@ bolded, do u mean pretty, intelligent or pretty intelligent. I will accept the former but not the latter  

@green, u'r getting thins wrong. what males are u talkn about? d male who has d strongest influence on my[b] life is my father[/b] and He isnt evn aware of what am doing here(or so I thnk) nor is he friends wv m on Fb despite being away from home. He lets me be(trusts me to make d right decisions)

Now, d next time u talk about male dominance to me, I might get really offended.  u'r implying I cant think for myself nd dat makes u sound like a chauvinist.

am d way I am out of conviction. Stop talking centuries to me. whatever success u'r claiming as emerged in ds century started wv d pple u'r calln old skool. they were evn stronger, more hardworkn, et al.

deols:

Am sure uv bn told d "acclaimed jihadists" get it wrong. No muslim shld be doing jungle justice as is happening today. The wars fought by the prophet and the rightly guided caliphs were truly it.

As regards d virgins of paradise- of cos they'll be dr but I avnt read d tafsir of those verses and am yet to actually read of the 72 u all claim(some Muslims say it is a weak hadith-if u know wat dat means). Until then my lips are sealed. But i just told u above dat paradise is where u av all u want. I bet every woman will get their satisfaction too, whichever way it happens.

*am not a muslim who claims to know it all*- i hope u can imbibe dat attitude too rather than saying wat u hear others say without confirming them.
Allahu a'lam

Hmm, okay, you will accept pretty but not intelligent, beats me  

I can only say what I see. Most of the muslim women I meet in the UK are of  Pakistan origin. They look depressed with their control freak husbands micro-managing every detail of their lives.

These are the true muslims, are they not  

Hmm, how can you shut yourself from the real world with a Hijab and call that civilisation.

Anyway each man to his own.

Enjoy yourself  

i have been told and i have seen a lot of stuffs concerning that. matter of fact, i learnt the greatest jihad is in the heart/conscience. but then where are the imams to correct these "acclaimed jihadists"?

ok then!
but when you get to that part in the tafsir - please drop a feedback here.
i seek knowledge - always!

i imbibe the attitude but then you cannot completely ignore what you see/hear. it's like being pulled in 2 opposite directions.
on one hand i have been told it's wrong to kill innocent people with the excuse of jihad and on the other hand i have seen people get killed because it's allowed to kill infidels for Allah. so which is which?

coogar:

verbal weeping for coogar?
me, my dad and my grand-dad and 10 generations before my grand-dad are not enough. you want a verbal war - bring it.
nor be today i dey eat invertebrates like worms for lunch. by the time veda is through with me, i will buy your quran and sell a bible!

coogar:

i am the homoerotic peasant who cops [i]e[/i]rections from twisting scriptural verses.
i should also ask toba how veda reign supreme in this habitat. I will need my entire lineage to joust verbs with veda. veda will create semse for me, smoke me ash and get high!

coogar:

they went against islamic principles? I am a pasty cuntbucket!
who went against islamic principles? everything they recited before the crash was lifted from the quran.

coogar:

matter of factly, they shouted allah akbar till they crashed!

coogar:

i expect this question from a stark illiterate like myself. I probably know cougar only as women interested in boys.

cougar is a panther/mountain lion(first) - a large carnivore who eats herbs like you for lunch. it's not my business if middle-aged women who fancies little boys used the name to advertise themselves. the ethos behind the username is flesh-eating! coogar is a man!
so grab a book!

coogar:

i am genuinely concerned, please.

coogar:

i know a muslim woman without sin will get to paradise.
but what incentive do women who maim infidels get in heaven? do they just go to paradise like the other women who never have to kill or do they get special bonus like the male jihadists?

vedaxcool:

, when would she-he stop insulting him-herself? All because JEsus said leave your wife for my sake and I will replace her with a 100, I opened this gender confused snail to the 100 fold promise of Jesus and all she can do is insult herself . . .
again here is Cougar showing her low morals

Prove the second claim or be labelled a liar like you boss fraudbel

No proof means you are a liar, this is the second time I will be hearing this sort of nonesense thinking comin from a Gendr confused snail it does not surprise me at all, but I have heard the not to intelligent atheist mazaje say something similar, wht if they chanted ALlahu akbar till they crash, I have heard people say Jesus christ even in toilets, when about having a serious accident etc what does that mean . . . but occupying a low mental spectrum does produce low thoughts the Gender confused snail has above . , .

after you, but while at it spell cougar well cause yours is spelt wrongly and yeah while doing so maybe you should undergo some training is coherent thinking, cause your thoughts seems por*n ridden

The condition listed before still counts, Muslims do not kill infidels except when they need to defend themselves, Like Gorge Bush crusade in Iraq, you won't expect any sane rational human being to wait to be killed, but what do you know about honor . . . .

aurenflani:

the question can fairly be asked of christian women too as many of them are also living in polygamous family

a lot of christians are polygamous even in the usa

so don't come here pretending to us thinking that your proslytizing to draw muslim women to your fold.

when it comes to immorality, christians are the first to be confronted with your pastors and bishops living in Same-sex matrimony.

your revend fathers with their teenage boys and nigerian pastors dying and their multiple whores and bastard kids showing up at their funerals.

you eat pig described in your bible as unclean

your uncircumsized brethrens,

Abu Huraira reported Allah's Messenger as saying: By Him in Whose Hand is my life, when a man calls his wife to his bed, and she does not respond, the One Who is in the heaven is displeased with her until he (her husband) is pleased with her. Sahih Muslim, Book 008, Number 3367:

Abu Huraira reported Allah's Messenger as saying: When a man invites his wife to his bed and she does not come, and he (the husband) spends the night being angry with her, the angels curse her until morning. Sahih Muslim, Book 008, Number 3368

I believe what the Glorious Book should have laid emphases on is Discipline and it shouldn't have encouraged polygamy for any so call reasons at all, saying that is the nature of man. It is a pure lie from the pit of hell sold by the devil. Once you tell God to help you with discipline you will find it easy and nice as a man. A man of will and discipline is strong and will withstand any act of adulterous life.

Is this how women are treated in Islam?. 5ex slaves?. The men not only have bootie buffet but threaten the women with curses from Allah if any of them refuses to service them when needed.

brother u are right,
quoran is not bible pls dont ever compel both in one. any king who is not led my God spirit will end up making mistake of marrying many wife but beyound personal desciplin as a man let God words lead us to over those satanic weapon of lust leading to polygamy

ivoice247:

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@aloyemeka, you have to understand the reasons behind these statements above before you come to a conclusion. Because i say "curse that man" doesn't mean i'm evil until you know why i said it. okay. This statement was issued against those wives who try and punish their husbands because of misunderstanding by not sharing the bed with them. It still happens today that when a wife wants to get back at the husband, she does not share his bed especially when she knows he wants to sleep with her. You see in islam, satisfying each other's partner sexually is highly regarded as its one of the most fulfilling and enjoyable acts such that if a man or woman cannot satisfy one another, then its recommended that one divorces the other ( there is hadith to back this up)
Also, there is an hadith that states husbands will be ressurrected paralysed if they don't treat their wives fairly too, and many more hadith and verses in the quran that Allah warns men to treat their wives with justice.

Ima Ima: am not a muslim woman but am jealous and dont like to share.

besides i dont think the quaran(sorry if i missd d spellin) promotes polygamy.didnt it say that if the man can love the women equally, only then can he marry more than one wife?but we kno its not possible to love two pple the same way.

maclatunji:
The right thing is not always easy; the Muslim man that wants to marry a second wife should use his head and the woman in accepting too should be patient without forgoing her rights under such an arrangement. I once created a thread asking women to choose between polygamy and their husbands having adulterous relationships. A lot of sensible ones mostly Christians preferred Polygamy so go and relax your itchy fingers OP.

As you men claim that 'men are polygamous in nature,' its quite rare to see a 100% faithful husband especially with this generation where many men are so weak and alredy have the mindset to cheat on their spouses like its an inevitable thing. I'd prefer it being a 'known' n approved thing rather than make it a secret and long-term betrayal.

So many men(including the so-called religious ones) out there claiming to be monogamists wv strings of mistresses n illegitimate children who end up turning the family into something else prolly aft d man's death (or even while he's still alive)cos the legal wife n children have been in d dark all d while. We have another category of those hu neglect their families because of a mistress and spend their hard-earned money on these mistresses while the family suffers back home, some run three different families wvout dem being aware of one another, n so on

Islam, being a religion of peace n one that abhors adultery has supported polygamy WITH a condition. A well-practised polygamy shouldn't create enemity, but rada, union n growth of the muslim community.

As human beings that we are, imperfect n sometyms selfish, we tend to do things to fulfill our personal\lustful desires, rather than for the sake of Allah.

I'm not from a polygamous home and I don't intend to venture into polygamous setting, BUT things don't always workout as planned as man only proposes, God disposes, reason for the reply I gave immediately after the post.

manmacho:
A man that is loose is loose let him seek help poligammy is never the solution

unless of cousre we wipe out all the women in the world.

the religion should be a standard for moral leaving not an excuse to be immoral

wetin bad, bad

deols:

exactly. Dont mind them. they are talking discipline when many of them, have slept with countless number of boy friends without being married.

nokia3310:



Talking about discipline now, Muslims have the highest order of morality on earth, even in Nigeria here the rate of immoral acts such as: fornication, adultery, abortion etc is higher in Christian dominated states than in Muslim dominated states

Mrs. don't even start with me, I am not deluded to believe in a religion where your heaven is a brothel and your prophet was a woman-wrapper.

Sickening.

Okijajuju1:


I'm sorry dear, but Its not like that. I just make them feel good, give them the attention their husbands fail to give them. And moreover, I knew both of them before they were forced into marriage. Atimes most women who cheat on their husbands dont do it because they are being sexually starved,  but cos they are emotionally neglected by their husbands, and thats where I come in.

I dont like it but if I dont do it, some other punk would just take advantage of them.