My neighbor wants me to go along with her as the man in her life for their family get together on February 14th. Should I accept the offer? But I don’t want to be seen as her bf or fiancé by her family members and I don’t know how to turn down this her request judging on how nice she has been to me in the past. I need advice on what to do please.
help please.
OAM4J Mynd44 Rocktation Nlfpmod Seun Dominique lalasticlala help for wider opinion please

Women don't help (be nice) without expecting something in return. Oga you don get wife oooo

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My neighbor wants me to go along with her as the man in her life for their family get together on February 14th. Should I accept the offer? But I don’t want to be seen as her bf or fiancé by her family members and I don’t know how to turn down this her request j[b]udging on how nice she has been to me in the past.[/b] I need advice on what to do please.
help please.
OAM4J Mynd44 Rocktation Nlfpmod Seun Dominique lalasticlala help for wider opinion please

When you say how nice,can you expatiate further?

Chimarto:
Women don't help (be nice) without expecting something in return. Oga you don get wife oooo

Just leave the guy...!!
When him dey chop the girl rice and pepper soup he never put it into his calculation that a day would come that he would need to pay...!!

Women don't just do something for you except there is something they are getting or going to get back from you..!!

The guy should better begin to arrange his clothes and inform his mama that he would soon be getting married..!!

Longer throat nah him dey kill man..!!

Just do it😎😎😎

Before a girl does something she must have some reason to do it , op when u dey chop rice and pepper soup( u sure say u no dey chop am too ) ,u no sabi the day for repayment go come . If u were just neighbours i doubt she wouldnjust come out of nowhere and ask for this favour . U don get wife be that, how u go explain to her relatives say u are just friends

But why are you asking us now? When she was being nice enough to warm you ....sorry ....warm soup for you on those long cold nights, you didn't ask us for permission to accept. Now it's time to repay the Piper and you suddenly need external counsel, O ga o, u're on ur own! Her 2024 'what God cannot do does not exist miracle' just happens to be you!!

Bro, you are going for a mini introduction ceremony... Start saving money for your wedding

Bros,abeg marry this your neighbor naa,God don bless you already with wife😂😂😂

Save her from suicide. He that wins a soul is wise.

Marriage trap is in the offing🤓 something must kill a man
Be bold you go alright las Las😏

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My neighbor wants me to go along with her as the man in her life for their family get together on February 14th. Should I accept the offer? But I don’t want to be seen as her bf or fiancé by her family members and I don’t know how to turn down this her request judging on how nice she has been to me in the past. I need advice on what to do please.
help please.
OAM4J Mynd44 Rocktation Nlfpmod Seun Dominique lalasticlala help for wider opinion please

U no go like open YouTube channel?? Dis u ND ur neighbor wahala needs to b watched bro😂😂

She will definitely compensate you.....thou it depends on what she will offer you at the end

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My neighbor wants me to go along with her as the man in her life for their family get together on February 14th. Should I accept the offer? But I don’t want to be seen as her bf or fiancé by her family members and I don’t know how to turn down this her request judging on how nice she has been to me in the past. I need advice on what to do please.
help please.
OAM4J Mynd44 Rocktation Nlfpmod Seun Dominique lalasticlala help for wider opinion please

She gave you soup, you reciprocated and gave her soup, now she thinks you guys are dating. You now wasted loan app money on olosho which got her really mad and now she has decided to make you guys official by taking you home to meet her parents, congratulations my gee!!!🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🕺🏿🕺🏿🕺🏿🕺🏿🕺🏿

You and this your female neighbor everytime

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My neighbor wants me to go along with her as the man in her life for their family get together on February 14th. Should I accept the offer? But I don’t want to be seen as her bf or fiancé by her family members and I don’t know how to turn down this her request judging on how nice she has been to me in the past. I need advice on what to do please.
help please.
OAM4J Mynd44 Rocktation Nlfpmod Seun Dominique lalasticlala help for wider opinion please

Op done enter one chance

See the kind opportunity wey @Zonefree the look for lol, brother zonefree na joke i dey oo.... But mr op why would you be scared? Maybe except there is something u're not telling us😆

But I don’t want to be seen as her bf or fiancé by her family members

She wants you to be seen as her bf and possibly fiancé and that's what you would do. And you must do it well

Had similar events..... make I talk about the last one, lol she wanted relationship but I declined by all means cuz she isn't my type, her mom came with a ( about 5 yrs child) she claimed that's her mum last born even when I wasn't asking ( waiting concern me lol) did everything by all means to get belle for me, hin no work, I no dey dull.....everything she ever talks about nah marriage, how her parents siblings and family keep asking her to bring man come home.....


OP just be careful make door no jam u for finger.

worldclass68:
Had similar events..... make I talk about the last one, lol she wanted relationship but I declined by all means cuz she isn't my type, her mom came with a ( about 5 yrs child) she claimed that's her mum last born even when I wasn't asking ( waiting concern me lol) did everything by all means to get belle for me, hin no work, I no dey dull.....everything she ever talks about nah marriage, how her parents siblings and family keep asking her to bring man come home.....


OP just be careful make door no jam u for finger.

Bros, please go and do SFA, I take God beg you!!!

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My neighbor wants me to go along with her as the man in her life for their family get together on February 14th. Should I accept the offer? But I don’t want to be seen as her bf or fiancé by her family members and I don’t know how to turn down this her request judging on how nice she has been to me in the past. I need advice on what to do please.
help please.
OAM4J Mynd44 Rocktation Nlfpmod Seun Dominique lalasticlala help for wider opinion please

it is just another way women manipulate men into relationship with them.

Shine your eyes very well, be ready to be the man in her life if you agree to go out with her but if you don't see yourself as the man in her life. Then don't play that role

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My neighbor wants me to go along with her as the man in her life for their family get together on February 14th. Should I accept the offer? But I don’t want to be seen as her bf or fiancé by her family members and I don’t know how to turn down this her request judging on how nice she has been to me in the past. I need advice on what to do please.
help please.
OAM4J Mynd44 Rocktation Nlfpmod Seun Dominique lalasticlala help for wider opinion please

What do you mean by "... judging on how nice she has been to me in the past."
Una don dey collect bribe on the side ahbi, if you no go laidis, I go join her curse you.
Nice kọ, Tu Baba Ní.

worldclass68:
Had similar events..... make I talk about the last one, lol she wanted relationship but I declined by all means cuz she isn't my type, her mom came with a ( about 5 yrs child) she claimed that's her mum last born even when I wasn't asking ( waiting concern me lol) did everything by all means to get belle for me, hin no work, I no dey dull.....everything she ever talks about nah marriage, how her parents siblings and family keep asking her to bring man come home.....


OP just be careful make door no jam u for finger.

Men should be very careful of any women that's desperate for marriage.

Majority of them have baggages you may not be able to shoulder.

Men that are also desperate for marriage also have issues.

Soon she go buy suit and wedding gown and tell you to play another role for her

Na when kids drop you go wake up abi?

Emmanuel900:


Men should be very careful of any women that's desperate for marriage.

Majority of them have baggages you may not be able to shoulder.

Men that are also desperate for marriage also have issues.

Your mind dey there , barman give him a chilled bottle of orijin 🍻

I've always said that men should be very cautious of a woman's "generosity". Women are not generous, even in a relationship they give with the full expectation that they'll receive multiple folds back.

Women don't give from the goodness of their hearts, they 'sow seeds'.

@OP:
https://www.nairaland.com/7166252/wahala-chaos-female-nature#113575657

If you are not game just politely tell her and stand firm. No need to do what your mind is not set on...shikena!

You are already in the quarter-finals

You don jam sweet but psycho

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My neighbor wants me to go along with her as the man in her life for their family get together on February 14th. Should I accept the offer? But I don’t want to be seen as her bf or fiancé by her family members and I don’t know how to turn down this her request judging on how nice she has been to me in the past. I need advice on what to do please.
help please.
OAM4J Mynd44 Rocktation Nlfpmod Seun Dominique lalasticlala help for wider opinion please

Statistically, you re husband in waiting.

If by one chance you have eaten her cooked food before, s'ope o ti lor

drimzsmoke:



Bros, please go and do SFA, I take God beg you!!!

Waiting hin mean...lol medically I couldn't relate, but wasn't doing raw nah..



Lol I just figured out, well I no gree do raw that's what I meant, I knew what was at stake nah