You left your husband because he was cheating.

You have a kid or two.

So you divorced because you were so pained.

You left.

With the kids.

You started working hard to cater for your needs. You work so hard, but it isn't enough.

To meet up with the growing economic demands, you find a wealthy man. He is rich. You dont care. You need to pay fees for your kids as a strong, independent woman. You need to prove that it can be done. So you're dating a wealthy married man.
You are now a side chic.

Then, you begin to think of the side chics your husband has and why he has them.

You do not even question the morality. You begin to understand why. Maybe they've got kids too. Mouths to feed, life to live.

It doesn't make sense still.

So you call the married man when he is home, and he hides to shout at you for wanting to disturb his peace with his "wife" as you ought to know when he is home.

You think of your hurts.

You think of your consolation.

At least you had a husband who was fully yours. He cheats, but he was fully yours.

So you attempt to find out what is going on with him now, but he is married again to a younger woman.

After you make contact, he comes to visit you and the kids. He drops some money once a while. The new wife is in charge now...

You connect on old times. You even had sex.

He leaves to his house to his wife. You're now dating two married men. Both of them are cheating on their wives.

And then you say life wasn't fair to you.

As bad as this may sound, it happens. It is the reality of our time.

Wise people learn from the mistakes of others.

Don't leave ur peaceful abode (marriage) because he cheats.

It rains every where.

Advice!!!✍🏼

Princess Adenike Temmy

Don't leave ur peaceful abode (marriage) because he cheats.

Wrong.

If you must cheat, don't get caught. When there's a "caught", the aggrieved party reserves the right to discontinue the union.

No one deserves to be in a union where there's no peace.

This is the most sensible post I have come across for a very long time in this forum.

Whether you like it or not, it's men's world and there is nothing you can do about it.

That your husband that you are disrespecting and abusing anyhow, another beautiful and younger lady is eyeing and worshiping him.

And immediately you do shakara say you dey leave your husband, before you reason say you don commit blunder and wants to return, your husband don OTILO

THIS WAS WHAT HAPPENED TO MY EX WIFE. NOW, I AM HAPPILY MARRIED TO A WONDERFUL LADY THAT IS MORE BEAUTIFUL,AND YOUNGER THAN SHE WITH A BOUNCING BABY BOY THAT WILL CLOCK ONE THIS DECEMBER

This post makes it to Nairaland every year.

But what if people just stay faithful to their partners?

owiko:
But what if people just stay faithful to their partners?

Lol that's never going to happen