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I detest long stories, i aint in sch.

@Abbycrown


Touch call girl but i think you're in a deep shitx here, you have so much concentrated on his weaknesses (negatives) while leaving out all the things that made you agree to date him in the first place.


let me make it short, are his positives more than his negatives?

Can what you like about him sustain you through all these "dislikes"?

If not, then you're in a wrong relationship, no relationship is perfect and please do not expect magic, if you can't cope now, do not force yourself to carry on.

OP habaaaaaaaa

Tosin,you no read Shakespeare for school?lazy you


Mehn OP,walai from this your long story which you even claimed to have cut short,I deduced that
1, You are not in love with this dude(maybe you are still there for the gifts)
2,Your sister is jealous
3,The dude respects your sister and her opinions more than you.
4,The guy loves you but doesn't really know how to handle a relationship yet.
5,If care is not taken,this relationship will cause a big problem between you and your sis(if it already hasn't)

My advice is don't go into\stay in a relationship out of pity for someone,whatever that person does will never be good enough for you,your heart is not there and if I were you I'd let go,unless you are really greedy and just want the guy for his gifts and the tears he cries for you.

1st u said he was 1nce spiritcoco, which do u prefer. U seem confuse.2nd ur sister is 1 of the puzzle 2 solve,lyk u're jealous wit his relationship wit her. Ask him do he prefer her 2 u i.e how u feel. Lastly,it takes 2 4 a relationship 2 work n d question is r u doing do ur part. Look at d positive side 2

I think you already know what to do about the relationship as you have every reason (16 actually) to call it off but are still hanging on based on pity.

Although no love is perfect but obviously you don't love him so why postpone the evil day? You are only attracted to him physically but cannot bear his real nature being a former "spiri-coco", so what are you here? What attempts have you also made to help him get back on track or which one do you even prefer sef (The spiri - coco or backslider)?  

The ish here is not about dating your sister's friend but the fact that you are just managing this guy because no other guy is looking your way. I wd advise that you both save each other's time, talk over the relationship now and end this earlier if you both don't see a future together.

Wondering why guys also cry when the lady says she's no more interested

No biggie.

Since you've decided to stay with him then just keep asking nl for advice every now and then when he annoys you or you annoy him, whatever.

Ur in a red light district simples!!!

Must you date your sister's friend for crying out loud!! There's 1 thing i detest in some women; they know what their fellow girls are capable of doing, yet the fall into deepshi.t!! OP, its all your fault! Must u date a mutual friend? Didn't you know that he can also switch over to your sister when he gets tired of you?? And who knows, ur sister might be giving him private lectures and you'r busy disolving your eyeballs with tears

If the guy has that many faults, why don't you just leave him? Why come here to ask questions a 7 year old Mute would not ask?

^^ u don watch diz hollywood movie b4??

freecocoa:
Tosin,you no read Shakespeare for
school?lazy you


LOL

Shakespeare ke?