And this is the place some people are selling their assets to go

My prayer to all Nigeria men suffering under their wives in various oyinbo country.

thinkmoney:
It’s only your kids you discipline. There is nothing like disciplining of wife... wife is a partner... your wife is yiu

Unperturbedpota:


Oh well.... 🙄
None of em is a hoe and they all happily married the youngest being married now for 4 years.

Go figure, nanny mcphee

Angelfrost:


Please, y'all should stop demonizing taxes.

Even after taxes, a financially prudent person can still save enough to make him or her wealthy by Naira and Nigerian standards.


The reasons why you Africans despise and fear taxes (including African Americans) says a lot about why this continent is behind.

Yugoslavia247:
I never go UK.

One thing I know is Nigeria no fit better pass UK. If not why UK citizens no dey write exams and fight and go to church just to come naija.

Abeg.

UK culture be like core northern Muslim culture to an Igbo man.

If an Igbo man can survive in sokoto despite their Islamic nature why not UK.

Omoh. Make u na know say all this na lies full am.

In Nigeria we have many reasons marriage is not working

Poverty poverty

Fiscus105:
So, in UK wife don't use to do house chores and cooking as they do in naija? Going by your number 3 submission.

Racoon:
Tufiakwa! Even If I move over to the UK, I trust God for my marriage to remain intact because happiness in marriage depends on the mutual love, respect, & understanding you have with your wife. And above all, the God factor both of you believe in and uphold.

SSpeter:
When you see someone reason like this just know the person is immature

ogelekpomgam:

Oga,there is money there.
Let no man deceive you.A cleaner or professional job can fetch you 3000 pounds monthly.About 3 million naira.O boy,in a year, that's 36 million naira.
Who dash monkey banana in Nigeria??..

madridguy:
Oyinbo country self too get wahala.

You cannot discipline your wife as one can do in Nigeria... Your wife can wake up and call police for you and police will ask you to leave your home.

You cannot scold your kids, if you do so and the authority get to know, they will take away your kids and hand them over to a foster parent.

And this is the place some people are selling their assets to go

My prayer to all Nigeria men suffering under their wives in various oyinbo country.

jedisco:
Discipline your wife? And who disciplines the man.... Or is he above reproach?

Kobojunkiee:
In a Nigerian marriage, a man considers himself a teacher, and lord over his wife. She is not a partner.

thinkmoney:
It’s bad

Kobojunkiee:
It's Nigerian marriage for you.

NSK4U:


Except you are not African, you are suffering colonial mentality to be calling your fathers local champions.

Here in Africa, roles/family functions are distributed to every member of the family according to their gender, it is the culture that spells this roles to ensures cohesion and harmony in the home. Some African family institutions have been bastardised by foreign lifestyle which lacks well organized structure and is the reason most marriages are crashing nowadays.

Learn not to call the culture that brought you up as local simply because you are in UK where authorities survive by stealing African resources and pretending to themselves

LionInZion:
Another UK topic. Hmnnnn

Unperturbedpota:
Hmmm

Only 1 reason.

Nigerian women are deceitful lying beings whom no one should ever trust

BoldBrainz:
Quite honestly, even if I'm offered a free visa to the UK, I won't take it. Never liked that place for one bit. I'll rather live in Russia than the UK.

madridguy:
Oyinbo country self too get wahala.

You cannot discipline your wife as one can do in Nigeria... Your wife can wake up and call police for you and police will ask you to leave your home.

You cannot scold your kids, if you do so and the authority get to know, they will take away your kids and hand them over to a foster parent.

And this is the place some people are selling their assets to go

My prayer to all Nigeria men suffering under their wives in various oyinbo country.

Sermwell:

People like you fail to learn!! No worry, you will learn the hard way!

CHoccolaTE:


He's a Muslim. Islam allows the men to beat their wives. It's in the Quran as a method to 'discipline' wives.




Men also show their worst when they are given power.

The reason women run out of marriages in countries where they are treated as equal humans is because women are not by nature desirous of being submissive to another human being.

No normal human being wants to put their needs and desires on the back seat for another person in the name of submission to husband.

Nigerian culture and religion forces women to live like that.

If you see couples that have genuine, true love and companionship and friendship, you will see that their marriage would last even in western countries.

Na only slave and master marriage dey collapse for civilized countries.

madridguy:
Baba, immediately I have the plan to relocate abroad, the first thing I will so is to set up another family. Once the one we travel abroad start misbehaving, I will just quietly carry my bag, leave her with the children and continue my life with my second wife back home.

I will never accept any woman to lord over me as abroad women are use to be doing.

jaxxy:


u don't have to control a woman like a glorified housemaid tho.

Rossikk:


You think these ones have sense? He doesn’t even know what you’re talking about.

IamMobisola:
These are not limited to the UK. It’s applicable to developed countries that actually care about the worth of the female gender. Canada, USA, Russia, it’s everywhere.

It’s only in Africa, the world’s most underdeveloped or least developed continent that don’t respect women.