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How Do I Solve This Bad Trait/habit Of Mine by GuiltyGear: 6:32pm On Apr 22
I just don’t know why
I always avoid social interactions. Is something wrong with me?
I’m going to my 4th year in university (meaning I have 3 years left) and I’m yet to get over this stupid personality trait of mine
I feel it has made me lose out of a lot and I mean a lot of opportunities for growth and experiences
How do I overcome this?
Like I said, I always avoid social interactions.
Whether it be a party, get together or something as simple as a hall meeting
I instantly don’t want to go. I don’t know where I got this from
Id rather stay indoors and read my books, or read manga/manhwas and play video games

I have met a lot of people who have tried to help me change but it all comes to nothing and they end up giving up

Honestly I don’t know what to do any more


I’m 21 years old and a male, in case this info is. Needed
Re: How Do I Solve This Bad Trait/habit Of Mine by Entusky(m): 6:40pm On Apr 22
GuiltyGear:
I just don’t know why
I always avoid social interactions. Is something wrong with me?
I’m going to my 4th year in university (meaning I have 3 years left) and I’m yet to get over this stupid personality trait of mine
I feel it has made me lose out of a lot and I mean a lot of opportunities for growth and experiences
How do I overcome this?
Like I said, I always avoid social interactions.
Whether it be a party, get together or something as simple as a hall meeting
I instantly don’t want to go. I don’t know where I got this from
Id rather stay indoors and read my books, or read manga/manhwas and play video games

I have met a lot of people who have tried to help me change but it all comes to nothing and they end up giving up

Honestly I don’t know what to do any more


I’m 21 years old and a male, in case this info is. Needed
Op iswr u're just like me
Re: How Do I Solve This Bad Trait/habit Of Mine by shortgun(m): 6:49pm On Apr 22
What is happening to you is normal but it's dangerous...every system in your body slowing down
Start by going to any football field close to you and Join them in playing....
Re: How Do I Solve This Bad Trait/habit Of Mine by FRANCISTOWN: 7:27pm On Apr 22
GuiltyGear:
I just don’t know why
I always avoid social interactions. Is something wrong with me?
I’m going to my 4th year in university (meaning I have 3 years left) and I’m yet to get over this stupid personality trait of mine
I feel it has made me lose out of a lot and I mean a lot of opportunities for growth and experiences
How do I overcome this?
Like I said, I always avoid social interactions.
Whether it be a party, get together or something as simple as a hall meeting
I instantly don’t want to go. I don’t know where I got this from
Id rather stay indoors and read my books, or read manga/manhwas and play video games

I have met a lot of people who have tried to help me change but it all comes to nothing and they end up giving up

Honestly I don’t know what to do any more


I’m 21 years old and a male, in case this info is. Needed

It is totally normal, but the fact that you are worried about it means you are not like that.
You really want to relate with people but you are probably shy or you suffer low self esteem.
Therefore , I'd advise you to join a club on campus. Start your social skills from there.

I hate social interaction too, and I hate talking to people. Generally I don't like people and I don't even want people to talk to me. When people greet me it's a bother and I hate any conversation longer than hello/hi. I don't keep friends and I hate being around anybody. And do you know what? I totally enjoy it that I can't get enough of it.
It's a very peaceful life, I have less bullshit to deal with.

You are bothered about it and you want to change because that's not who you are. The best thing you can do for yourself is to stay true to yourself.

Therefore it is not a bad trait. If you don't embrace yourself, don't expect others to embrace you.

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Re: How Do I Solve This Bad Trait/habit Of Mine by sulakishop(m): 8:08pm On Apr 22
Be yourself. You will get over it

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