My ex owes me around 2M which I loaned her because she was in need of it to sort out her dad's burial.

Important/Potentially relevant points:
We live very far apart in separate countrie
She still lives with her mom, has a full-time job, earns good money, has plenty of savings and also some properties too, so she has more than enough to pay.
She is very likely taking a vacation to US next week , I got to know about this from her best friend whom I'm in good terms with
She lied to her parents about much of the relationship (how long we'd known each other, how serious it was, etc., I only discovered this later on)
I have friends living in her country (but not near her) who can make calls, mail things, etc.
I know her address, workplace, social media accounts, email addresses, phone number, ID cards/passport, and contact for one of her ex-friends (they no longer speak though).
She has acknowledged she should pay me back all the money I gave her (but never acknowledged the amount), but avoids all contact.
I have tried calling, texting, emailing , getting friends to call/text/email, adding her socials. even threatening to sue her.
All contact has been completely ignored, excluding her picking up the phone and confirming her name when a friend called her for me, she hung up and blocked as soon as the money was mentioned.
One friend threatened to tell her colleagues/boss/friends she is a thief, to make social media posts "outing" her, etc. All ignored.
I don't want to actually sue her, the costs involved with going to her country, lawyers fees, time off work, etc. just isn't worth it. Most of it was discussed IRL or on calls, so the best evidence I have is bank statements + one message from her saying she will pay back all the money I sent her.
I want suggestions for how to convince her to give back the money, as I'm running out of ideas, but can't stand the thought of her getting away with this. It's now 3 months since she disappeared. I'm thinking of hiring goons to beat her up .

Simp you go explain tire

You don carry your hard-earned cash go put for biebie bank abi?

One's you deposit money inside there,no withdrawal

Verdict, you money don go

This is how she and her friends will be sipping chivita juice with your money and be laughing you

Mugu

Sue her ass, breast and the whole human being her self

I think say na only 9ja girls dey run guys street....my man forget about it,she's a woman..... anything u do for a woman is waste... she's the bookies,while you're the gambler here..

EbolaTinubu:

Simp

You don carry your hard-earned cash go put for biebie bank abi?

One's you deposit money inside there,no withdrawal

Verdict, you money don go

so’pe o’ti lor 🥱

EbolaTinubu:

Simp

You don carry your hard-earned cash go put for biebie bank abi?

One's you deposit money inside there,no withdrawal

Verdict, you money don go

just imagine she’s somewhere and some how here seeing this and laffing like the first girl on this pic

This is crazy sha

Dem the borrow woman money?

my friend, you need help.

This is why African businesses fail


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U48DKuadQvI

debt and bankruptcy. May God help you.

Lol.... This one go lend woman wey u dey fvck money...... I mean, who does that...??

This is not witchcraft and u are not even naive.
U are just plain stvpid...

Even if the loan is 100million...inside her mind, without telling u....she don use am exchange for sex rounds weda present or past sex ...

. Otilo

Money wey don enter biabia bank ltd na him you want collect?

Incase you don't know, biabia bank is also called kpekus. In this bank, you can only deposit without withdrawal.

advanceDNA:
Lol.... This one go lend woman wey u dey fvck money...... I mean, who does that...??

This is not witchcraft and u are not even naive.
U are just plain stvpid...

Even if the loan is 100million...inside her mind, without telling u....she don use am exchange for sex rounds weda present or past sex ...

. Otilo

Omo na love

Once you love woman , you go must show say you love am

Purvan:


Omo na love

Once you love woman , you go must show say you love am

Noooo...if the love hook u ... Na dash u fit do even of na 10million... U fit mumu dash am....

But to lend....dem no dey lend woman wey do fvck money ......na scam.....
.una dey together seff..she no go pay back, let alone when una don break up..

I love the responses on this thread. I hope the OP gets the gist. The money is gone. Be wiser next time.
BTW, she has a good job, earns well, has landed property et al., why did u then need to "lend' her the money?

Otilo.. u sef how I go give woman 2M? If na man now, u go swear say u no get

omoh.........jst 4get say u borrow person money,bcus dat dn go.

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Purvan:


Omo na love

Once you love woman , you go must show say you love am

Call her out on social media and make sure her colleagues at work see it

Drop her details and info make we help you run am street.

If you lent her the money while you were on top of her then just forget about it

Explore the option of remote court. Ask around

Baba make goons go meet her, video her and threaten her small. Buy don't hurt her. She will do the needful.
She probably thinks you will forget the money until she starts getting visited by unknown men with with baseball bats just for show sha

https://www.nairaland.com/7855330/should-go-ahead-even-parents#126036148

Guys check the link above, the Op is a story teller

Bro...!! If I should be honest with you, just move on because that money is never going to come back, she's at advantage here even if you sue her, she will say the relative was transactional and she has paid you your money via sex in full...!!

Don't play, else you will learn the hard way...