greatgod2012: No, there is no happy polygamous home, they may be pretending to be happy, but, there is no real , i mean REAL happiness in polygamous home.
May God help us all.

#talking from experience.

greatgod2012: No, there is no happy polygamous home, they may be pretending to be happy, but, there is no real , i mean REAL happiness in polygamous home.
May God help us all.

#talking from experience.

coogar:

there are happy polygamous homes.....
it's only when there's no money you see strife and raw anger.[b]. i used to have an asian boss with 4 wives. the wives work as a team with mutual respect. they even go camping with the kids of the other wives for days!

biolabee:

I want to agree with the bolded but from commens of NL ladies who are supposedly empowered and are earning their own income, they still can't stomach sharing their man

Why is this so

biolabee:
I want to agree with the bolded but from commens of NL ladies who are supposedly empowered and are earning their own income, they still can't stomach sharing their man

Why is this so

babyosisi:

Can you explain further

coogar:

there are happy polygamous homes.....
it's only when there's no money you see strife and raw anger. i used to have an asian boss with 4 wives. the wives work as a team with mutual respect. they even go camping with the kids of the other wives for days!

greatgod2012:

i am from a polygamous home, my dad had 3 wives, and even though, the wives pretends to be happy with one another, but they never really are, based on what each mother told/tell their children.
I wouldnt want to go into too much details here, you know we have diverse people here, and who knows, whether one or more of my half siblings are Nairalanders, but i still maintain my point, they may be pretending to be happy, but no real happiness in polygamous homes......mark the word......REAL. IT MEANS THERE MAY BE FAKE HAPPINESS, BUT NOT REAL HAPPINESS.
May God help us all.

onila: there is no happiness

I hate all my step brothers from my father

if its there is money, there is still no happiness

when the father dies, trust me
most polygamous families go thru hell

one will be like you did not come from my mother so I aint helping you or yr not inheriting it

men are dumb for marrying more than one wife

coogar:

religion has a big part to play in that. muslim ladies don't have any gripe with their husbands having more than one wife.

coogar:

religion has a big part to play in that. muslim ladies don't have any gripe with their husbands having more than one wife.

onila: there is no happiness

I hate all my step brothers from my father

if its there is money, there is still no happiness

when the father dies, trust me
most polygamous families go thru hell

one will be like you did not come from my mother so I aint helping you or yr not inheriting it

men are dumb for marrying more than one wife

greatgod2012:
cougar! You are a liar, even, if islam approves polygamy, very many of these muslim women are not happy with their men for having additional wives, only that, they cant really fight for it, because of their religion, and even at that, many muslim women have refused to continue living with the man, once he has another wife/wives.
May God help us all.

biolabee:
i used to think so,,. but as said by and chick-poster onila [s](surprised to see she actually posts other than chicks and virginity stuff), [/s]women dont do good in an enclosed space
They fight and scratch
In Afrika, they go diabolical...

Polygamy breeds mistrust and a man could lose his children due to infighting and jealousy
my own is how does this gel with feminism

onila:

men are dumb for marrying more than one wife

biolabee: dear onila.. can u explain more

When u say hate it is a strong word...

I feel if a woman is comfortable with her kids and there is a well defined poking arrangment, should there be negative feelings

coogar:

a true muslim lady must accept the possibility of her husband marrying more than one wife. it's in the holy quaran. the ones that are not happy are fake muslims or not really deep in the religion.

greatgod2012:

very dumb indeed, as far as im concerned, no normal-thinking man should marry more than a wife, except the first wife dies.
The disadvantages and dangers and negative effect that polygamy has on the family, especially on the children is far more than any benefit one can get from it, even, if there is any benefit at all.
May God help us all.

greatgod2012:
and a true muslim must know how to treat them all equally. Cougar, as a human being, is it possible to treat the wives equally in ALL ASPECT of the marriage.

Is it possible? Be sincere. Are you sure there wont be preference or favouritism when dealing with the wives.And that is why a very true muslim will not even dare it.

What about the children, can he like, treat and care for all of them equally, regardless of who the mother is?

armyofone: Not fair at all. How can a guy with only one thing enjoys four things?
how do they have the strength to do it? I think it is stressful for them.

I think men that marry more than one wife or sleep with someone outside marriage are just greedy.

greatgod2012:


and a true muslim must know how to treat them all equally. Cougar, as a human being, is it possible to treat the wives equally in ALL ASPECT of the marriage. Is it possible? Be sincere. Are you sure there wont be preference or favouritism when dealing with the wives.And that is why a very true muslim will not even dare it.
What about the children, can he like, treat and care for all of them equally, regardless of who the mother is?

coogar:

and you know it's stressful for polygamous men because you have a dangling 3rd leg between your thighs?david, abraham, jacob, moses are all greedy, aren't they?

armybabe, a woman of one thing can also enjoy 12 things. if you don't believe me, ask the pröstitutes @ kuramo beach.

armyofone: Wait, are you polygamous?

greatgod2012:
cougar! You are a liar, even, if islam approves polygamy, very many of these muslim women are not happy with their men for having additional wives, only that, they cant really fight for it, because of their religion, and even at that, many muslim women have refused to continue living with the man, once he has another wife/wives.
May God help us all.

onila:

I hate them because I hate their mothers

their mothers are dumb evil wicked b1tches. .trust me, their mothers will transfer der wickedness to the children

thank heavens, am abroad . .I pray i wnt have to deal with those as-sholes in the future
I am also lucky my step brothers are younger than me

the only step siblings that are accepted by their other siblings is when the or yr mother has kids from another marriage or relationship

when its yr father that has kids from another woman, trust me u will hate that kid despite if the bas-tard is nice or wicked