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How Ladies Unintentionally Destroy Guys - Testimony From A Woman by stellahamechi: 2:30pm On Nov 17, 2023
As you know yansh have mislead many men to their doom. You should know that the potential for a woman to destroy a man is same as their potential to elevate a man to greater height, albert einstein, henry ford, and many other great men were driven by the desire or love of a woman, same as the fall of many great men aswell like samson and solomon or the your favorites in the entertainment industry , a woman can either break you or multiply whatever you have, the choice is yours.

We Ladies have this inner knowing that all men want their pimpim to end up in our pompom, It is biological, so we count on the fact that we have a pompom to guarantee attraction in the first place, face, personality, IQ and all those other things can be found in a man, the Pompom is the ultimate biological attraction. We naturally want to make men feel more successful by submitting to them, but because we know other women might win you over, no woman wants to waste their submission to lift up a man that will leave eventually, it is heart shattering.

I have friends who consciously lead men on only to sabotage them, some build up desire in you only to kill your ego, some torment you psychologically till you are broken down, because this is what all women know, we know that there are many more women out there also attracting you, and no woman wants to be left for another woman for any reason, even the ugliest of us all wants to be the only Queen in your life, so out of fear of being left for another woman, women sometimes ensure you leave empty, sad, depressed, regretful, tormented, fearful, cursed at worse so that you become an assignment for the next woman to work on thats if she wants to carry all that problem to solve, well most men seem to have their way around this and it is very simple, options, women hate when a man has so many options for everything, we love when you have so many options to please us, but if your option will put the lady out of the picture, we are weak around it, so we fight to reduce those options by taking away those things that makes you attractive in the open market by getting you to marry or commit, some ladies go as far as having a child for you because they know that there are few classy women of your spec who want to deal with another woman's child except you are Ned Nwoko.

Men who have options, you can not always win with them, when you want to take away their peace of mind, another woman is busy telling him all the sweetest things he is missing from you, when you want to crush his Ego, another woman is busy worshiping him and making him feel like the alpha, when you want deny him pompom, you re indirectly giving him 3 pompoms from diverse cultures and traditions out there, biologically men who have multiple options fail to bond seriously with any one woman so it is more difficult to use oxytocin to tie them down, even your career prospect is not that attractive to them when you have bad attitude they see it as feminism, But luckily for us all, not all men have the time to keep many women nor the resources to manage them, nor the confidence to put a woman in her place and say no to her bad attitudes and silly requests, the men who have the time are about 9% out of 100% of men, but the men that women have wrecked are so much out there and it is very easy to know a guy that is not talking with multiple women, can't say no to yansh, or have been drained by another woman, it is like a mark on their forehead.

So what is the solution for men, Simply focus and leave women out of your life for atleast one year, that year will allow you to build momentum and drive towards your own self, it is harder to derail a man who has laser focus on what he is doing, not impossible, just hard infact we want to do more good things for such men, while some men have mastered how to still focus and have their way with the opposite sex and not get caught up in it which is more superior and attracitve to us, But here i am going to give you a solution you never knew existed.

The only part of this transaction between the opposite sex that have been merchandised is the sex part through prostitution and modern hook-up agents. But this part is never enough and is very dangerous, every man still needs that taste submissiveness from a woman, that encouragement and periodic praise and worship to the king, they need opportunities to say no to women and get very used to it disciplining their strange desires and requests, So i have come again to offer you these services.

Because of technology you can now book a female to;

1. Roleplay as your babe over the phone and tell you very exquisite things for a king after you have had a rough day at work, before you sleep, she can even sing for you and pamper you over the phone in the most submissive way possible

2. Help you build confidence to say no to women by roleplaying as your babe and making all manner of requests in the most manipulative way possible, just for you to feel good about saying no to all of them, by the time you practice this with 10 different females, saying no to women will become a natural thing for you

3. To simply discuss with you, talk life, entertainment, work etc, that way you don't forget how build your socialization game, unfornately if you are in a relationship and you keep booking these, your real babe is not going to be happy with you

4. Help you reduce your Konji by saying the right things or even ministering the gospel to you so you do not end up making mistakes with the wrong women, there are church girls on the site too as much as bad ones

5. To be the one to wake you up with a poem or words of affirmations or prayers of success giving you the boost and drive you need to go out and conquer that day




Where can you book this service - Https://speak4me.ng

Go to custom template and choose female speaker, describe what you want and different kinds of women on the platform will rush to your service.


For me I find this safer (for both men and women) and cheaper than keeping multiple people you end you sleeping with and spending so much on, Unfortunately most modern women will never give you any of these special treatments, they will only seek ways to take as much as they want before another woman does, meanwhile some of us as ready to help build you up with the power of a woman's words, and when you continue to use it and get used to it, it becomes your normal standard for any real woman who wants you, they would need to follow the pattern of what you have been receiving from female speakers on speak4me.ng

To book me in particular add (stella101) to your instruction while booking. Thank you Naira land.

Disclaimer - The site is not what this is about, but i see you can use the custom template to design any service you want and i am brining this to the notice of both men and women on naira land, don't go and spoil your marriage and relationship with it, it is for the younger ones who are constantly exposed this new reality we have found ourselves in.

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Re: How Ladies Unintentionally Destroy Guys - Testimony From A Woman by Drogba99: 2:41pm On Nov 17, 2023
Interesting read

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Re: How Ladies Unintentionally Destroy Guys - Testimony From A Woman by AdamuKD: 2:42pm On Nov 17, 2023
Please, how can I unread this epistle?

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Re: How Ladies Unintentionally Destroy Guys - Testimony From A Woman by teewhyhomes: 5:32pm On Nov 17, 2023
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Re: How Ladies Unintentionally Destroy Guys - Testimony From A Woman by thesicilian: 5:48pm On Nov 17, 2023
Drogba99:
Interesting read
Indeed

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Re: How Ladies Unintentionally Destroy Guys - Testimony From A Woman by BOSSkesh(m): 7:27pm On Nov 17, 2023
Very interesting
It is true that not all men have the discipline to say no
Having the courage to say no have to be a difficult task

See as a man it is your duty to “check” immediately the excesses of your woman, if not you’ll be with a woman who doesn’t rate you at all
Stamp your foot down and lay the rules, you are men goddamit

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Re: How Ladies Unintentionally Destroy Guys - Testimony From A Woman by Emma513: 8:08pm On Nov 17, 2023
SOMEONE SHOULD PLEASE SUMMURIZED cool

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Re: How Ladies Unintentionally Destroy Guys - Testimony From A Woman by luminouz(m): 8:34pm On Nov 17, 2023
Nice read but sounds like an advert

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Re: How Ladies Unintentionally Destroy Guys - Testimony From A Woman by luminouz(m): 8:35pm On Nov 17, 2023
BOSSkesh:
Very interesting
It is true that not all men have the discipline to say no
Having the courage to say no have to be a difficult task

See as a man it is your duty to “check” immediately the excesses of your woman, if not you’ll be with a woman who doesn’t rate you at all
Stamp your foot down and lay the rules, you are men goddamit

Eggzactly!!!

When you don't set boundaries, you lose terribly and be taken for granted. You are the King, behave like one!!

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Re: How Ladies Unintentionally Destroy Guys - Testimony From A Woman by bukatyne(f): 9:34pm On Nov 17, 2023
Omo, this advert na baba.

Aje a wa o.
Re: How Ladies Unintentionally Destroy Guys - Testimony From A Woman by Brandiebird: 9:41pm On Nov 17, 2023
All this grammar to advertise “phone intimacy” and phone calls? Probably escort services too… wow! Simps are really suffering in this life. Everybody wants to make money from weak men.
Re: How Ladies Unintentionally Destroy Guys - Testimony From A Woman by SyrusdeHansome(m): 9:57pm On Nov 17, 2023
Too long. I'm too lazy to read anything that's this long.
Re: How Ladies Unintentionally Destroy Guys - Testimony From A Woman by Gadafii: 11:23pm On Nov 17, 2023
The bottom line is that as a man you must have multiple options in women, income, entertainment, life etc

Women are naturally interested in men who are desired or have multiple women around them, but being a man is never getting caught in this web

One thing I never did was attract girls with money, I am as plain, genuine and real as iam , you either accept me the way I am or you gdf, there are 1001 options out there

Mostly importantly, make money to upgrade yourself as a man,(work out, learn skills, travel, socialize, go to concerts and shows, visit countries etc)

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Re: How Ladies Unintentionally Destroy Guys - Testimony From A Woman by CJStarz: 1:41am On Nov 18, 2023
Nnaa ehhhh!
Abeg make anyone wey get strength read d whole thing help me summarize.
One fit faint after reading the whole story on an empty stomach.
Re: How Ladies Unintentionally Destroy Guys - Testimony From A Woman by emmaodet: 3:40am On Nov 18, 2023
Gadafii:
The bottom line is that as a man you must have multiple options in women, income, entertainment, life etc

Women are naturally interested in men who are desired or have multiple women around them, but being a man is never getting caught in this web

One thing I never did was attract girls with money, I am as plain, genuine and real as iam , you either accept me the way I am or you gdf, there are 1001 options out there

Mostly importantly, make money to upgrade yourself as a man,(work out, learn skills, travel, socialize, go to concerts and shows, visit countries etc)

You know, your last paragraph dey always burst my brain.
You are someone that has taste and good view about life.
I think we share the same mentality.
People are so caged to their local relationship with closeby ladies while they miss out on the bigger picture.
Go to cinemas, register with a good big gym center with a pool, go on regular vacations even if it is within Nigeria. There are groups doing that and have met many ladies through these gatherings.etc
Life is very sweet but many just limit it to just getting an apartment, buying a small car and then going on banging spree with virtually anything they sight with skirts.
Life is far more than than if you know your onions.

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Re: How Ladies Unintentionally Destroy Guys - Testimony From A Woman by Gadafii: 4:41am On Nov 18, 2023
emmaodet:


You know, your last paragraph dey always burst my brain.
You are someone that has taste and good view about life.
I think we share the same mentality.
People are so caged to their local relationship with closeby ladies while they miss out on the bigger picture.
Go to cinemas, register with a good big gym center with a pool, go on regular vacations even if it is within Nigeria. There are groups doing that and have met many ladies through these gatherings.etc
Life is very sweet but many just limit it to just getting an apartment, buying a small car and then going on banging spree with virtually anything they sight with skirts.
Life is far more than than if you know your onions.
we definitely do have the same mentality, I have gotten the point I am not just goin to lay any girl just because she has pusse, they all do

But she needs to have sophistication, class, ambition, career etc, she has to be able to do one thing for her self without a man, even if the man is still going to support her


If you are coming into my life thinking pusse is all you got, Dey play oo

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Re: How Ladies Unintentionally Destroy Guys - Testimony From A Woman by Bbqekpa: 5:00am On Nov 18, 2023
Is there sexx call? And how can one top balance

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Re: How Ladies Unintentionally Destroy Guys - Testimony From A Woman by Omoawoke2(m): 6:56am On Nov 18, 2023
The op is right

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Re: How Ladies Unintentionally Destroy Guys - Testimony From A Woman by Atolu01: 9:40am On Nov 18, 2023
Isn't it the other way around? Repulsive egotistic lots.

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Re: How Ladies Unintentionally Destroy Guys - Testimony From A Woman by stellahamechi: 1:58pm On Nov 18, 2023
Bbqekpa:
Is there sexx call? And how can one top balance

LOL i'm sure if you book many girls on the platform will still rush, so try and see, i have not been booked for such yet before you fall inlove and bond with me by mistake. Go to your wallet to topup
Re: How Ladies Unintentionally Destroy Guys - Testimony From A Woman by stellahamechi: 1:59pm On Nov 18, 2023
Atolu01:
Isn't it the other way around? Repulsive egotistic lots.

How do you mean
Re: How Ladies Unintentionally Destroy Guys - Testimony From A Woman by michealon2001: 3:11pm On Nov 18, 2023
in this whole universe there is no woman that can be this smart and intelligent to do this,i guess this a movie script or so cos the intelligent of a woman is 25p over 100

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Re: How Ladies Unintentionally Destroy Guys - Testimony From A Woman by Atolu01: 4:31pm On Nov 18, 2023
stellahamechi:
How do you mean

stellahamechi:
I have friends who consciously lead men on only to sabotage them, some build up desire in you only to kill your ego, some torment you psychologically till you are broken down, because this is what all women know, we know that there are many more women out there also attracting you, and no woman wants to be left for another woman for any reason, even the ugliest of us all wants to be the only Queen in your life, so out of fear of being left for another woman, women sometimes ensure you leave empty, sad, depressed, regretful, tormented, fearful, cursed at worse so that you become an assignment for the next woman to work on thats if she wants to carry all that problem to solve, well most men seem to have their way around this and it is very simple, options, women hate when a man has so many options for everything,


It's men that do it to women.
Re: How Ladies Unintentionally Destroy Guys - Testimony From A Woman by Bbqekpa: 5:38pm On Nov 18, 2023
stellahamechi:


LOL i'm sure if you book many girls on the platform will still rush, so try and see, i have not been booked for such yet before you fall inlove and bond with me by mistake. Go to your wallet to topup


LoL it's you I'll book just watchout

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Re: How Ladies Unintentionally Destroy Guys - Testimony From A Woman by Silentgroper(m): 7:28am On Nov 19, 2023
BOSSkesh:
Very interesting
It is true that not all men have the discipline to say no
Having the courage to say no have to be a difficult task

See as a man it is your duty to “check” immediately the excesses of your woman, if not you’ll be with a woman who doesn’t rate you at all
Stamp your foot down and lay the rules, you are men goddamit
saying no is the easiest part . The manipulation that comes on later when they start calling you stingy is the that will hit you the more ... At some point you 'd start saying yes to every it their request because you want to prove them wrong so bad that you're not a stingy person ...


The solution here is DONT GIVE A SHITT ..

It'll pass later on but only give (HELP) them when it matters i.e when she really needs that help direly... That usually shuts them up ...

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Re: How Ladies Unintentionally Destroy Guys - Testimony From A Woman by Silentgroper(m): 7:33am On Nov 19, 2023
stellahamechi:


LOL i'm sure if you book many girls on the platform will still rush, so try and see, i have not been booked for such yet before you fall inlove and bond with me by mistake. Go to your wallet to topup


Who says the reverse cant happen

😋😋😋

By the way you, you just got a competitor..

Registered as a speaker already..

😋😋😋

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Re: How Ladies Unintentionally Destroy Guys - Testimony From A Woman by Joseph099(m): 7:50am On Nov 19, 2023
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Re: How Ladies Unintentionally Destroy Guys - Testimony From A Woman by stellahamechi: 12:06pm On Nov 19, 2023
Silentgroper:


Who says the reverse cant happen

😋😋😋

By the way you, you just got a competitor..

Registered as a speaker already..

😋😋😋

This one your username here is slientgroper, what skills did you choose there? grin grin grin
Re: How Ladies Unintentionally Destroy Guys - Testimony From A Woman by stellahamechi: 12:08pm On Nov 19, 2023
michealon2001:
in this whole universe there is no woman that can be this smart and intelligent to do this,i guess this a movie script or so cos the intelligent of a woman is 25p over 100

Are you not a misogynist like this? Women can surprise you, especially the ones that grew without fathers
Re: How Ladies Unintentionally Destroy Guys - Testimony From A Woman by stellahamechi: 12:09pm On Nov 19, 2023
Bbqekpa:



LoL it's you I'll book just watchout

Are you the Jude900 that booked me last night for moaning? I just declined and pushed to another speaker No vex grin grin grin grin

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Re: How Ladies Unintentionally Destroy Guys - Testimony From A Woman by Bbqekpa: 12:39pm On Nov 19, 2023
stellahamechi:


Are you the Jude900 that booked me last night for moaning? I just declined and pushed to another speaker No vex grin grin grin grin


Hmmm.... E b like say na Christian speaker u be o... Serious na. Its u I want

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