Is it polite to ask for a man/woman's contact info in first meet?
If it is ok, how would you start?
If you have been asked about it and you do not want to tell, how will you refuse?

you are not specific here.
If it's biz,ask. >> exchange cards or write down
If its a complete stranger, no thanks>> Walk away as fast as I can
If its somebody am eyeing, well courtesy demands that I do so.>>get to know their names first, buy them coffee and pick it from there.

Now your last question is funny. If you don't fancy the person just tell them No, I do not share private contacts unless we have something going on.

Thank you Pendo

pendo89:

you are not specific here.
If it's biz,ask. >> exchange cards or write down
If its a complete stranger, no thanks>> Walk away as fast as I can
If its somebody am eyeing, well courtesy demands that I do so.>>get to know their names first, buy them coffee and pick it from there.

Now your last question is funny. If you don't fancy the person just tell them No, I do not share private contacts unless we have something going on.

. This is the right Advice for every Nigerian Girl and Woman. But the "desperate for relationship" hordes will never accept such a wise advice. They can even give their numbers to monkeys in a tuxedo.

i hate it wen ppl ask me for ma numba jst meetn me for d first tym especially strangers it gives ne d impression dat ur a desperado .it is wrong and impolite even selfish unless for business reasons

bekay911:

i hate it wen ppl ask me for ma numba jst meetn me for d first tym especially strangers it gives ne d impression dat your a desperado .it is wrong and impolite even selfish unless for business reasons

Wise decision.

OP,

Tell me what you needed to ask of if not a mean of communication?

Oh lawd! He got his internet connection again! Sighs.

bekay911:

i hate it wen ppl ask me for ma numba jst meetn me for d first tym especially strangers it gives ne d impression dat your a desperado .it is wrong and impolite even selfish unless for business reasons

Wrong? Impolite? Selfish?   Worrahell?

Why shouldn't they ask for your number if they want to?  

They randomly meet you in a random place; find you attractive; want to know more about you and ask for your phone number (because odds are they will never see you again).

What exactly is selfish and Impolite about that?

If you ain't "feeling" the guy, then you can choose not to give him your number, but if you are liking what you see then why the long thing?

Too much effizy jo abeg----  

Hey Chima . . U suck . . Missed you Love . . .U know wah?
I just feel like touching u right now babe . . .come on AIM . .got couple of things to ask

Awwww,

Babe mi.

I like this ur new picture ooo. So cute. Fyne gal no wrinkles  

@ Poster. Nothing wrong with asking, however it all depends on the "askee." What I'm saying is the askee would be the one to determine if this is an offensive request or not. I guess there's only one way to find out  

^^^ I wish you could see my face atm; I'm grinning from ear to ear. 

Tanks alot!

well, how matured u are will tell how u collet d numba. like d waffi guy can just pretend 2 b looking 4 his fone n might ask u 2 give him urs so he can flash it and that's all, d rest is left 4 u 2 ansa d call or not.

Orikinla:

Wise decision.

I bet sum dudes dont read d facial expression and body language n gestures of the people dey r askin der numbas. U dnt randomly meet a stranger and give dem ur numba all in d name of attraction
@ babe if na so ur effizy reach am sorry cos if u c 100 dudes cos u gbadu dem u give dem ur numba u neva c fear

I dunno about it being polite or not, but it's a turn off for some of us.

Many have been rejected for this reason.
I have to be really attracted to you at first sight not to say 'No' to your request.
There's time for everything. . . .After some Hi-s, smiles, meetings and repeated exchange of pleasantries, the time might just be right.

D-sense:

Hey Chima . . U suck  . . Missed you Love . . .U know wah?
I just feel like touching u right now babe . . .come on AIM . .got couple of things to ask

D-sense:

Hey Chima . . U suck . . Missed you Love . . .U know wah?
I just feel like touching u right now babe . . .come on AIM . .got couple of things to ask

Touching me? Oh lawd! Somebody help me! _{On there cussing you out.}

You know Koyoke and Jaybee are jealous men.

bekay911:


@ babe if na so your effizy reach am sorry cos if u c 100 dudes cos u gbadu dem u give dem your numba u neva c fear  

Mrs, Chima:

Touching me? Oh lawd! Somebody help me! _{On there cussing you out.}

You know Koyoke and Jaybee are jealous men.

A typical Alien

This isnt even a question of being rude/polite.my giving out my no on a first meet depends on who's asking and the style/method of asking.
we must have had at least a two minute convo in which i would have done my own lil assessment of your person.If i dig you and you sound sensible,you'll have it.
If i dont,then NO!