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Re: Husband Who Beat His Wife Kneels To Beg Her As She Insists On Leaving The Marria by Kobojunkie: 6:51pm On Nov 09, 2023
uuzba:
■ I didn't say he deserve's jail. He surely deserves divorce/separation from the woman. That one is clear.
■ As for jail, Let the woman make that opinion and decision.
■ Angry men are not angry for NO reason. The woman did something which she and the public always like to hide/ignore as if it never happened. She knows what she did. That's why I said, let the opinion and decision of jail/arrest be left to the woman herself to make.
1. Oh, he doesn't deserve to be jailed for committing a crime. He should instead be given divorce? So, if he had rendered her unconscious during the assault, we ought to simply offer him a divorce from her unconscious self? And, if another man comes by and pummels the same man in the same way, that man too does not deserve jail for that crime but should be released back into society where he can go on to commit more of the same crime. undecided

2. So even if the woman decides he should be punished for the assault against her, it should not be jail? undecided

3. So, we should consider the angry man's reason for committing a crime before we decide if he/she should be punished for said crime. A crime is not a crime at all? undecided

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Re: Husband Who Beat His Wife Kneels To Beg Her As She Insists On Leaving The Marria by uuzba(m): 6:55pm On Nov 09, 2023
Kobojunkie:
1. Oh, he doesn't deserve to be jailed for committing a crime. He should instead be given divorce? So, if he had rendered her unconscious during the assault, we ought to simply offer him a divorce from her unconscious self? And, if another man comes by and pummels the same man in the same way, that man too does not deserve jail for that crime but should be released back into society where he can go on to commit more of the same crime. undecided

2. So even if the woman decides [/b]he should be punished for the assault against her, it should not be jail? undecided

3. So, we should consider the angry man's reason for committing a crime before we decide if he/she should be punished for said crime. A crime is not a crime at all? undecided
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[b]SO IF HE HAD.


But this man did not.
You punish a person for the crime they commit. Not for the crime they COULD HAVE committed.
Leave the woman to take the decision, not yourself
Let the woman decide what it is.
All we can see here is a picture of a man who it is claimed, beat his wife. You don't have the details of the event.
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What you are trying to say here is that
1. A man gets angry at the wife >>> straight to Jail
2. A man shouted at the wife ->>> the same thing, Jail
3. A man slapped the wife - >>> jail.
4. A man woke up from sleep and started beating his wife - >> Jail.
5. A WOMAN PESTERED the hell out of a man. The man got angry and slapped her ->>> Jail for the man.
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You are pushing for same punishment for different crimes.
And I keep drawing the line.
All I can agree with is that the man definitely needs to separate/divorce the wife and not bother begging her again.
He is already broken and the marriage is ended.
Re: Husband Who Beat His Wife Kneels To Beg Her As She Insists On Leaving The Marria by Kobojunkie: 7:00pm On Nov 09, 2023
uuzba:
SO IF HE HAD. But this man did not. You punish a person for the crime they commit. Not for the crime they COULD HAVE committed. Leave the woman to take the decision, not yourself
Sure, leave the woman. But here is the problem. The woman did do it. She wanted to have him punished for the crime. However, according to her, the DPO essentially coarsed her into not doing so. So, she does acknowledge a crime had been committed against her even though she backtracked probably after threats were thrown her way by some other bullies. undecided

Anyways ... undecided
Re: Husband Who Beat His Wife Kneels To Beg Her As She Insists On Leaving The Marria by 1Sharon(f): 7:03pm On Nov 09, 2023
He will never stop. It's in his nature.
Re: Husband Who Beat His Wife Kneels To Beg Her As She Insists On Leaving The Marria by Exceed15: 7:07pm On Nov 09, 2023
uuzba:

The man is guilty of losing his temper and beating the woman.
But the woman is very guilty of raising the man's temper in the first place.
He should either separate or divorce the woman so he doesn't get tempted to lose his temper again.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UjQnha99sTY&pp=ygUTYmlsbCBidXJyIG5vIHJlYXNvbg%3D%3D

Hmm my brother I also see your point. May God deliver us from toxic relationship.

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Re: Husband Who Beat His Wife Kneels To Beg Her As She Insists On Leaving The Marria by uuzba(m): 7:07pm On Nov 09, 2023
Kobojunkie:
Sure, leave the woman. But here is the problem. The woman did do it. She wanted to have him punished for the crime. However, according to her, the DPO essentially coarsed her into not doing so. So, she does acknowledge a crime had been committed against her even though she backtracked probably after threats were thrown her way by some other bullies. undecided

Anyways ... undecided

So if there is a crime and Nigeria does not punish the man, Do you want to personally go and find the man and jail him?
The person upon whom the crime was commited has let it go.
Should the man now go and STILL lock himself up in prison despite that?
As I said.
He should divorce and go.
The marriage HAS ended.
Re: Husband Who Beat His Wife Kneels To Beg Her As She Insists On Leaving The Marria by Kobojunkie: 7:12pm On Nov 09, 2023
uuzba:
■ So if there is a crime and Nigeria does not punish the man, Do you want to personally go and find the man and jail him? The person upon whom the crime was commited has let it go. Should the man now go and STILL lock himself up in prison despite that? As I said. He should divorce and go. The marriage HAS ended.
Again, Sure, leave the woman. But here is the problem. The woman did do it. She wanted to have him punished for the crime. However, according to her, the DPO essentially coarsed her into not doing so. So, she does acknowledge a crime had been committed against her even though she backtracked probably after threats were thrown her way by some other bullies. undecided

A crime was committed. Nigerian isn't the one that didn't punish the criminal. Rather, another crime was committed by the DPOs to keep the first crime from being punished. So, the woman in question does acknowledge the crime committed against her and would have preferred the man be jailed, not given a slap on the wrist as you keep insisting. The end! undecided
Re: Husband Who Beat His Wife Kneels To Beg Her As She Insists On Leaving The Marria by uuzba(m): 7:27pm On Nov 09, 2023
Kobojunkie:
Again, Sure, leave the woman. But here is the problem. The woman did do it. She wanted to have him punished for the crime. However, according to her, the DPO essentially coarsed her into not doing so. So, she does acknowledge a crime had been committed against her even though she backtracked probably after threats were thrown her way by some other bullies. undecided

A crime was committed. Nigeria isn't the one that didn't punish the criminal. Rather, another crime was committed by the DPOs to keep the first crime from being punished. So, the woman in question does acknowledge the crime committed against her and would have preferred the man be jailed, not given a slap on the wrist as you keep insisting. The end! undecided
The woman acknowledges husband's crime. - Story on social media.
Now, the DPO also committed crime by threat etc... - Why is she not acknowledging that one and going to SUPREME COURT to still UN-FORGIVE the man, arrest him and arrest DPO as well?
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A matter has been left. You leave the matter as well.
Beating cases will always be like this.
You think you have the DEFINITE answer to the problem (send the man to jail INSTANTLY).
But you don't have the answer.
Let them just END the marriage.
She divorce him, he divorce her, they both divorce each other.
And HE should have done this long ago, when she 1st, 2nd, 3rd... time began annoying him.
instead of letting it get this bad and messy.
May God save us from messy relationship...
A woman that a man will carry all his money and toast, buy cloth, buy shoe, buy gift.
... THE SAME woman that man loved so much will annoy him to the extent that he will beat her without regret?
What happened?
The man is at fault. But the woman is also very much at fault as well and let us not hide that part.
Re: Husband Who Beat His Wife Kneels To Beg Her As She Insists On Leaving The Marria by edunaragold(f): 7:28pm On Nov 09, 2023
SultanOfPuna:
Women sef angry

If na to chop man money, una go dey shine teeth

But to Chop ordinary beating, dey hard una sad

Dey play in 3D grin grin grin

Make Dangote flog your mama 10 times a day
Your mama go dey prostrate for am 24 hours

Na poor man, wey no get SHISHI
Na them women dey quick leave

When you see the way women defend their rich husbands that beat them daily
You go understand why Devil was able to convince Eve to chop apple.
nice one bro,u wan kill me with laugh.
Re: Husband Who Beat His Wife Kneels To Beg Her As She Insists On Leaving The Marria by MrBroke(m): 7:40pm On Nov 09, 2023
Weak and stupid man for beating his wife, Simp fool for kneeling down to apologise grin. All ways he's a pussy
Re: Husband Who Beat His Wife Kneels To Beg Her As She Insists On Leaving The Marria by Fearyourcreator: 7:49pm On Nov 09, 2023
SultanOfPuna:
Women sef angry

If na to chop man money, una go dey shine teeth

But to Chop ordinary beating, dey hard una sad

Dey play in 3D grin grin grin

Make Dangote flog your mama 10 times a day
Your mama go dey prostrate for am 24 hours

Na poor man, wey no get SHISHI
Na them women dey quick leave

When you see the way women defend their rich husbands that beat them daily
You go understand why Devil was able to convince Eve to chop apple.
Lolzzz
Re: Husband Who Beat His Wife Kneels To Beg Her As She Insists On Leaving The Marria by Fearyourcreator: 7:50pm On Nov 09, 2023
BlackhatMentor:
He'll still beat her again.


I seriously wonder what motivates men to beat their wives... Maybe because I'm yet to get married sha.

I heard after a while marriage either brings out the beast in you or the Angel in you.


You'll either learn how to be extremely forgiving or be extremely aggressive or unforgiving
Marry first na ... just live with a woman small first
Re: Husband Who Beat His Wife Kneels To Beg Her As She Insists On Leaving The Marria by Charly68: 8:07pm On Nov 09, 2023
Violent men can't keep a woman under their roof.. the best bet is to separate more so if a woman is sharp mouthed ...the man is not in control of his anger and can't keep a woman under his roof.
Re: Husband Who Beat His Wife Kneels To Beg Her As She Insists On Leaving The Marria by spiceadole: 8:23pm On Nov 09, 2023
The woman is not ready to leave.

He beats you but you born 5 children.

Mumu ...
You really deserve to be beaten
Re: Husband Who Beat His Wife Kneels To Beg Her As She Insists On Leaving The Marria by Eyinju112(f): 10:01pm On Nov 09, 2023
🤣🤣🤣🤣. I just plait hair, Ano wan laugh , head Dey pain me 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
SultanOfPuna:
Women sef angry

If na to chop man money, una go dey shine teeth

But to Chop ordinary beating, dey hard una sad

Dey play in 3D grin grin grin

Make Dangote flog your mama 10 times a day
Your mama go dey prostrate for am 24 hours

Na poor man, wey no get SHISHI
Na them women dey quick leave

When you see the way women defend their rich husbands that beat them daily
You go understand why Devil was able to convince Eve to chop apple.
Re: Husband Who Beat His Wife Kneels To Beg Her As She Insists On Leaving The Marria by Eyinju112(f): 10:02pm On Nov 09, 2023
Fearyourcreator:

Marry first na ... just live with a woman small first

Another woman beater spotted🤣
Re: Husband Who Beat His Wife Kneels To Beg Her As She Insists On Leaving The Marria by Lastmankc(m): 10:11pm On Nov 09, 2023
uuzba:

That's the main thing.
Men expect their wife to be submissive. Once she is not, the man is tempted to beat.
Some will beat, others will not.
But in any case, the man will be sad for his actions.
The woman that was displaying strong head, will display it again!! And tempt the man Again.
So It's better the man just leave her. She will not change and he too will not change.
Leave her,you never jam .There are some women,that when you want to leave they we even lock the door so that you won't leave.
Re: Husband Who Beat His Wife Kneels To Beg Her As She Insists On Leaving The Marria by doneback04: 10:24pm On Nov 09, 2023
[quote author=Doxy1 post=126874670]
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5oNjcqDR7_8?si=NAVhrF-6TVN1WeuP

A husband who beat up his wife has apologised to her as she insists on leaving him.

The wife, a mother-of-five, cried out that she has been suffering abuse for the 11 years she has been married to her husband. She then called for help from Nigerians.

However, speaking following the incident, the battered wife said she was intimidated by the DPO.

She claimed the DPO silenced her and told her she must go and live with her husband[/quote



Find Way and open one side of her pant and plug your antenna and she will calm down and forget about going
Re: Husband Who Beat His Wife Kneels To Beg Her As She Insists On Leaving The Marria by kkins25(m): 12:06am On Nov 10, 2023
11 years? she dey try oh! Five kids----- ooops, sounds like my family... lipsrsealed lipsrsealed lipsrsealed
Re: Husband Who Beat His Wife Kneels To Beg Her As She Insists On Leaving The Marria by delpee(f): 12:16am On Nov 10, 2023
Karemarealty288:
Madam.....pls tune into a radio programm by Relationship expert Barr Olumide Maculy on Naija info Fm on satuday 7am. Get his contacts and report to him. You will get help and proper counselling.

True. A good place to learn from other people's experiences too.
Re: Husband Who Beat His Wife Kneels To Beg Her As She Insists On Leaving The Marria by delpee(f): 12:19am On Nov 10, 2023
[quote author=doneback04 post=126884105][/quote]

I feel scared for this woman...
Men like this rarely change. Osinachi comes to mind. sad
Re: Husband Who Beat His Wife Kneels To Beg Her As She Insists On Leaving The Marria by uuzba(m): 4:50am On Nov 10, 2023
Lastmankc:
Leave her,you never jam .There are some women,that when you want to leave they we even lock the door so that you won't leave.
Then the man must stand his ground. That one has changed to kidnapping.
It's always a sad case for husband and wife matter to leave their private house and escape to the public/social media. Amebo people will always blame the man for everything
Re: Husband Who Beat His Wife Kneels To Beg Her As She Insists On Leaving The Marria by BALLOSKI: 5:46am On Nov 10, 2023
She has begged on behalf of her husband. She doesn't like herself.
Re: Husband Who Beat His Wife Kneels To Beg Her As She Insists On Leaving The Marria by BALLOSKI: 5:49am On Nov 10, 2023
Who come de record her na? "Speak igbo, speak igbo, she's not hearing English" lol

DPO forced her? She's not serious.
Re: Husband Who Beat His Wife Kneels To Beg Her As She Insists On Leaving The Marria by Fearyourcreator: 7:09am On Nov 10, 2023
Eyinju112:


Another woman beater spotted🤣
I dey flog woman with razor mouth , if your mama no train you I go beat respect into your body ... useless and manner woman
Re: Husband Who Beat His Wife Kneels To Beg Her As She Insists On Leaving The Marria by Oxfordgrade: 1:01pm On Nov 10, 2023
SultanOfPuna:
Women sef angry

If na to chop man money, una go dey shine teeth

But to Chop ordinary beating, dey hard una sad

Dey play in 3D grin grin grin

Make Dangote flog your mama 10 times a day
Your mama go dey prostrate for am 24 hours

Na poor man, wey no get SHISHI
Na them women dey quick leave

When you see the way women defend their rich husbands that beat them daily
You go understand why Devil was able to convince Eve to chop apple.
God bless you sir for the truth
Re: Husband Who Beat His Wife Kneels To Beg Her As She Insists On Leaving The Marria by armadeo(m): 5:41pm On Nov 10, 2023
You know your level when DPO get mouth for your marriage counselling .....
Re: Husband Who Beat His Wife Kneels To Beg Her As She Insists On Leaving The Marria by Marynwachukwu21(f): 11:25am On Nov 12, 2023
Doxy1:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5oNjcqDR7_8?si=NAVhrF-6TVN1WeuP

A husband who beat up his wife has apologised to her as she insists on leaving him.

The wife, a mother-of-five, cried out that she has been suffering abuse for the 11 years she has been married to her husband. She then called for help from Nigerians.

However, speaking following the incident, the battered wife said she was intimidated by the DPO.

She claimed the DPO silenced her and told her she must go and live with her husband
He's apologizing pretending to be a changed husband but once the wife accepts the apology the beast in him will rise.Never trust such man

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