My cousin has vowed and boasted that he would marry a virgin. Somehow she knew about this and lied she was one. She told him no sex until afta marriage. I know there's no best wedding but my cousin's was the talk of town. It was as if he spent all his savings for it. The night of their honeymoon when they were about to make up, he penetrates and to his utmost surprise discovers how loosed she was and how she has lied to him. Now he seeks divorce, hmmm so quick and wants the bride price returned. My advice to him was to stick to the marriage knowing how far he has gone in this, But he's so obstinate and decided. Whats your opinion on this??

make i wake up

typical!!

Your cousin must be silly, putting a flexible & myopia issue as virginity on top of his list of priorities when seeking a life partner (no offense).

I bet he has been deflowering & phucking other single gals that are other guys' future wives,

Hes okay to divorce her.After all he wanted a virgin not a wife

While there are apparently no justifiable reasons anyone should put virginity on the fore when seeking a partner, the young lady deserves whatever bad she gets. She lied and played the unsuspecting guy along. . .so in the end she could win. This is at first unacceptable!

The answer is simple, is he a virgin? If yes then he should file a divorce, be if no then he should remain wit his wife 4 better or worse as he vowed.

pendo89:

Hes okay to divorce her.After all he wanted a virgin not a wife

LOL

2kurupt:

Your cousin must be silly, putting a flexible  & myopia issue as virginity on top of his list of priorities when seeking a life partner (no offense).

I bet he has been deflowering & phucking other single gals that are other guys' future wives, 

in all likeliness   

sauer:

While there are apparently no justifiable reasons anyone should put virginity on the fore when seeking a partner, the young lady deserves whatever bad she gets. She lied and played the unsuspecting guy along. . .so in the end she could win. This is at first unacceptable!

are u in anyway a legal pratictioner? i love d terms u used and ur cordination is on point! u try!

He got served!!!

Even if she is no virgin, @ least he has tasted d honey , so y demanding d bride price back?
Honestly d dude is nt yet ready for marriage he just wants a virgin to deflower under d covet of marriage

He wanted a virgin, and he was deceived by a foul, deceitful creature into marriage. Your cousin is on point, he should divorce her and collect his dowry back. This issue is becoming very popular among ladies, they deceive guys with fairytale stories of abstinence before marriage, only for the poor fellow to discover afterwards that they are as loose as fishing in an ocean. Sadistic deception at its best!

Seriously poster, do you think someone can stop loving someone else just for virginity? if yes I have serious doubts about his feelings

Nayah:

Seriously poster, do you think someone can stop loving someone else just for virginity? if yes I have serious doubts about his feelings

We don See ya, Nice smile sha

hi deal I'm a bit busy these days but thanks for my smile

i dont get why chics lie about such stuff anyways.i mean why lie in the first place when you know you are gon be busted soon enough.
it still beats me!!

=))=Dlaffº˚˚°º≈wanº˚˚°º≈tearº˚˚°º≈myº˚˚°º≈belleº˚˚°º≈=))=D , Ŧнε marriage was based on her been a virgin so since she failed Ŧнε test dat means no marraige, typical naija girls style

Only if d guy was a virgin, I say its a serious issue bt if nt, make d wife organise a virgin 4 him so he experience a virgin girl since dats his priority.

Hahahahahahaha!!

Your cousin buy moter without checking the VIN, now he has purchased a badly accidented vehicle.

pendo89:

Hes okay to divorce her.After all he wanted a virgin not a wife

Classic!

Goldieluks:

I can't stand all these overated virgin tales,not when the so called guy is not a virgin himself. Rubbish theif.

Well if the girl in question didn't also make that a condition to marry him, I don't see where he erred. It's a matter of preference.
It's easy to say they should go on afterall they are married already and he spent a lot in the wedding. I would say so myself, but then I know I wouldn't trust a word that girl says to me anymore, and it's going to be really difficult to make anything out of their marriage without trust. In the absence of trust so many things can go wrong. Again he might feel the need to take revenge on her and go all out to embrace infidelity. So at the end of the day divorce might just be an eventuality they'd be delaying.
Of course if he can deal with it the best option is to remain and work things out. It will require a lot of work though.

The marriage was under false pretenses and it is STILL not the end of the world.

The way this story is told makes little sense.

Why would he need a divorce when he can seek an annulment? And he can get it quicker too. Unless they already went forward with the marriage, now years later he is using that as an excuse.

Bogus tale.

Mrs, Chima:

The marriage was under false pretenses and it is STILL not the end of the world.

Hey, Mrs C! Finally used your recipe yesterday, had to go to Dallas on Saturday. Thanks! It came out well, even though I suspect it tasted so good because I MADE IT, lol. Thanks again!

MarcAnthon:

Hey, Mrs C! Finally used your recipe yesterday, had to go to Dallas on Saturday. Thanks! It came out well, even though I suspect it tasted so good because I MADE IT, lol. Thanks again!

You are welcome suga!  I made some yesterday for dinner along with fried chicken gizzards and boiled eggs.   

I was given offers to teach my husband's friends' wives on art of good cooking!     Real talk!

MarcAnthon:

Hey, Mrs C! Finally used your recipe yesterday, had to go to Dallas on Saturday. Thanks! It came out well, even though I suspect it tasted so good because I MADE IT, lol. Thanks again!

  brother Marc.  what did u make?  Bread & egg? 

Mrs, Chima:

You are welcome suga!  I made some yesterday for dinner along with fried chicken gizzards and boiled eggs.   

I was given offers to teach my husband's friends' wives on art of good cooking!      Real talk! 

Good for you! You should seriously consider that food chain biz, lol. You seem to LOVE cooking.

Mr, Cork:


  brother Marc.  what did u make?  Bread & egg? 

Lol! Something more engaging. Btw, be nice to Mrs C and she can give you some of her recipes so you can surprise your gf once in a while.

funny story, I happen 2 have friends who operate to replace the hymen. Its just funny the girl didn't know about this procedure or else she would have done it and saved her marriage.

The guy must be one of those gullible SU. Virginity is something u should NEVER believe, even 4 a nun. He got playd by a street-smart girl who have been having her legs spread probably @ 15. Quite un4tunate!

He gave a condition.

The girl is a fraud. simple

He was lied to. I dont care what the lie was about

end of story.

who know what other lies are waiting to be discovered . . genotype, abortion, etc

perfect ground for divorce.

He should go ahead and do his worse. Wont he be the one spending his money. He spent his last card 2 marry a street smart girl who knows 99% of Nigerian men still want 2 marry a virgin, even after sleeping with everything on skirts b4 they married. He will spend now and even borrow 2 divorce her. Why do people still think Virginity is the height of innocence. That virginity thing is just too overrated.

Its simple na.
D guy sud reinvite all d guest dat graced d occation,
tel dem he married d akpako bebe cos she claimed 2b a virgin.
Bt now, he jst dicovered she lied &he wnt d whole ceremony 2b rewind.