But you many at times support topics as such.. Can you give your reasons?

Samantha124:
I'm not a lesbian.

I don't have any reason, I just think we should respect other people's life choices.

talented321:
But you many at times support topics as such.. Can you give your reasons?

Means you don't mind your son been a gay?

Samantha124:
I don't have any reason, I just think we should respect other people's life choices.

Yes.

talented321:
Means you don't mind your son been a gay?

It's well...

Samantha124:
Yes.

Good night.

talented321:
It's well...

Flamemignon1:

First of all, it's a sexual attraction so it's not about who give whom what,I didn't choose to be attracted to men same way you didn't choose to be attracted to women, it's just is, I tried to get rid of it like a stain but the more I tried,the more it became stronger,it was so bad that I was sleeping with women everyday and every night just to see if I could change. If we are going into sex with whom,I can tell you that anal sex with a man is quite different from anal sex with a woman,I've had both and believe me,a man's ass has much more pressure than a woman's,you can research it if you want, it's natural making it better for anal sex than a woman's but nothing compares to the vagina though, it's naturally lubricated and it's tight but it can go as far as the anus.

Moreover, nobody can please you like the same sex which is true because they are literally you,they know the points in their body that turns you on and even how to make their genitals orgasm because it's their body too and to prove this fact,a study was done between gay men and straight men and also between lesbians and straight women,it was to find out who had better orgasms and lesbians came out on top because they are their fellow women,they know where to touch to give them pleasure and make their vaginas orgasm and in some cases squirt and gay men had better sex and orgasms than straight men which started with four play and ended with ejaculation,do you even know men squirt too? not to talk about the prostate orgasm which is in the ass and the orgasm is 8 times more intense than a normal penile orgasm,a lot of straight men don't know much about their own anatomy because they are off just pleasing women forgetting about other pleasures of their own bodies exists than just penile orgasm



I love your analogy but I think we are actually conflating two things here which are "normal" and "natural",the former is socially inclined while the latter is innate, everything you wrote in that excerpt falls under the normal plain not the natural field, it's natural for a straight man to feel sexually attracted to the women especially during the early stages of puberty,he's attracted to the opposite sex regardless of the woman's position in his life,incest was a normal thing in ancient times especially during the royals of Prussia now Germany,it was to keep bloodlines pure but on the normal plain, he knows he shouldn't harbour these feelings then those feelings turns into disgust as inbreeding is terrible especially if they have intentions of continuing their family


Normally I back off when it comes to religion but I will bite,the bolded should be most Abrahamaic religions not all religions which in itself resurrected from Zoroastrianism making it skeptical for historians to believe them as stand alone religions and homosexuality isn't abhorred in Hinduism,they even have a gender fluid god and even a third gender not to talk about confucianism, Buddhism, Sikhism that even okays same sex marriage

Also you mentioned China which homosexuality was as normal as heterosexuality before the west did what they do best , Ancient China even had a gay emperor who was in love with the commander of his army, it's even inspired a famous Chinese poem,the let go of western religions today but not their laws. Also,if you want to bring ancient Africa to the mix, Uganda had a gay king who even had boy wives before the west came and did what they do best and that's just Uganda


You are confusing your version of happiness for everyone's version of happiness, happiness is subjective and kids doesn't make everyone happy,my uncle and his wife are examples of this,married for 23 years(it will be 24 by December) with no kids,they never wanted kids as they are both professors and they love travelling the world and they are happier than ever. It's folks like you that guilt trips people to join the bandwagon to just push out kids with no future set for them, that's why we have kids who turn up to be nuisance of society and guess who those parents are, straight parents and besides have you heard of the term lavender marriage? It happened then and still happens now in homophobic countries, it's when a gay man marries a lesbian just to cover each other due to the judgemental and hateful society,if they wanted kids,they can have those with their lesbian sisters. Mind you,two men in a marriage are husbands,no one is dominant or submissive like a hetero marriage even hetero marriages are getting out of that stereotype,they are both men so no one is a wife and you should do more research because it's obvious you came to this argument without one,kids from same sex parents fare better than kids from opposite sex parents, that's a fact so it doesn't matter what sexuality the parents are,all that matters is they love and care for their kids because it's beginning to sound like you will love a kid to age out in an orphanage than be in a home with a love same sex couple


I did the bolded for years and it led to years and years of depression,I almost killed myself so if you know of any gay person you know personally who "converted" then tell me not the ones you have heard or seen whose journey you don't even know of and there's no problem, it's folks like you who keep telling us we are a problem making queer suicide rates go up,I hope you christians are proud of yourself


Now you muddled it all up, sex is different from sexual orientation,the former is an action while the latter is an attraction,two different things, anybody can have sex with anybody if they need to not because they want to,how do you think gay men who are still married to women do it? They think of men because sex starts from the mind before they can get erect,gay men sleep with women not because they like it but because they need it to cover their sexuality

You seem not to be interested to quit the lifestyle.
I just have another question for you before I leave the thread. This is just for educational purposes not for argument.

How does gay relationship work? Is it that only 1 person get penetrated all the time while the other person's ass is untouched or the 2 people involved get penetrated equally?

I ask because I heard that in a gay relationship one person still has to act as a woman in the relationship

Secondly, what happens to the anus in its ability to hold shit after penetrations? Since it is not designed for sex, is it not going to affect how the person poo?

Thirdly, I see men doing like women these days, some have attributed people like that to gays. Is this true?

Like I said, this is just for educational purpose not to condemn or argue with you. Thanks

Flamemignon1, without religion, man is nothing. You can't separate humans from religion. Anyone who is trying such is only wasting his/her time. Show me your religion and I will show you who you are.

Actually, you can't defend the abominable act of homosexuality. It is indefensible.

Kenn55:


You seem not to be interested to quit the lifestyle.
I just have another question for you before I leave the thread. This is just for educational purposes not for argument.

How does gay relationship work? Is it that only 1 person get penetrated all the time while the other person's ass is untouched or the 2 people involved get penetrated equally?

I ask because I heard that in a gay relationship one person still has to act as a woman in the relationship

Secondly, what happens to the anus in its ability to hold shit after penetrations? Since it is not designed for sex, is it not going to affect how the person poo?

Thirdly, I see men doing like women these days, some have attributed people like that to gays. Is this true?

Like I said, this is just for educational purpose not to condemn or argue with you. Thanks

First of all, it's not a lifestyle, it's a valid sexual orientation,do what you will with that

The bolded should be "how do gay sex work?" Because it's like you are conflating sex with relationship? I'm beginning to wonder if sex is the only reason why y'all get into relationships, it's no wonder most Nigerians don't know what love is. Gay sex isn't as rigid as it is in most straight sex, it's flexible, there are four roles and an allosexual gay person falls into of the following which are Top(who loves to only penetrate),Bottom(the one who loves to only get penetrated),Verse(someone who likes to penetrate and also get penetrated) and a side (someone who don't like to penetrate or get penetrated) but when two men are in a relationship together,they are mostly verse as the couple may want to try different things

Also, nobody is acting like a woman,women aren't the gatekeepers of feminity,some gay men act feminine,some are two masculine men in a relationship like my friends who are both in the military,one is the army and had 6 tours in Afghanistan and the other is a lieutenant in the navy,some can also be two feminine men in a relationship,I don't care to ask about who screws whom but if I were to guess,I will say they are both verse in the relationship both the masculine couple and the feminine couple so as you can see,you don't need one to be feminine or as you call it "a woman" when it comes to gay sex

What happens to the anus when it takes in a big dick is the same thing that happens to a vagina when it takes in a big dick with a huge girth,it expands,some vaginas has vaginasmus and some can get damaged based on the dick size,this also happens to the anus too so it's not limited to just the anus and no it doesn't affect how they poo be it male or female hence why water based lubricant is adviced

Thirdly,I think you should know that gender and sexuality are two different things,the former is a form self expression while the latter is who you are attracted to,two separate things, it's a reason why people are clamoring for the LGBTQ to be split up to LGB which are sexuality (whom you are attracted to) and TQ+ which is gender expression(whom you present to the world as man,woman,two spirit and non binary etc). Just because a man is feminine doesn't mean he's gay and just because a woman is masculine doesn't mean she's a lesbian,I have traveled the world and I have seen feminine straight men like Prince and Dennis Rodman and masculine gay men so No, gender has no prerogative to play on human sexuality, I'm a very masculine man,into sports and what not,if you see me,you won't even know I'm gay until you ask me. Also most masculine bisexual men are attracted to feminine men because they they are bisexual so if they want to date a man,they want that man to possess that femininity that a woman has

Flamemignon1, are you a Nigerian?

elated177:
Flamemignon1, are you a Nigerian?

Born and bred but don't leave there

Flamemignon1, do you have mother?

elated177:
Flamemignon1, do you have mother?

Yea but not legally

Flamemignon1, how do you mean "not legally"? You dad didn't marry your mum?

Flamemignon1:

Out of all the handsome men, it's a woman you are sexually attracted to.... that's literally how you sound. Nobody chooses their sexuality, that's where your hate, ignorance and bigotry stems from

Yenyenyen, rubbish!

Samantha124:
But let's be honest here, even heterosexual couples tend to practice same sex acts as those that are normally done by homosexuals... They would finger each other and some would even do anal sex like those homosexuals.

So we just need to let some people live their lives the way they see fit and mind our own business.

no Way i will report anybody i catch practising homosexuality...disgusting

El Elohe Yahshrael!

1Sharon:
The more homophobic Nigerians are, the more it will keeping coming back to bite them.
You don't have to love gay people, but just tolerate them.
Legalise gay marriages and let them go about their business.

Or the more you'll keep seeing straight men/women being deceived into a loveless and sexless marriage by homosexual people trying to hide their sexuality.

Shaking my big head.
I'm guessing you won't mind if your kids swing both ways?

First of all, no one is born gay. Homosexuality like most sexual preferences is influenced from childhood or adolescence.
Besides, most gay and lesbian relationships are nothing but cheap imitations of hetero relationships. If you notice In most same sex relationships there is always the person who plays the role of the opposite sex.

I'm not against gay people but I wouldn't like any of my future kids to be one. Homosexuality is a defect, an anomaly to nature. Think about it, if homosexuality was a normalcy in the past as it is now the human race would almost be extinct today.There is a reason why the masculine is attracted to feminine and vice versa, spiritually and naturally. Now gay people have always existed throughout history but they were extremely rare and found mostly amongst the upperclass who had the power to live wantonly as they desired.

If you notice, the number of gay/lesbian persons from the 20th to 21st century has increased, which brings me back to my first point - homosexuality is influenced.

The thing which disgusts me the most in the LGBTQ(more alphabets coming) society is the way they have rebranded homosexuality as "love". Homosexuality is about raw sex, not love. If love is love why can't adult have sex with a child or with his sister if he claims to have feelings for them? Why is incest, pedophilia and other deviant sexual behaviours punishable by the law ? These mindset of love is love came as a result of we heteros started equating love with sexual attraction.
The LGBTQ community must be scrutinized thoroughly because it could serve as a good hiding place for darker sexual degeneracies like pedophilia. We are already hearing cases of groomer culture and some are linked to the gay community.

And gay people, instead of trying to label anybody who doesn't understand you guys as homophobes just know that decades ago most of you guys would have been seen as a case of mental retardation, because what a man finds sexually enticing in another man's body is yet to be fathomed to this day. Heterosexuality would always remain dominant sexuality .

Angel55555:

Shaking my big head.
I'm guessing you won't mind if your kids swing both ways?

How did you derive that from my comment?

1Sharon:


How did you derive that from my comment?

Its a question, ma'am.

Rukevwe999:
First of all, no one is born gay. Homosexuality like most sexual preferences is influenced from childhood or adolescence.
Besides, most gay and lesbian relationships are nothing but cheap imitations of hetero relationships. If you notice In most same sex relationships there is always the person who plays the role of the opposite sex.

I'm not against gay people but I wouldn't like any of my future kids to be one. Homosexuality is a defect, an anomaly to nature. Think about it, if homosexuality was a normalcy in the past as it is now the human race would almost be extinct today.There is a reason why the masculine is attracted to feminine and vice versa, spiritually and naturally. Now gay people have always existed throughout history but they were extremely rare and found mostly amongst the upperclass who had the power to live wantonly as they desired.

If you notice, the number of gay/lesbian persons from the 20th to 21st century has increased, which brings me back to my first point - homosexuality is influenced.

The thing which disgusts me the most in the LGBTQ(more alphabets coming) society is the way they have rebranded homosexuality as "love". Homosexuality is about raw sex, not love. If love is love why can't adult have sex with a child or with his sister if he claims to have feelings for them? Why is incest, pedophilia and other deviant sexual behaviours punishable by the law ? These mindset of love is love came as a result of we heteros started equating love with sexual attraction.
The LGBTQ community must be scrutinized thoroughly because it could serve as a good hiding place for darker sexual degeneracies like pedophilia. We are already hearing cases of groomer culture and some are linked to the gay community.

And gay people, instead of trying to label anybody who doesn't understand you guys as homophobes just know that decades ago most of you guys would have been seen as a case of mental retardation, because what a man finds sexually enticing in another man's body is yet to be fathomed to this day. Heterosexuality would always remain dominant sexuality .

Good grief,here we go again......... straightsplaining queerness never ends for you homophobes and you are an homophobe,you should be proud of it instead of saying it's a wrong label afterall it's Nigeria,so you will even be praised for being one. I could go on and on about the ignorance in this hate-filled piece but it's just funny now to watch y'all wallow in your ignorance

Moreover, there's nothing to explain especially in this century,my experiences aren't punchbags for you to punch whenever you want to. Also decades ago, killing of twins will be normal in some parts of the world and you being black or African will be seen as less than but ok, let's use that to justify hate

Flamemignon1:

Good grief,here we go again......... straightsplaining queerness never ends for you homophobes and you are an homophobe,you should be proud of it instead of saying it's a wrong label afterall it's Nigeria,so you will even be praised for being one. I could go on and on about the ignorance in this hate-filled piece but it's just funny now to watch y'all wallow in your ignorance

Moreover, there's nothing to explain especially in this century,my experiences aren't punchbags for you to punch whenever you want to. Also decades ago, killing of twins will be normal in some parts of the world and you being black or African will be seen as less than but ok, let's use that to justify hate

Damn...
If you guys were the government, anyone who doesn't agree with your views would be labelled an enemy of the State and sent to the gulags. That's the problem the West is now having with woke leftism and her kids, they've grown too imposing and label anyone who dares question their ideology as a bigot or a 'phobe, so it's not a Nigerian thing. Besides gay rights can't work in places like this now, because even upholding simple human rights is a struggle here.
Whatever you do in the bedroom with whom, as long as it's not a child or an animal, is not my business but stop shoving your beliefs unto people and be labeling it as "hate" when they are having a hard time accepting it.

Rukevwe999:

Damn...
If you guys were the government, anyone who doesn't agree with your views would be labelled an enemy of the State and sent to the gulags. That's the problem the West is now having with woke leftism and her kids, they've grown too imposing and label anyone who dares question their ideology as a bigot or a 'phobe, so it's not a Nigerian thing. Besides gay rights can't work in places like this now, because even upholding simple human rights is a struggle here.
Whatever you do in the bedroom with whom, as long as it's not a child or an animal, is not my business but stop shoving your beliefs unto people and be labeling it as "hate" when they are having a hard time accepting it.

Queer rights are human rights........for crying out loud,we are not trying to shove anything into your faces ,just get rid of the dumbass laws and allow us to live in peace because if you really didn't care about folks and their bedroom business,then the government wouldn't impose on queer people's bedroom activities

Moreover,dude it's ok to admit you are an homophobe,we get it,we won't crucify you the same way you did us back in the day,as long as you don't use your hate to vote on laws then it's ok

Flamemignon1:

I feel the same way you feel as a straight man when you see a naked man, nothing and yes I've had sex with women before. Infact I've slept with more women than men,I just thought I haven't found the right woman yet and it led to years and years of self hate and depression because I was sleeping with a sex that I have no sexual or romantic feelings for so I decided to get into conversion therapy (it's a camp where they think they can make gay men straight) and that was the full on definition of torture,I almost died because of the electrocution of my brain and my manhood,I finally left and It wasn't until I met my boyfriend and kissed a guy for the first time that I felt fireworks in a romantic and sexual way,now I'm happier than ever living my true self

The sight of a man kissing another man is definitely the most disgusting thing a person will ever witness!

Apt.

TolkowskyCut:


The sight of a man kissing another man is definitely the most disgusting thing a person will ever witness!

Learn to speak for yourself,gay people also find it disgusting when you kiss a woman, it's ok to find it disgusting, what's not ok is you venting hatred towards them

Flamemignon1:

Learn to speak for yourself,gay people also find it disgusting when you kiss a woman, it's ok to find it disgusting, what's not ok is you venting hatred towards them

It is perfectly normal to kiss a person of the opposite sex, anyone who has an issue with is is clearly sick in the head if he/she prefers to kiss a person of similar sex!

TolkowskyCut:


It is perfectly normal to kiss a person of the opposite sex, anyone who has an issue with is is clearly sick in the head if he/she prefers to kiss a person of similar sex!

Glad you said it's "normal" not "natural",two different things,it was also normal to kill twins but here we are today

Flamemignon1, two bearded, muscular men kissing each other is the disgusting thing.

Flamemignon1, if you do a diligent research, you will find out that your desire for sex with another man has a witchcraft or occultic origin.

No one engages in the abominable act of homosexuality with clear mind and eyes. The mind can be tampered with in one way or the other for it to crave things it is not supposed to crave. This is the specialty of the evil spirits.

TolkowskyCut, you shouldn't be contradicting yourself.

elated177:
Flamemignon1, two bearded, muscular men kissing each other is the disgusting thing.

Flamemignon1, if you do a diligent research, you will find out that your desire for sex with another man has a witchcraft or occultic origin.

No one engages in the abominable act of homosexuality with clear mind and eyes. The mind can be tampered with in one way or the other for it to crave things it is not supposed to crave. This is the specialty of the evil spirits.

You chose violence today oooo,lol