MrDoGood:



You've said it all

Aaaaarghmed:
Lol..Mumu man.The thing that has saved me in all my dealings with ladies is having a backup plan always. As a man this will help u always.The biggest rule..never let a woman know all the source of your income. Your leg never strong for UK and u see say your wife dey cheat, you go confront am.lol.obviously she is ahead of the game.you are supposed to be ahead always

BigDawsNet:


Person wey won catch monkey go behave like monkey... the power belongs to the woman right now... the man should just relax and beg if possible

Brandiebird:
Let’s take a minute to remember the 1000s of white women who were duped by Nigerian men who left them the minute they got their right to remain documents.

Maria96:


https://www.instagram.com/p/CwqlI-7ohca/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==
Wahala

Bush2013:


I was talking to one babe like that, next thing she told how she would like to travel that she hate Nigeria lol but she no get shishi she want a husband that will take care of that...

I quickly told her that I am not travelling anywhere that I am making enough money in Nigeria. She was disappointed.
We ended it.

Acidosis:
The truth of the matter is that Nigerian women in the UK will always have an edge over their husbands. This is not about the UK laws but the fact that most japa trips from Nigerian families were initiated by the madam of the house (wives). Many will do anything and everything to remain in that country, including destroying the marriage.

Dougad:
The letter clearly says leave or file an application to stay.

What am I missing?

BigDawsNet:


Let him keep quite na... shebi UK gov will ship him back to naija and he will hav to start allover...

The best is to beg the lady... and if possible she become the wife and d real wife become husband... this should go on... until his fit to legalise his documents

Sweetvie:

Guy
He should apologise for wetin?😂😂

Exceed15:



Good thought. I m sure this fellow has heard a lot of cases like what happened to him but still fell. victim. Some men mumu no be small. I will never invite wife over because I know her well. A wise man foresee evil and hide himself so the bible says.

Acidosis:
The truth of the matter is that Nigerian women in the UK will always have an edge over their husbands. This is not about the UK laws but the fact that most japa trips from Nigerian families were initiated by the madam of the house (wives). Many will do anything and everything to remain in that country, including destroying the marriage.

ItisWell22:


God bless you for this! 🙏🤲

Not all women want to depend on men as they make it look or sound like.
But if myself as a woman is struggling to be up there, my husband should be my leader!
He should be twice as ambitious as myself.

Not a man coming to tell a woman he wants to marry, he loves the money doctors abroad earn, and would love to enjoy such.

The lady in question is a nurse, who’s sponsoring herself for medicine and surgery oh.
She never enter house, you don dey tell her sey na she go dey foot recurring expenses, while you only foot capital expenses! 😩

Wetin differentiate her from single mothers wey get one sugar daddy wey dey foot capital expenses, while their businesses foot the recurring ones? 😢

Maria96:


https://www.instagram.com/p/CwqlI-7ohca/?igshid=MzRlODBiNWFlZA==
Wahala

Mosba:


You appear smart because you don't depend on her to live in Nigeria. Once you married for a visa,all your gragra go calm. Na that time you go look left and right and turn to look your back before you handshake a female working colleague. No one can outsmart his circumstances

Yugoslavia247:
Women are merciless and ruthless if they want to act.

That is why when their heart is broken.

I care less.

They don't even care.

The sweet marriage go clear for her eyes after some years.

EDOSBROWN:
Women can go extra mile to save a man, they can also go extra mile to bring a man down..
FEAR WOMEN

BigBashiru:


When a woman wants to leave you she doesn't care the millions you may have spent on the wedding....all she cares is she's leaving. They don't care.

Mahone05:


7 weeks is enough time for him to get a UK girl convinced to marry him, and activate his citizenship

pansophist:
I blame the man.

It's easy to blame women or others, but if he did the right thing, this thing won't happen to him.

I live in the West myself, and almost all the marriages I see between Nigerians is the women on top and the man under. The system is designed to emasculate men.

Why will one want to be a husband and a father in such climate? A place where you can't father your kids well, and the state has influence and control over your children and marriage than you?

Feel free to move abroad with your wife, I'm not discouraging that, but make sure your immigration status is not at the mercy of someone. Just as most Nigerians won't move to Burundi, it should be the same with the western world.

Not all western countries should appeal to you if you're a married man. Look for those without anti family laws, where they won't teach your kids how to masturbaate in class, and that your son may be a girl.

Lots of Western countries do not support the misogynistic laws, try live in those ones. But you see the US, Canada, Netherlands, Germany, UK, Ireland, Belgium, just avoid those ones.

The man now foolishly go and put himself in a dependent position. I don't care if you promise you won't shoot me, you should not have a gun in the first place. I don't care if you won't cancel my visa status, I won't depend on you.

If I even marry a billionaire women, it's under my roof she will come and live. Her wealth means nothing to me. She will have to follow my directive.

Men should start being men. Real masculine men won't put themselves in a position where a woman can flip the rug under their feet.

Whytelyon:


You go pay finish, she go come go day straff another bobo.
People with no sense of thinking and decorum. Most of these Nigerian women and Kenyan women, i no even know who useless pass.

Gerrard59:


But why is it so? I have two female friends. Mrs A pressured her husband to fund her trip to Vietnam; her final aim is to cross over to Canada. She has spent quite a lot in the process. When I asked, how about her husband, she said he would join her later. I don't fancy a married man over 40 migrating, let alone to Vietnam.

Mrs B is doing the same to her husband as she says business is not moving fine for him in Nigeria. But the man is not interested. In his defence, I said if he is the one funding the trip (most likely as she does not do anything financially significant), she should allow him to be.

As a man, japa is best done when single.

emmaodet:


Hmmmmmm
Women are the one pressuring men most to japa

BigDawsNet:
He should apologise

Apologize for Knowing to Much!!

RikudoSennin:


What about Kenyan women? Thought they are different?

motymop:
If i was the man.

I will come back to Nigeria, block every contact about her and be the best version of myself.

What if he had Sold all his Properties before going and he is in his 50s??

Johnrake69:


It’s possible for care work. People dey run am but it’s expensive. I know a guy that delivers care work 5years visa within a month for 12k pounds.

Whytelyon:


Ha bros no o. Them and Rwandan women don join bandwagon of uselessness. Many of them are gradually becoming something else.
Judging by the way west African women don spoil them and so on. Trust West and East African girls at your own peril.

In the East, the worst set of women are Kenyan women. Those ones no see conscience get at all.

Whytelyon:


Say she cheat na, make he apologise for the cheating.

RikudoSennin:


Here I am thinking East African women are at least different.

So Kenyan women are the worst?

BigDawsNet:


That's just one of the best alternatives for the man... beg and beg until the lady forgives him... den he can manage himself till he find a sponsorship for himself personal