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Re: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by Justiceleague1: 5:05pm On Jan 20 |
olayinka63:See wickedness...and you are advising somebody |
Re: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by Saintinoo(m): 5:06pm On Jan 20 |
ChybuzzDD: Don't mind this people, by law wether traditional or civil, the child is more of the male parent, I don't know the reason why they (women) always calm "my" child(ren) especially after a divorce. The woman is trying to cause that innocent boy a better life and if he grows up in this shit hole and finds out that his mother was the reason he is still a Nigerian citizen only, he might even kill her, especially if he is not doing so well in Nigeria. |
Re: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by frozen70(f): 5:06pm On Jan 20 |
BlackfyreRebell: I think the best way to go about it is for him to file for both of you to visit on vacation Then you come back together Then if he has to relocate then he should sponsor for both of you to relocate When you get there, you stay with your son and he schools under your roof even if his dad is the one paying his upkeep The he will have full access to him while living with you Anything short of this, your son Is gone forever till God knows when you will see him again If he can't file for both of you then he should forget it Mid he wants to see his son he should visit him at home |
Re: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by femi4: 5:18pm On Jan 20 |
Justiceleague1:And If he goes later, they will pursue him Must he go now or through the father? Abeg park well |
Re: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by flexyrule(m): 5:47pm On Jan 20 |
BadBradley:You chose to see what you saw. When I started going through the list, I saw a lot of names that I won't be proud of mentioning when describing success. But Bleep me. Who am I to Judge? What's your name again? Yeah. You figured it out... You don't come close to any of the drug dealers in that list. And I forgot to mention... I didn't type that list... It's copy and paste... Here's a link to the main article... https://www.nairaland.com/2031721/famous-celebs-grew-up-single |
Re: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by OriginalCEO: 5:53pm On Jan 20 |
OP for no bring this mata come here. Most ladies here dey think with their yansh. He should bring both of them ko both of them ni. See ehn I dnt no the personality of your husband but you may have to put your son first. There is barely any future for anyone in Nigeria especially youths. Whatever you decide make sure it's what's best for the kid and not you satisfying your insecurities. |
Re: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by flexyrule(m): 6:00pm On Jan 20 |
lawrenzooo:I'll bet all the money in my accounts that you don't have a family. You don't have a son. When you eventually have one, you'll realise how your dad felt when his friend said he wants to take you to Canada. You think it is easy for a parent to release his child to a stranger. You guys are funny. I swear Go and get married. Get a child. Then you'll apologize to your father. |
Re: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by Danabu(m): 6:27pm On Jan 20 |
LilMissFavvy: Take her along? They have been divorced for 2yes now.. And the boy is for both of them Please for Gods sake dont take any advice from women here. They hardly read and understand posts be fore commenting without reasoning. |
Re: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by SavageResponse(m): 6:36pm On Jan 20 |
nubianchio: You people should stop exaggerating things, the number of students who die as a result of cultism are a minute percentage. Going to school abroad is not all rosy also, the boy could wake up one day and say he wants to be identified as non-binary or become a homosexual. I'm sure even you would prefer to have son who is a cultist than one who is a homo! 1 Like |
Re: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by Justiceleague1: 6:42pm On Jan 20 |
femi4:Park well,you ain't his father |
Re: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by BadBradley: 6:43pm On Jan 20 |
flexyrule:oga hot pants ....your list is filled with gangsters, drug addicts, divorcees with estranged families. Actresses and actors. Movie celebrities. You're really really peculiar. |
Re: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by Feldie: 6:46pm On Jan 20 |
BlackfyreRebell:na you know. Cage the boy in this shithole. When he grows up and find out that you scuttled his chance of having a dual citizenship in a better country he will probably kill you |
Re: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by flexyrule(m): 6:48pm On Jan 20 |
BadBradley:Mr. Obtuse, What's your family name again? |
Re: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by BadBradley: 6:54pm On Jan 20 |
flexyrule:you're a bastard nobody whoring all over this thread, jumping from post to post looking for your father's name, no amount of quotes will fill up that void your absentee father left behind. A perfect prototype of a single mother's poor marital choice. Tough luck to you, son of the damned! |
Re: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by Enskynelson(m): 6:55pm On Jan 20 |
Timoleon:Read what she said. If she knew all you are writing, what is the essense of this thread? Go back again and read please. She is saying it seems the man want to deceive her into collecting 'her son'. |
Re: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by flexyrule(m): 6:57pm On Jan 20 |
BadBradley:; See who is advising someone about parenting.... Keep rolling your eyes, you might eventually find a brain |
Re: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by BadBradley: 6:58pm On Jan 20 |
flexyrule:you need more than a brain; you need your true identity. Bearing your mother's father's name will only make you be an internet vagabond reacting like a LovePeddler whenever you see posts like this |
Re: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by flexyrule(m): 7:00pm On Jan 20 |
BadBradley:What's your family name again? That's the question that made you to bark like a mad dog... Say it.... You’re like my dog. He also chases his tail for entertainment. |
Re: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by BadBradley: 7:03pm On Jan 20 |
flexyrule:I discovered you have quoted up to 10 people on this particular thread. That's when I realise you're the son of an absentee father and full-time parasitic mom. Learn to accept your fate. You're only the manifestation of your mother's sexual rascality and poor marital choice. |
Re: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by SavageResponse(m): 7:04pm On Jan 20 |
lawrenzooo: Your parents acted in your best interest so stop holding it against your father |
Re: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by flexyrule(m): 7:06pm On Jan 20 |
BadBradley:Hey Mommy's little mistake, Isn’t it dangerous to use your whole vocabulary in one sentence? Please, don’t be ashamed of who you are. That’s your parent’s job. Ps. I haven't been reading the rubbish that you've been writing. |
Re: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by Printme: 7:12pm On Jan 20 |
flexyrule:I'd rather drink garri than never knowing my father |
Re: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by Martinez39s(m): 7:12pm On Jan 20 |
redcliff:Nothing but the truth. This is why I can support a man getting surrogates to breed his children, but not a woman. |
Re: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by Gandollar(f): 7:17pm On Jan 20 |
ChybuzzDD:Go to court! |
Re: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by flexyrule(m): 7:17pm On Jan 20 |
Re: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by Martinez39s(m): 7:26pm On Jan 20 |
flexyrule:Someone talked about females hardly raising males to be strong men, and you are bringing a list that also contains females raised by women. Besides, I didn't know celebrity status achieved without a father or father figure shows that one is strong, discipline and stable man and not a puśsy, śimp, and bluepilled lover boy his mum raised him to be. Also, take note of the word "hardly"; it doesn't mean impossible. Well, let us hear from Tupac Shakur, a man whose mother alienated him from his father and fed him lies that his father was dead. what does Tupac Shakur have to tell us
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Re: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by erniok(m): 7:27pm On Jan 20 |
ChybuzzDD:The law views things differently. In formative years, in the event of divorce, custody is normally given to the woman unless the man can prove before the law the the wife is grossly irresponsible. You can see she already has upper hand regardless of the shot you shot and how.many times you shot to score. In case of travelling, if the woman shows she's a single parent, no one asks for father's approval. I agree with parents should have equal rights but the law can be funny especially if the child is in his/formative age. 1 Like |
Re: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by Martinez39s(m): 7:28pm On Jan 20 |
lawrenzooo:Kai!
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Re: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by Martinez39s(m): 7:32pm On Jan 20 |
Timoleon:That is if she cares about the boy and has remorse. She might not care if the boy likes her in future. All that matters to her now is to "win" against the husband. |
Re: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by BadBradley: 7:36pm On Jan 20 |
flexyrule:The unsolicited opinion of Nairaland's foremost advocate for babymama-ism whose mother is the town bicycle everyone takes for a spin. Heard she's been passed around more than a church offering bowl We wouldn't have you here if she had exchanged first names first before spreading for the one who is the father you're looking for. Slow inbred! |
Re: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by kpolli(m): 7:36pm On Jan 20 |
BlackfyreRebell: I don't know any country that will give citizenship to someone who isn't in the country; check the requirements for the country. All countries list their requirements online. Some you've to stay for a certain period. It's up to you to permit or reject the opportunity |
Re: Am I Being Paranoid? Please Help Me by Xpol: 7:39pm On Jan 20 |
BlackfyreRebell:please don't block the way of that innocent boy. Nobody is taking him from you. I'm very sure there'll still be communication btw you . Children hardly forget their mother even if the man doesn't want him to communicate with you, when he keeps disturbing the father he will let him have his way most especially when you're a good mother. |
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