TechCapon:


You have decided to be a slave to your pastor and church so take whatever embarrassment they give you. As for me, I'm not a slave to any pastor and I won't place myself in a situation where a person will embarrass me in the name of church. Is church marriage compulsory?

I wonder. Church marriage is not compulsory. Registry marriage is more official

Some churches be like holier than thou....shioor

The groom ma correct guy . No dulling, had it been they are big people of the society, their church will not remember the rules.

Fiscus105:





How are you coping in real life? how people around you coping with personality that attack every action positive or negative?

Little wonder marriage not lasting again, how would woman that frigile already, cope with mad cow? That bitter 24/7 on everything?


If church sanctions thing like this and u still condernming the church. Oga u destroy already . May God save u.

Let God save your English olodo

Lee99:
Meanwhile people are still fornicating in that church, hypocrites everywhere, the pastor will be pained...
Must you even marry in the church? What happened to court wedding?

I keep on asking if people still dey reason church . Because the way some Nigerians dey carry church for head eeee but their hearts and characters are something else . Mere looking at those intending couple, you will see that they are just trying to live their calm quie, low life . If na rich people now, I do not thin the church will remember that rule

chris51:



I wonder. Church marriage is not compulsory. Registry marriage is more official

exactly and traditional is more important

thorpido:
The Church rule is to put the horse before the cart.
Do the right thing and every other thing can follow.
Unfortunately you are ignorant.
There are places in Nigeria where the traditional marriage will not be conducted if the bride is pregnant!Rules are rules!!

where is that?

thorpido:
The Church rule is to put the horse before the cart.
Do the right thing and every other thing can follow.
Unfortunately you are ignorant.
There are places in Nigeria where the traditional marriage will not be conducted if the bride is pregnant!Rules are rules!!

Unfortunately, it's hypocrite like you who pretend to abide by laws that do abortions secretly and appear law abiding.

In this life, only me and my God.
No rules exist anywhere for me

malaria:

I keep on asking if people still dey reason church . Because the way some Nigerians dey carry church for head eeee but their hearts and characters are something else . Mere looking at those intending couple, you will see that they are just trying to live their calm quie, low life . If na rich people now, I do not thin the church will remember that rule

Exactly, if they were elites would the church not bend their rules for them? That's why I called them hypocrites

The pregnancy no show proberly they told the pastor anyways congrats to them

That has been the church policy. Assemblies of God church do not Wed couple that have engaged in premarital sex

The groom resemble one of the actors in a movie titled "Jehovah witnesses" the guys were prosmecious in the movie, if he is the one, the movie affected him in real life.

But how na?

Why bra Israel & Sister Rose no fit hold body? Who dey training you how una go nack, a bi, no be pastor you be?

Where was it written in the bible that church marriage is compulsory and beside, what happens to a woman that did series of abortions and still went ahead to do white wedding?

thorpido:
The Church rule is to put the horse before the cart.
Do the right thing and every other thing can follow.
Unfortunately you are ignorant.
There are places in Nigeria where the traditional marriage will not be conducted if the bride is pregnant!Rules are rules!!

I see that, you could not cite any Biblical precedent or passage for Church wedding.

emekajacobogbon:


Unfortunately, it's hypocrite like you who pretend to abide by laws that do abortions secretly and appear law abiding.

In this life, only me and my God.
No rules exist anywhere for me

For you to make a statement of fact on something you have no proof of shows you're not just the hypocrite you state but you are just foolish.

They did wrong but are actively trying to correct their wrong in holy matrimony why refuse them that ?

The couple don't know what they are doing. You are a member of a church. During the marriage counseling you were told the doctrine and rules of the church and you accepted.

You went against the rules and you were sanctioned and you ran away and went to another church and wedded and you are happy and you think that you have won. You have breached a spiritual law. A church is not an ordinary place.

I always advise church workers that if you go against the doctrine of your church and you are punished, don't leave the church immediately. If you do the curse is on you because you are acting in disobedience. Stay and serve the punishment. When it is lifted, if you desire you can leave the church.

The ordinary church goer might not understand these things but a true christian should.

thorpido:
The Church rule is to put the horse before the cart.
Do the right thing and every other thing can follow.
Unfortunately you are ignorant.
There are places in Nigeria where the traditional marriage will not be conducted if the bride is pregnant!Rules are rules!!

No tradition supports wedding a pregnant woman. They will suspend the wedding till the child is born.
But as for Church, no church has the right to cancel a church wedding after the traditional wedding has been done. I almost saw myself in the same problem. I had my traditional wedding on 31st October 2020 and decided to bless the marriage in church on June 6th 2021 after 8 solid month and this same church brought up the same story of not wedding me because my wife is living with me. Like I don't understand, I should abandon a wife who I have married, just because one who is imitating a white man's culture said so?

To cut the long story short, Assemblies of God church lost 6 money-bringing members (Me, my wife, my two kids and my 2 domestic staff).

jamesharryson:

No tradition supports wedding a pregnant woman. They will suspend the wedding till the child is born.
But as for Church, no church has the right to cancel a church wedding after the traditional wedding has been done. I almost saw myself in the same problem. I had my traditional wedding on 31st October 2020 and decided to bless the marriage in church on June 6th 2021 after 8 solid month and this same church brought up the same story of not wedding me because my wife is living with me. Like I don't understand, I should abandon a wife who I have married, just because one who is imitating a white man's culture said so?

To cut the long story short, Assemblies of God church lost 6 money-bringing members (Me, my wife, my two kids and my 2 domestic staff).

I'm sure God would raise 6×6 "money bringing members"

You knew the doctrine of the church Sir, if they bend the rule for you, that means they'd have to do so for others.

Don't be offended, but if white wedding is not important why did you decide to "bless" it in church, you could have continued with the traditional marriage only, nobody would query you as a money bringing member sir.

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Ozap:


I'm sure God would raise 6×6 "money bringing members"

You knew the doctrine of the church Sir, if they bend the rule for you, that means they'd have to do so for others.

Don't be offended, but if white wedding is not important why did you decide to "bless" it in church, you could have continued with the traditional marriage only, nobody would query you as a money bringing member sir.

Oga, dont be blinded by stupid doctrine. Religion is really the opium of the masses. So having married a woman, I should leave her for one more year before I can bring her to my house. My dear I wake up. This is 21st century. Our fathers were not this daft. The whites must be really Shading tears for us because we are more Catholic than the Romans.

thorpido:
The Church rule is to put the horse before the cart.
Do the right thing and every other thing can follow.
Unfortunately you are ignorant.
There are places in Nigeria where the traditional marriage will not be conducted if the bride is pregnant!Rules are rules!!

That's true.

They should know that they went outside God's plan for marriage for his people, it's very wrong for a lady to be pregnant before wedding.