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Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by Kobojunkiee: 1:25am On Sep 01, 2023 |
Belafonte:after you! 6 Likes |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by Belafonte(m): 1:27am On Sep 01, 2023 |
Kobojunkiee: So why would a sensible old woman put pressure on her daughter's young marriage? Selfish woman, abandoned husband and putting daughter's marriage in jeopardy. Anyway, I blame monogamous men. A proper man wpuod have replaced her after 6 months. |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by Belafonte(m): 1:29am On Sep 01, 2023 |
Beremx: Poverty has remapped your thinking smh. She will hustle and make way for her husband lol. You think everyone wants to live outside Nigeria? Smh 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by pquaver(m): 1:59am On Sep 01, 2023 |
Romanoff: My dear say what you know.. Things we see everyday.. If u treat a woman well is not a guarantee... Do women treat men well? Abi the treating well now is not to gender neutral abi equality? |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by Amumaigwe: 2:50am On Sep 01, 2023 |
thisisit: Still ok. She will quietly poison the man and get her permanent freedom. One of the quickest way to die is by forcing a woman to stay with you against her will. 3 Likes |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by Amumaigwe: 2:59am On Sep 01, 2023 |
Kobojunkiee: And you follow dey inside their house to have known this, abi? Bitterness go soon choke you |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by Kobojunkiee: 3:02am On Sep 01, 2023 |
Amumaigwe:Arggh! So you dey inside house to have known this of me, abi? ROFLMAO |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by Amumaigwe: 3:15am On Sep 01, 2023 |
Kobojunkiee: Funny. You have made assumption that she was being treated badly, hence her absconding. So why complain about another person making assumption to the contrary? |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by BoldBrainz(m): 3:31am On Sep 01, 2023 |
UnfairLife7: Kindly disregard the UN data when relating this scenario to the Nigerian reality: - There aren't more females than males in Nigeria. Not in the slightest. Even our last population census put paid to that. But if that's not a reliable data source to you, do the practical sampling yourself, and that's quite simple. Travel round states in Nigeria and explore rural settlements. I had a stint with Unicef for about 2years and collection of in-country data was my departmental specialty. - Mortality rates in black infants does not have a gender peculiarity. For every five births in Nigeria, three are females, two are males. Mortality remains a random phenomenon that's largely dependent on factors bothering on causes that show no vulnerability prevalence just because a baby is a female. - It's a huge lie when you claim there are more aged females than males in Nigeria. Again, travel round your country. The fact old men like Ned Nwoko can marry six young wives should even tell you more. - Life expectancy in Nigeria is generally the same for both genders. It rather differs between urban and rural dwellers. There's a reason aged men seek to retire to their hometowns after having their careers in urban cities. 1 Like |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by BoldBrainz(m): 3:40am On Sep 01, 2023 |
bukatyne: Indeed you did. Marriage, love and religion are three phenomena without operational manuals. They all mean different things to different individuals and are not concepts any one soul can lay claims of proficiency to. Primary reason I hardly debate on them in public. Having experienced all three, I can afford to give confident insights into them without claiming my perceptions to be factual grounds. So it amounts to folly when anyone wakes up to call themselves "marriage counsellors" or even wave off marriage as a "simple affair". |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by CHoccolaTE: 3:40am On Sep 01, 2023 |
Hezmatosky:His family cannot care for him or was she the one that personally gave him sickness? Rubbish. I don't know what kind of joy men gain from forcing women to stay in suffer head marriages. 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by 13braz: 3:55am On Sep 01, 2023 |
itsme01:mohammed safiu Oyedele time to confess now why did you and your father Ishola raped your nephew and mother Musili confess now because I have your pictures and videos |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by arantess: 4:34am On Sep 01, 2023 |
jmoore:So she got a job in UK with her visitors visa Really? |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by arantess: 4:35am On Sep 01, 2023 |
Ahmed0336:Don't mind the op deceiving naive people |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by Desusi: 4:41am On Sep 01, 2023 |
ecolime:Na waa for you ooo! Why do you wanted to know? |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by spiceadole: 6:03am On Sep 01, 2023 |
jmoore: How is this an issue? Men claim they don't benefit anything from marriage. Why is it a problem that his wife has refused to return? He should move on.. Lol..even contemplating going for a second wife.. Why is the man running after something that doesn't benefit men? Na wa oh 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by freedomchild: 6:11am On Sep 01, 2023 |
Emaprince:I'll scribble this in the sky. You've said it all |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by Genea(f): 6:20am On Sep 01, 2023 |
Romanoff:It's never too late to leave. Treat your wives better... See she has chosen to be lonely than stay with a narcissistic or abusive person 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by Genea(f): 6:23am On Sep 01, 2023 |
advanceDNA:lol, the man is contemplating on marrying within 9 months of stay, does that not tell you a lot about it.... lmao, he deserves all he gets... if he has been good, marriage won't be the first thing on his mind 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by 2Radii: 6:38am On Sep 01, 2023 |
Kobojunkiee:I hope phulishh yuu will say this if table were turned |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by 2Radii: 6:46am On Sep 01, 2023 |
UnfairLife7: But u see where he said if u can afford...una no dey see?? |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by advanceDNA: 7:01am On Sep 01, 2023 |
Genea: Another femal trying to blame the man for something.... What is the "a lot" u are talking about.?? U have no point cos u are just trying to paint whats not in he story Wife said she's not coming back after getting to uk.....And somehow this is about blaming the man... for what exactly?? ... even if its one month she said she's not going back...Thats technically divorcing him because of abroad life.... but u want the man to old man to start begging or what....?? How u women process situation is just weird If he has been good?? How did they live together all this while if he has been bad. |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by UnfairLife7(m): 7:03am On Sep 01, 2023 |
BoldBrainz:Lol You must be a comedian. We shouldn't believe UN but believe your political influence census? You do not believe WHO also that shows women live longer than Men? You do not believe that female survived child mortality than male also? I didn't said that @bolded, I only said there are More male in general than female in Nigeria and even the 🌎 as a whole. I have seen more men suffer at old age than women, talking from my own personal experience. And if you check very well those men fvck up while they're still active while their children wait for old age. I have them in my area and even maternal side. It's uncommon for women to abandon their children unlike Men. I didn't say there are not women who abandon their children to go re-marry but the stat is absolutely low compare to how men do abandon their children. Some men even live together with their children but they had abandon them.. You're using NED as an example, Ned is a rich Man. Nigeria is a poor country. We're not talking about few rich ones. 80-90% of Nigerians are poor. Most household can't boast of 100k as savings if you care to know. We're talking about an average Nigerians that majority cannot afford 3 square meal daily. A stat came out sometime last year showing less than 5% of Nigerians has 500k in their bank account. I'm not talking about your politicians that stack money inside pit and whataview. I mean bank account. Seems you don't understand this topic? Don't you know if you hear that some children didn't take care of their parents or father, it means those parents or father are poor. Will Ned, Dangote, Otedola, Adenuga et al expect that from their children? Absolutely No Ned is a billionaire, women will want him. Those men suffering at old age are poor, no sane women will want them, hence they suffer at old age. Is as simple as that. 2 Likes |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by UnfairLife7(m): 7:10am On Sep 01, 2023 |
komzy589:compare the rate of men suffering at old age to women? Women hardly abandon their children. Some women will even carry their children along to remarry or to divorce. Very few women abandon their children. I have not seen any woman being abandon at old age compare to men. I'm talking about my own personal experience in my community and social media. |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by atinga1: 7:29am On Sep 01, 2023 |
Beremx:If a man did this, you'll probably cry and tell us how callous and insensitive he is. But since na woman, story don change. I pity men who trust you women. |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by Mercury12(m): 7:32am On Sep 01, 2023 |
Romanoff: You don't even know your gender well enough. Nah we know watin our eyes dey see for una hand. If there is ever a second life. Pray God makes u a man so you can see things for yourself |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by DyingFetus: 8:01am On Sep 01, 2023 |
pocohantas: So if this is your father, is this what are you going to tell him? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by pocohantas(f): 8:07am On Sep 01, 2023 |
DyingFetus: My father and his son are not on Nairaland shaming the marital institution. 6 Likes 1 Share |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by MySolace: 8:34am On Sep 01, 2023 |
Kobojunkiee:Really?? ...And u think a caring daughter shouldn't think about her father dat her mum left back home? I just taya... |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by MySolace: 8:52am On Sep 01, 2023 |
Romanoff:Lol... It's not always same. Conception can b deceptive atimes... U can b treating people well without dem knowing/misunderstanding u. Although dey can realize later dat u really cared about. Don't u think so? So, dat d woman decides to stay back longer musnt entail da her husband treats her badly. Also on d woman's side, she probably thinks she's doing d right thing, @amassing some wealth she will take back home to take care of her husband. ... Imagine wen u toil unendingly in Nigeria only to get a meagre return, den u see where u do wot u see as routine home chores back home and get paid in dollars ... Mehn, d joy no b here. I no blame d woman somehow. The husband should just try and understand her and Grant her a little more indulgence. I believe wen she eventually comes back d husband would appreciate her stay over there. I've seen such in my area. The woman went to Netherlands for omugwo and stayed back to work for years. She was even sending money home ...even to her female friends, my mum was a beneficiary . Sent her £80 back den. |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by Smartguyboy(m): 9:54am On Sep 01, 2023 |
Kobojunkiee:What’s the difference? |
Re: His Wife Went For Omugo In Uk And Refuses To Come Back by Kobojunkiee: 12:01pm On Sep 01, 2023 |
Smartguyboy:Difference between what? |
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