I do say it and will continue to say it,i don't cheat on my woman and don't expect to be cheated on. The day she is caught will DEFINITELY mark the END of the Union. Do unto others what you want done to you. As simple as ABC.

KARMA

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I have just found out that my wife has been cheating on me for at least 8 months. She suspects that i know something, but I have not confronted her yet. The reasons i am hesitant to confront her vary from financial to depending how angry and depressed i am, plotting my revenge. The question I have and why i am turning to you is that I am not really in any condition to be making life decisions right now. I would like some level headed advice as to what to do.
My wife has a second cell phone in which it is plainly obvious that the person she is texting, she is having sex with. She doesn't come home after work, instead of going to the gym, she meets him at the Days Inn. I have the reciepts of the times that she went and paid. She has a seperate bank account and a secret email account. A secret life.
I know that most of these posts are about should i forgive my wife for cheating. I say do so at your own peril. I say forgiving your wife is the risky decision. I say this because I have forgiven my wife the last time she cheated on me and that decision has landed me here, again. Last time my daughter was 12 years old when it happened and now she almost 17. Her well being was part of my decision to forgive my wife the first time, however I beleive that she is old enough now to handle Mom and Dad divorcing. At least understand it better.
PLEASE Please someone respond to my post. I am in dire need of advice. I am not thinking straight.

@ poster
"though i have decided to leave all my belonging for her, take our only daughter and leave the house for her, please what do i do?"

You have decided.

There are many things that can cause divorce, l hope you have not left your responsibilities undone as a man? Pls. at this point, what we need is what to do to amend the problem and not what to do to destroy it. Pls. my dear brother, packing from home with your daughter is not the solution right now 'cos it will worsen the matter. Sit down and think about where you have missed it that made your wife to take such a nasty action when your daughter was 12 years old and later when she became 17.
I want to believe you have done something that prompted your wife to take such a bad action. I'm not saying she's not guilty, but the problems come from both of you. It wasn't your wife that posted this but you, l will like to address you of what to do.
It is not to pack from her that matters, but what is the mind of God concerning living seperatelyfrom her? God hates divorce and the only time he permits divorce is if you' re ready to live alone without getting married to another woman, which l believe will be hard for every man to do 'cos no man can survive alone or else will die of loneliness. The bible says in Genesis 2:18, "It is not good that the man should be alone; l will make him an help meet for him. You cannot stand alone, you need a woman and not your daughter. There is nothing under the heaven, some people have gone through what you're going through and the case was settled, but not in seperartion. Call your wife and settle the case amicably btw the 2 of you. Ask her what made her to take such a step and amend the situation. The devil you;ve know is far better than the angel you've not seen nor heard about. Better is the end of a matter than the beginning there off. You might have had a glorious beginning, but what does the future has in stock for you. Pls. do not divoece her. Thank you and God bless you. This is the crucial moment that your daughter needs both of you especially her mother or else she might fall into the hands of bad guys.

This is what every man that wish to live long will pray never to experience. In this situation, pls FORGIVE. You may say why. Do you have a kid from her? And if you refuse to forgive,then divorce? Brother not a way out because this time, you may find you may find yourself in her shoes.
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Then i ask, seach yourself. Though two wrongs do not make a right. But do you have reasons why your wife shoulde'nt cheat on you?

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@ poster
there is no reason for a married nigerian woman to cheat, this only hallens in europe, My man,any woman who cheats can kill her husban, Even,if u have cheated a million times,its not a reason for her to do same, ppl,lets be real,we r nigerians,i cannot live in d same house with a cheat, its unthinkable,men can get away with it but women cannot, if she caught u cheating,she has a right to go and not to cheat, Make sure u teach her d lesson of her life,

my wife is cheating with a guy from out of the country. They are planning to meet. I know when. What should I do?

Henrietta1:

my wife is cheating with a guy from out of the country. They are planning to meet. I know when. What should I do?

GET A CAMERA RECORD AND TAKE SOME PICTURES(SECRETLY) AS EVIDENCE.

After her fling confront her with what you have(pictures), make sure she admit to the facts she did it.

Then the final decision is in your hand to stay with her or to send her away.

my man, my advice for you is just to sak her because she doesnt love you... this woman can kill you one day

Forgive her.
Love keepeth no record of wrongs (1 Corinthians 13)

ayomifull:
I agree with Scanbater tell us the real and the true story, it hardly happens that a wife with all the luxuries you claim to have will go out of the matrimonial home, looking for what?

It does happen my sister,some animals that call themselves wife this days are terrible,so loose and lost of sanity is common amongst them.they have been cheating even before married and still continues in their married life.No wonder people die anyhow this days because of cursed incured from all the abominable acts called cheating.

almondjoy:


Not really, boredom lack of a meaningful hobby can make people stray.

Kanuwilajara, before the advent of "cray cray" and capital letters

Dis is my best of your monikers. Even Ify has stucked to this name

How and why did the metamorphosis occur? Pray tell

scambater:
Tell us the real story bro, is very hard for a woman who has all of that to step out on a marriage.

Seems you don't know some naija ladies.

charsola:


It does happen my sister,some animals that call themselves wife this days are terrible,so loose and lost of sanity is common amongst them.they have been cheating even before married and still continues in their married life.No wonder people die anyhow this days because of cursed incured from all the abominable acts called cheating.

So true.