Guys I cam across this write up and it got me thinking. I even asked some of my friends their opinion on the matter but all view were contradictory and no one person agreed. I decided I should throw the question to the forum.
The write talks about a man that went to a ceremony and heard a pastors sermon. I pasted write up below in red:

WHILE sitting down quietly at a naming ceremony, lost in thought, I was suddenly jolted out of it with the preacher’s statement “if you are a wife and you wear your lingerie to bed at night; then you are a wicked woman.” This statement made by the preacher prompted me to question his identity and tried to find out if that was the situation of things in his house, and to know if he was simply trying to pass a message across to his wife.

The preacher’s statement began to raise questions in my head concerning sex in marriages and relationships. It is a fact that sex is an important aspect of marriage which cannot be ignored or taken lightly. It is the flame that keeps the passion alive in every marriage and relationship. Although most people would argue that love is all that is needed to keep a marriage and indeed this is true, but it also needs the support of sex. A sexless or passionless marriage simply states the obvious; either both parties have sex partners outside the marriage or one of the parties is unfaithful.

While some women view sex as a weapon of getting what they want from their spouses, some see it as an object of punishment, a way of getting even with their husbands whenever they are offended. They simply do this by putting up resistance to their husband’s advances.

The question, therefore, is can putting on lingerie at night be tagged a form of resistance? Is it true that some women wear lingerie at night out of comfortability.

So guys what is your take on this comment made by the pastor. Do you agree or disagree, please give your reasons.

That pastor knows what he's saying,he simply wants his wife to lay naked on the bed

Is this a kind of joke or something ?

Lingerie is suddenly un-sexy and a form of punishment?That preacher must be a randy classless bush man.So he prefers a nuuude wife at bed each nite?I can bet pre-intimacy and getting the woman wet too na crime and non existing in his world;just grab the raw meat and pound away.

Anyhoo,each to his own but coming up with "its punishment or wicked" excuse is way too ridiculos.

Maybe the lingerie is made of denim material.

lingerie made of denim hmm, now thats new,

Looking for an avenue to enter and come out at will, whether the owner is at home or not. Barawo!!!!!

2 minute man

stillwater:

Maybe the lingerie is made of denim material.

lolzz

stillwater:

Maybe the lingerie is made of denim material.

those lingerie made of denim are really very pretty

I see no wrong in wearing lingerie to bed.it is indeed a tale of one man's meat is another's poison.

Don't get the pastor's gist
so to him its either the wife go n*ked or boba and wrapper?

stillwater:

Maybe the lingerie is made of denim material.

Maybe na military fatique dem dey call lingerie

dayokanu:

Maybe na military fatique dem dey call lingerie

lol could be but I just dey wonder wetin the pastor want mean na

The Pastor just indirectly confessed his weakness without realizing it. Did't you hear about the pastor who only preaches about fornication and adultery week after week

iice: Different strokes for different folks.

Spot on!

drnoel:
WHILE sitting down quietly at a naming ceremony, lost in thought, I was suddenly jolted out of it with the preacher’s statement “if you are a wife and you wear your lingerie to bed at night; then you are a wicked woman.”

So, of everything preached in church only that statement got his attention.
Hmmmmn

some-girl:


So, of everything preached in church only that statement got his attention.

Hmmmmn

well maybe he was trying to make a point

Spreads mat n watch married folks jumbo lombo