Please i need serious advice now, if you are going to condemn him, please just don't! Here Goes:

I was just on my way back from Brooklyn, when i was in my dorm corridor and saw my roomie's mom walk out of our room in utter shock and resentment. She told me, she wanted to see me in her house tomorrow morning so that she can talk to me. I was confused, i walked in to my room to find my roomie making out with his BF, i mean we all knew he was gay, but no one cares or cared. The boy didn't even hear his mom leave or even come in for that matter. My roommate is just here panicking and scared shitless *he hasn't come out of the closet to her or his family yet* I am trying to calm him down but i know it won't work because his mum is an old fashioned Christian with the whole Sodom and Gomorrah upbringing. So my own in all of this is that, if i go tomorrow, his mom is going to be asking me if i knew and i can't deny it because she will know i am lying, *i mean we live together, how will i not know?*, she may also ask how long i have known and why i didn't tell her and all those unnecessary questions. I really don't feel like getting into her family's drama but i know if i don't go she will vex more! My friends are saying i should go with the boy but the problem is, the boy is too shaky and scared of his mom to go. Please what should i do?I have enough family drama of my own, don't feel like adding theirs to mine.

P.S. Faith, i know you know but don't come here please! i already know your opinion on the whole issue.

Faith probably gave you the best advice

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Faith probably gave you the best advice

OP pls grow up and stop posting poo everywhere on this forum.
If your story is true, then I'm a french girl. Bollocks

@OP, there is not much you can do but admit that you know that the guy is ga-y but you felt it was not in your position to tell his parent if he does not want to tell them.

question

is your room mates mom paying your rent? or paying your tuition?

if not then who gives a s#it what she thinks let her deal with her own kid

probably your friend is selling his anus to white men for ten dollars

why are you going to see his mom? Na she born you?

Just tel her u dont know her son is ga¥, simple!

If u'r short of liver to tel her, then dont go and see her!

Is your roommate Nigerian? Otherwise, wetin come concern you? Don't you have classes to attend?

Stories that itch the bum

Cool story bro

@OP With the truth out there's no point lying further.
Everyone just has to man up, grow some balls/ovaries and sort it out.
Lying is really just a sign of weakness [/b]and [b]biitch-assness IMO.

Since she has invited you, go there and say it as it is.
Making sure to point out as firmly as possible that it's really between HER and HER CHILD and it would be highly presumptuous of her to think you (AN OUTSIDER) would get into THEIR BIZ like that.

ALSO, depending on how the previous statement goes, Tell her it's all about trust here. And the worst thing she can do is flip out and act rashly as that would only CONFIRM his reason for not trusting her to tell her in the first place.

If she isn't a right crazy person, this will get her thinking, and get you back to YOUR life as quickly as possible.
Grab your ovaries and do it.

You have to tell her that it is not your place. She should ask her son. She saw it with her own eyes so why does she want to talk to you instead of him. Let him take control of his life and tell his parents himself. Give them the chance to get used to it. All you can do is support him as a friend