All Nairalanders please help him with advise.


A friend narrated his story to me and I'm hiding his identity while bringing the issue to Nairaland to help me know what to advice him by speaking on it.
This is the story.



I need advice.
Between the lady that was there with you when there was nothing and the one who made you rich, which one is best for marriage and you are only allowed to marry just one.



I'm Ijaw from Bayelsa State.
I loved this girl. She loved me too. She told her father she want to marry me, her father say if she leave his house he will rent out the room he gave her.
She said no problem that she will marry me and she took her properties then pack to my house in another town but neighbouring Community and different LGA.
Her father kept his word.
Rented it to students for the place was University area and student rented it fast.
My father said he doesn't like the lady that I should send her away, me knowing that she lost her house for my sake told my father that I won't and when I saw that my father was bent on sending her away, I said instead of she to leave, I'll pack out with her and I did.


Then I went and build a basher at my own place for I have land and we started living there.
Things became so hard and we left that place and travelled out because nobody wants to support us from our both families.
We travelled to Benin with our last cash and started sleeping at front of a shop at night while we work menial jobs by day.
Hoping that we later go Lagos and rent better house after saving some money and we start life there.



After sometime, we missed each other and couldn't find each other.
This girl was already pregnant for me and we had taken blood oath back in Bayelsa that nothing would ever separate us.
She cut her self with Matchet for my sake and I did same then we joined the fresh bloods together.



Couldnt find her and later gave up because we missed each other.
Later I travelled to Ghana with a friend then I came back Nigeria and got work in Port Harcourt.
Later met another Ijaw lady from Kalabari and she was from Billionaire family and an only daughter.



After sometime together
I asked her to marry me and she said yes.
I had some millions in my account and she had some roles she played before I became millionaire.
Now, my other woman that lost for so long has come with a son and say we must marry for she trace me back home and my people called me for I and them settled and became family again.




The girl did not spoil the pregnancy and she has now brought back a boy.
What can I do, the other lady is saying she won't agree either.


All my ancestors I can remember only had 1 wife each.
My 5 fathers from great great grandfather to my father all had one wife.
I can't handle two.
One wife is in my family DNA.


Please I need help.
How can I settle this?

Vawulenciano:
All Nairalanders please help him with advise.


A friend narrated his story to me and I'm hiding his identity while bringing the issue to Nairaland to help me know what to advice him by speaking on it.
This is the story.



I need advice.
Between the lady that was there with you when there was nothing and the one who made you rich, which one is best for marriage and you are only allowed to marry just one.



I'm Ijaw from Bayelsa State.
I loved this girl. She loved me too. She told her father she want to marry me, her father say if she leave his house he will rent out the room he gave her.
She said no problem that she will marry me and she took her properties then pack to my house in another town but neighbouring Community and different LGA.
Her father kept his word.
Rented it to students for the place was University area and student rented it fast.
My father said he doesn't like the lady that I should send her away, me knowing that she lost her house for my sake told my father that I won't and when I saw that my father was bent on sending her away, I said instead of she to leave, I'll pack out with her and I did.


Then I went and build a basher at my own place for I have land and we started living there.
Things became so hard and we left that place and travelled out because nobody wants to support us from our both families.
We travelled to Benin with our last cash and started sleeping at front of a shop at night while we work menial jobs by day.
Hoping that we later go Lagos and rent better house after saving some money and we start life there.



After sometime, we missed each other and couldn't find each other.
This girl was already pregnant for me and we had taken blood oath back in Bayelsa that nothing would ever separate us.
She cut her self with Matchet for my sake and I did same then we joined the fresh bloods together.



Couldnt find her and later gave up because we missed each other.
Later I travelled to Ghana with a friend then I came back Nigeria and got work in Port Harcourt.
Later met another Ijaw lady from Kalabari and she was from Billionaire family and an only daughter.



After sometime together
I asked her to marry me and she said yes.
I had some millions in my account and she had some roles she played before I became millionaire.
Now, my other woman that lost for so long has come with a son and say we must marry for she trace me back home and my people called me for I and them settled and became family again.




The girl did not spoil the pregnancy and she has now brought back a boy.
What can I do, the other lady is saying she won't agree either.


My 5 father's from great great grandfather to my father all had one wife.
I can't handle two.
One wife is in my family DNA.


Please I need help.
How can I settle this?

Lie that you can't marry two wives. What is your body count?


Anyway you are between the devil and the Red Sea. The family of the billionaire can destroy you. The blood oath will destroy you slowly.
My take:marry the two of them.

Better still destroy yourself before any of them does.

MightySparrow:



Lie that you can't marry two wives. What is your body count?


Anyway you are between the devil and the Red Sea. The family of the billionaire can destroy you. The blood oath will destroy you slowly.
My take:marry the two of them.

Better still destroy yourself before any them does.

I swear, when the guy tell me, I confuse..

This is really hard to judge for me.
I can't give him wrong advise.

MightySparrow:



Lie that you can't marry two wives. What is your body count?


Anyway you are between the devil and the Red Sea. The family of the billionaire can destroy you. The blood oath will destroy you slowly.
My take:marry the two of them.

Better still destroy yourself before any them does.

Marrying the two of them is what I'm thinking for him too.


But this one he say he can only marry one for he can't handle two wives at a go..

You are a man. If the sorry is a lie marry the two

Bullfallo:
You are a man. If the sorry is a lie marry the two

May God help him..

Forget the DNA of marrying one wife in your 5 family lineage.

Sit the rich babe down and explain your predicaments. I trust she would understand but you will have to keep 2 separate houses. Afterall you are also rich now.

matify83:
Forget the DNA of marrying one wife in your 5 family lineage.

Sit the rich babe down and explain your predicaments. I trust she would understand but you will have to keep 2 separate houses. Afterall you are also rich now.

This advice is also very good.
I will show him this post and show him the answers.

Please, we need more people to advise him.

Marry the one wey understand you pass

NOGRUDGES:
Marry the one wey understand you pass

The both of them have unforgettable roles they played in his life according to this his story.

The fact you made this an Igbo and Yoruba thread makes me not want to bother advising you what to do.

budaatum:
The fact you made this an Igbo and Yoruba thread makes me not want to bother advising you what to do.

Check it I wrote all Nairalanders should advise.
I wrote it there.
I only used Igbo and Yoruba at the title because by they are the two most populated tribes on Nairaland so that people will view and help me to help my friend.

Vawulenciano:

Check it I wrote all Nairalanders should advise.
I wrote it there.
I only used Igbo and Yoruba at the title because by they are the two most populated tribes on Nairaland so that people will view and help me to help my friend.

Igbo and Yoruba has nothing to do with the advice you seek, so I'd advise you to remove it from your threads topic.

And that bit about "friend"? Pull the other one.

budaatum:


Igbo and Yoruba has nothing to do with the advice you seek, so I'd advise you to remove it from your threads topic.

And that bit about "friend"? Pull the other one.

Ok thanks. Let me adjust the name right now.

budaatum:


Igbo and Yoruba has nothing to do with the advice you seek, so I'd advise you to remove it from your threads topic.

And that bit about "friend"? Pull the other one.

Done.

Always marry the one that was there when you had nothing. The one that made him rich could've done so because she couldn't marry him in his previous state. My two cents.

junketer:
Always marry the one that was there when you had nothing. The one that made him rich could've done so because she couldn't marry him in his previous state. My two cents.

Good.

junketer:
Always marry the one that was there when you had nothing. The one that made him rich could've done so because she couldn't marry him in his previous state. My two cents.

But you think that the other lady would gree just like that?
Remember she helped make him millionaire..

Vawulenciano:


Done.

I respect you.

budaatum:


I respect you.

I respect you more my brother.
For carefully and properly showing me the right Title to be used.

Vawulenciano:


I respect you more my brother.
For carefully and properly showing me the right Title to be used.

What inspired your moniker?

VeryWickedMan:


What inspired your moniker?

I'm sure you inspired him Mr HeartlessMan.

I know your heart lies with the billionaire's daughter. You now perceive your child's mother as damaged goods, even though it's your child she birthed

Most men with baby mamas usually end up marrying a childless woman.

Vawulenciano:
All Nairalanders please help him with advise.


A friend narrated his story to me and I'm hiding his identity while bringing the issue to Nairaland to help me know what to advice him by speaking on it.
This is the story.



I need advice.
Between the lady that was there with you when there was nothing and the one who made you rich, which one is best for marriage and you are only allowed to marry just one.



I'm Ijaw from Bayelsa State.
I loved this girl. She loved me too. She told her father she want to marry me, her father say if she leave his house he will rent out the room he gave her.
She said no problem that she will marry me and she took her properties then pack to my house in another town but neighbouring Community and different LGA.
Her father kept his word.
Rented it to students for the place was University area and student rented it fast.
My father said he doesn't like the lady that I should send her away, me knowing that she lost her house for my sake told my father that I won't and when I saw that my father was bent on sending her away, I said instead of she to leave, I'll pack out with her and I did.


Then I went and build a basher at my own place for I have land and we started living there.
Things became so hard and we left that place and travelled out because nobody wants to support us from our both families.
We travelled to Benin with our last cash and started sleeping at front of a shop at night while we work menial jobs by day.
Hoping that we later go Lagos and rent better house after saving some money and we start life there.



After sometime, we missed each other and couldn't find each other.
This girl was already pregnant for me and we had taken blood oath back in Bayelsa that nothing would ever separate us.
She cut her self with Matchet for my sake and I did same then we joined the fresh bloods together.



Couldnt find her and later gave up because we missed each other.
Later I travelled to Ghana with a friend then I came back Nigeria and got work in Port Harcourt.
Later met another Ijaw lady from Kalabari and she was from Billionaire family and an only daughter.



After sometime together
I asked her to marry me and she said yes.
I had some millions in my account and she had some roles she played before I became millionaire.
Now, my other woman that lost for so long has come with a son and say we must marry for she trace me back home and my people called me for I and them settled and became family again.




The girl did not spoil the pregnancy and she has now brought back a boy.
What can I do, the other lady is saying she won't agree either.


All my ancestors I can remember only had 1 wife each.
My 5 fathers from great great grandfather to my father all had one wife.
I can't handle two.
One wife is in my family DNA.


Please I need help.
How can I settle this?

Let him marry the two. Stop disturbing our peace. Too many troubles in the land.

Do exactly what a woman will do. Marry the rich woman too.

1Sharon:
I know your heart lies with the billionaire's daughter. You now perceive your child's mother as damaged goods, even though it's your child she birthed

Most men with baby mamas usually end up marrying a childless woman.

@bolded came from your prejudiced mindset and has nothing to do with the passage. Give advice and leave your emotive personal banters of life.

This your story eeh, how did you depart from her after you have impregnated her was there a quarrel or you disappear just like that?

Vawulenciano:
All Nairalanders please help him with advise.


A friend narrated his story to me and I'm hiding his identity while bringing the issue to Nairaland to help me know what to advice him by speaking on it.
This is the story.



I need advice.
Between the lady that was there with you when there was nothing and the one who made you rich, which one is best for marriage and you are only allowed to marry just one.



I'm Ijaw from Bayelsa State.
I loved this girl. She loved me too. She told her father she want to marry me, her father say if she leave his house he will rent out the room he gave her.
She said no problem that she will marry me and she took her properties then pack to my house in another town but neighbouring Community and different LGA.
Her father kept his word.
Rented it to students for the place was University area and student rented it fast.
My father said he doesn't like the lady that I should send her away, me knowing that she lost her house for my sake told my father that I won't and when I saw that my father was bent on sending her away, I said instead of she to leave, I'll pack out with her and I did.


Then I went and build a basher at my own place for I have land and we started living there.
Things became so hard and we left that place and travelled out because nobody wants to support us from our both families.
We travelled to Benin with our last cash and started sleeping at front of a shop at night while we work menial jobs by day.
Hoping that we later go Lagos and rent better house after saving some money and we start life there.



After sometime, we missed each other and couldn't find each other.
This girl was already pregnant for me and we had taken blood oath back in Bayelsa that nothing would ever separate us.
She cut her self with Matchet for my sake and I did same then we joined the fresh bloods together.



Couldnt find her and later gave up because we missed each other.
Later I travelled to Ghana with a friend then I came back Nigeria and got work in Port Harcourt.
Later met another Ijaw lady from Kalabari and she was from Billionaire family and an only daughter.



After sometime together
I asked her to marry me and she said yes.
I had some millions in my account and she had some roles she played before I became millionaire.
Now, my other woman that lost for so long has come with a son and say we must marry for she trace me back home and my people called me for I and them settled and became family again.




The girl did not spoil the pregnancy and she has now brought back a boy.
What can I do, the other lady is saying she won't agree either.


All my ancestors I can remember only had 1 wife each.
My 5 fathers from great great grandfather to my father all had one wife.
I can't handle two.
One wife is in my family DNA.


Please I need help.
How can I settle this?

1Sharon:
I know your heart lies with the billionaire's daughter. You now perceive your child's mother as damaged goods, even though it's your child she birthedr

Most men with baby mamas usually end up marrying a childless woman.

Haha.
But I don't think this is true.

ExudeLoveToAll:


@bolded came from your prejudiced mindset and has nothing to do with the passage. Give advice and leave your emotive personal banters of life.

I see.

Nicepoker:
Do exactly what a woman will do. Marry the rich woman too.

I will show him the comments here on the advise for him.

Marry the one you choose.